处长培训手册DevisionHeadSeminarManual2CarrefourDepartmentHeadTrainingHewittAssociates培训目标TrainingObjectives了解如何管理我的团队Toknowhowtomanagemyteam了解如何管理时间Toknowhowtomanagemytime了解如何制定行动计划Toknowhowtomakeanactionplan3CarrefourDepartmentHeadTrainingHewittAssociatesKnowyouremployeesthecommunicationcycleaskingquestionsAssigningTasksActiveListeningTaskassignmentmatrixTaskassignmentworksheetCommunicatingExpectationsSettingObjectives了解员工沟通环提问题委派任务积极倾听任务委派矩阵任务委派工作单表明期望设立目标TEAMMANAGEMENT团队管理4CarrefourDepartmentHeadTrainingHewittAssociates培养关系BuildingRelationship信任=Trust=公正Fairness坦诚Honesty开放Openness平易近人Accessibility5CarrefourDepartmentHeadTrainingHewittAssociates管理交流ManagerialCommunication经理Manager上司HigherAuthorities下属Subordinates客户Customers同级管理者Peers6CarrefourDepartmentHeadTrainingHewittAssociates团队沟通TeamCommunication信息即能量InformationisEnergy能量可以是积极的[正极],也可以是消极的[负极]Energycanbe[+]or[-]能量的极取决于沟通意愿与态度EnergyPolarityDependsuponINTENTION积极沟通为协同工作创造了机遇FlowingPositiveEnergyCreatestheOPPORTUNITYforTeamwork7CarrefourDepartmentHeadTrainingHewittAssociatesGettingtoKnowYourEmployeesandtheCommunicationCycle了解员工及沟通环Thought想法Words&non-words言语和非言语Transmission传送Reception接收Decoding理解Feedback反馈Sender发出者Receiver接收者8CarrefourDepartmentHeadTrainingHewittAssociatesSomeFactsAboutListening倾听中存在的实际问题OnAverage,TypicalEmployee'sListeningEffectivenessinOnly25%通常,员工平均的倾听效率只有25%3/4ofwhatemployeeshearisdistortedinonewayoranother员工所听到的信息中,3/4都在某种程度上受到曲解theaveragelistenerunderstandsandretains50%ofaconversation通常,倾听者只能听懂和理解50%的谈话内容Dropsto25%forty-eighthourslater48小时后,由50%下降到25%Poorlisteningskillscancreatemisunderstandingandabreakdownoftrustbetweenmanagersandsubordinates不良的倾听技能容易引起误解,并对经理与下属之间相互信任的关系带来负面影响9CarrefourDepartmentHeadTrainingHewittAssociatesOvercomingtheCommunicationBarriers克服沟通障碍AskingQuestions提问题ActiveListening积极倾听Directing引导10CarrefourDepartmentHeadTrainingHewittAssociates交流程序技能CommunicationProcessSkills如何提问?HowtoAsk?11CarrefourDepartmentHeadTrainingHewittAssociates三种不同类型的问题ThreeTypesOfQuestions类型Types特征Features作用Usage开放式问题OpenQuestions使用“什么”、“如何”、“为什么”和“请..”等词语Use“What”,“How”,“Why”,&“Please..”不能用“是”或“否”来回答Can'tbeansweredby“Yes”or“No”发掘对方的想法和观点Drawoutothers'feelingsandopinions探究式问题ProbingQuestions更加具体化,使用“多少”、“多久”、“谁”、“哪里”、“何时”等词语Bemorespecific,using“Howmany”,“Howlong”,“Who”,“Where”,“When”,etc.