出轨演讲稿范文

参考资料，少熬夜！出轨演讲稿范文【前言导读】刀客网友为您整理编辑的“出轨演讲稿范文”精选优质范文，供您参考学习，希望对您有所帮助，喜欢就下载支持呢！ted英语演讲稿：解密爱情与出轨1i'dliketotalktodayaboutthetwobiggestsocialtrendsinthecomingcentury,andperhapsinthenext10,000years.butiwanttostartwithmyworkonromanticlove,becausethat'smymostrecentwork.whatiandmycolleaguesdidwasput32people,whoweremadlyinlove,intoafunctionalmribrainscanner.17whoweremadlyinloveandtheirlovewasaccepted;and15whoweremadlyinloveandtheyhadjustbeendumped.andsoiwanttotellyouaboutthatfirst,andthengoonintowhereithinkloveisgoing.what'tistolove?shakespearesaid.ithinkourancestors--ithinkhumanbeingshavebeenwonderingaboutthisquestionsincetheysataroundtheircampfiresorlayandwatchedthestarsamillionyearsago.istartedoutbytryingtofigureoutwhatromanticlovewasbylookingatthelast45yearsofresearchon--justthepsychologicalresearch--andasitturnsout,there'saveryspecificgroupofthingsthathappenwhenyoufallinlove.thefirstthingthathappensiswhaticall--apersonbeginstotakeonwhaticall,specialmeaning.asatruckdriveroncesaidtome,hesaid,theworldhadanewcenter,andthatcenterwasmaryanne.georgebernardshawsaiditalittledifferently.hesaid,loveconsistsofoverestimatingthedifferencesbetweenonewomanandanother.andindeed,that'swhatwedo.(laughter)andthenyoujustfocusonthisperson.youcanlistwhatyoudon'tlikeaboutthem,butthenyousweepthatasideandfocusonwhatyoudo.aschaucersaid,loveisblind.intryingtounderstandromanticlove,idecidediwouldreadpoetryfromallovertheworld,andijustwanttogiveyouoneveryshortpoemfromeighth-centurychina,becauseit'sanalmostperfectexampleofamanwhoisfocusedtotallyonaparticularwoman.it'salittlebitlikewhenyouaremadlyinlovewithsomebodyandyouwalkintoaparkinglot--theircarisdifferentfromeveryothercarintheparkinglot.theirwineglassatdinnerisdifferentfromeveryotherwineglassatthedinner参考资料，少熬夜！party.andinthiscase,amangothookedonabamboosleepingmat.anditgoeslikethis.it'sbyaguycalledyuanchen:icannotbeartoputawaythebamboosleepingmat.thenightibroughtyouhome,iwatchedyourollitout.hebecamehookedonasleepingmat,probablybecauseofelevatedactivityofdopamineinhisbrain,justlikewithyouandme.butanyway,notonlydoesthispersontakeonspecialmeaning,youfocusyourattentiononthem.youaggrandizethem.butyouhaveintenseenergy.asonepolynesiansaid,hesaid,ifeltlikejumpinginthesky.you'reupallnight.you'rewalkingtilldawn.youfeelintenseelationwhenthingsaregoingwell;moodswingsintohorribledespairwhenthingsaregoingpoorly.realdependenceonthisperson.asonebusinessmaninnewyorksaidtome,hesaid,anythingsheliked,iliked.simple.romanticloveisverysimple.youbecomeextremelysexuallypossessive.youknow,ifyou'rejustsleepingwithsomebodycasually,youdon'treallycareifthey'resleepingwithsomebodyelse.butthemomentyoufallinlove,youbecomeextremelysexuallypossessiveofthem.ithinkthatthatisadarwinian--there'sadarwinianpurposetothis.thewholepointofthisistopulltwopeopletogetherstronglyenoughtobegintorearbabiesasateam.butthemaincharacteristicsofromanticlovearecraving:anintensecravingtobewithaparticularperson,notjustsexually,butemotionally.you'dmuchrather--itwouldbenicetogotobedwiththem,butyouwantthemtocallyouonthetelephone,toinviteyouout,etc.,totellyouthattheyloveyou.theothermaincharacteristicismotivation.themotorinyourbrainbeginstocrank,andyouwantthisperson.andlastbutnotleast,itisanobsession.wheniputthesepeopleinthemachine,beforeiputtheminthemrimachine,iwouldaskthemallkindsofquestions.butmymostimportantquestionwasalwaysthesame.itwas:whatpercentageofthedayandnightdoyouthinkaboutthisperson?andindeed,theywouldsay,allday.allnight.icanneverstopthinkingabouthimorher.andthen,theverylastquestioniwouldaskthem--iwouldalwayshavetoworkmyselfuptothisquestion,becauseiamnotapsychologist.idon'tworkwithpeopleinanykindoftraumaticsituation.andmyfinalquestionwasalwaysthesame.iwouldsay,wouldyoudieforhim参考资料，少熬夜！orher?and,indeed,thesepeoplewouldsayyes!asifihadaskedthemtopassthesalt.iwasjuststaggeredbyit.sowescannedtheirbrains,lookingataphotographoftheirsweetheartandlookingataneutralphotograph,withadistractiontaskinbetween.sowecouldlookatthesamebrainwhenitwasinthatheightenedstateandwhenitwasinarestingstate.andwefoundactivityinalotofbrainregions.infact,oneofthemostimportantwasabrainregionthatbecomesactivewhenyoufeeltherushofcocai.andindeed,that'sexactlywhathappens.ibegantorealizethatromanticloveisnotanemotion.infact,ihadalwaysthoughtitwasaseriesofemotions,fromveryhightoverylow.butactually,it'sadrive.itcomesfromthemotorofthemind,thewantingpartofthemind,thecravingpartofthemind.thekindofmind--partofthemind--whenyou'rereachingforthatpieceofchocolate,whenyouwanttowinthatpromotionatwork.themotorofthebrain.it'sadrive.andinfact,ithinkit'smorepowerfulthanthesexdrive.youknow,ifyouasksomebodytogotobedwithyou,andtheysay,no,thankyou,youcertainlydon'tkillyourselforslipintoaclinicaldepression.butcertainly,aroundtheworld,peoplewhoarerejectedinlovewillkillforit.peopleliveforlove.theykillforlove.theydieforlove.theyhavesongs,poems,novels,sculptures,paintings,myths,legends.inover175societies,peoplehavelefttheirevidenceofthispowerfulbrainsystem.ihavecometothinkit'soneofthemostpowerfulbrainsy