缩小信息收集范围Narrowthefocus封闭式问题ClosedQuestions只能用“是”或“否”来回答Canonlybeansweredby“Yes”or“No”限制信息收集范围Restricttheinformationyoucangather12CarrefourDepartmentHeadTrainingHewittAssociates交流程序技能一:提问题CPSkills#1:AskingQuestions漏斗模式FunnelModel开放式问题OpenQuestion探究式问题ProbingQuestions封闭式问题ClosedQuestions13CarrefourDepartmentHeadTrainingHewittAssociatesExercises:HowWellDoYouKnowYourSubordinates?AskingQuestions练习:你对员工了解多少?提问HowLongHasHe/SheBeenMarried?他/她是否已婚?IfNot,DoesHe/SheHaveaFiance?如果未婚,他/她是否有对象?WhatFoodDoesHe/SheLikeBest?他/她最喜欢吃什么?WhatHobbiesDoesHe/SheHave?他/她有何爱好?WhatisHis/HerEducationBackground?他/她学历如何?WhatistheMostImportantChallengeinHis/HerWork?他/她工作中最大的挑战是什么?14CarrefourDepartmentHeadTrainingHewittAssociates不良的非语言倾听习惯IneffectiveNonverbalListeningHabits回避眼神交流AvoidingEyeContact神情茫然StaringBlankly眉头紧蹙FrowningDeeply不时地抬腕看表OftenLookingatYourWatch心不在焉[不停地四处张望]BeingEasilyDistracted[LookingAround]坐立不安[摆弄钢笔]Fidgeting[PlayingwithaPen]15CarrefourDepartmentHeadTrainingHewittAssociates不良的倾听习惯[一]IneffectiveListeningHabits#1打断别人的话InterruptingtheSpeaker经常转变话题OftenChangingtheSubject发脾气LosingTemper评论讲话人,而非对方的信息JudgingtheSpeakerRatherthantheMessage贬低讲话者DiscreditingtheSpeaker使用情绪化的言词UsingEmotionalWords16CarrefourDepartmentHeadTrainingHewittAssociates不良的倾听习惯[二]IneffectiveListeningHabits#2在头脑中预先完成说话人的语句MentallyFinishingtheSpeaker'sSentence只听信息,却不注意说话人的情感ListeningOnlyforFactandNotforFeeling当对方还在说话时,就想着自己该如何回答ThinkingaboutYourResponseWhiletheOtherPersonisStillSpeaking急于下结论JumpingtoConclusions17CarrefourDepartmentHeadTrainingHewittAssociates不良的倾听习惯[三]IneffectiveListeningHabits#3你总是/从不...Youalways/never...无所不知的态度Know-it-allattitudes说话时总叨支烟Individualswhosmokecigaretteswhiletalkingtoyou闭嘴Shutup!心胸狭窄的人Bigots你从来都不听Youneverlisten给他人施加压力Pushyindividuals你应该做的是...Whatyoushoulddois...18CarrefourDepartmentHeadTrainingHewittAssociatesListeningActively积极倾听VerbalSignals言语信号适当使用认同性词语,如:啊...、呃...等MakingSoundsLike:Ah...,Mmm...,etc.说:接着说,请再详细谈谈等Saying:Goon,Tellmemore,etc.重复关键词语RepeatingKeyPointsonWords进行复述、意译和引导Paraphrasing,Reflecting&Directing19CarrefourDepartmentHeadTrainingHewittAssociates积极倾听[一]ActiveListening#1要倾听对方话语中可能包含的四种含义FourPossibleMessagesinOne通过总结和意译来建立相互之间的理解Summarize&ParaphrasetoEstablishUNDERSTANDING总结和意译并不是简单重复ThisisNotRepeatingtheMessage也并不一定意味着赞同NorDoesItIndicateAgreement20CarrefourDepartmentHeadTrainingHewittAssociates积极倾听常用语PhrasestoDemonstrateActiveListening听起来您的意思好象是说...ItSoundsLikeWhatYouAreSayingIs...听起来您认为最重要的是...ItSoundsLikeWhatIsMostImportanttoYouIs...您的意思是说...SoWhatYouMeanIs...这么说,您最感兴趣的是...SoWhatYouAreMostInterestedinIs...您认为贵公司业务员需要...YouFeelYouOperationsPeopleWillWant...我的理解是...WhatIamHearingIs...21CarrefourDepa