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ReadingHowgoodareyoursocialskills?ContentsPostReadingIntroductionSkimmingScanningCarefulReadingLanguagePointsZx.xkLookatthepictureanddiscuss.WhatdoyouthinkaboutSocialSkills?Whatissmalltalk?Seriousorsmalltalk?1.Nowmanypeopleareholdingameeting.Tomisannouncingsomethingimportant.2.TomandMaryarehavingadrinkandtalkingsomethinginarestaurant.serioussmalltalk3.Motheristellinganinterestingstory.4.Thespeakerismakingaspeech.serioussmalltalkLookattheconversationtopicsbelowandhaveadiscussionwithyourpartner.Andthenspeakoutyouropinions.Topics:careerscarsexaminationsfilmstarsfoodmusicpoliticssporttravelweatherfilmstars,music,sport,travel,food,weathercareers,politics,examinationssmalltalkserioustalkZ.x.x.KAfterthediscussion,answerthefollowingquestions.Informalconversationaboutordinarythingsorunimportantsubjectsorlightconversationatasocialeventetc.1.Whatdoessmalltalkmean?Whatfeaturesdoesithave?2.WhatdoyouthinkistheChinesefor“smalltalk”?3.Isitaproblemifsomeonehasnosmalltalk?(orisnotgoodatmakingsmalltalk)Why?聊天Yes.Becausehewillhavedifficultyinmakingnewfriends.4.Ifsomeonewantstobegoodatmakingsmalltalk,whatshouldhedo?(students’discussion)1)MakesomepreparationsHavesomelow-riskconversationopenersready.3)Developyourlisteningskills.Don’ttalktoomuch.4)Expandyourhorizons.Trysomethingneweveryday.2)Beconfidentinyourself.Don’tbenervous.5)Keepajournal.Writedownfunnystoriesyouhear,beautifulthingyousee…6)Practiceifpossible.Talkwitheveryoneyoucomecross,fromseniorstoteenstotouristsetc.7)Remembersocialrulescanbedifferentindifferentcountries.8)Usesomeencouragingnoisesandgestures---smiling,nodding…Structure-analyzingDividethepassageintoseveralparts.Part1Para._____Part2Para._____Part3Para._____Part4Para._____1-234-78IntroductiontothebodyofthepassagebyaskingquestionsHowtodosmalltalkThesocialrulesDosanddon’tswhilelisteningWhatkindofbookitisfrom.Choosefromthelist.1.anEnglishteachingbook2.abusinesscourse3.abookwhichtellsyouwhattodoatsocialevents4.abooktohelpyouprepareforaspeakingexaminationReadthetextcarefullyandfillintheblanks.TopicGood1.___________helpyoucommunicatewellandknowhowtohaveaconversation.MethodsLearnhowtodosmalltalkThinkofarecentnewsstory.Thinkofthingstotellpeopleaboutyourstudies.Thinkof“2._____”thingsyoucanaskpeople’sopinionsabout.Thinkoftopicsthatwouldbe3.________ifyouweretalkingtostrangers.socialskillssafeavoidedMethodsDevelopyourlisteningskillsDosShowthatyouarelisteningbyusing4.___________________________________.Keepgoodeyecontact.Use5._______bodylanguage.Askformoreinformation.Don’tsLookatyourwatch.Yawnorsigh.Lookawayfromtheperson6._____________________.Changethesubject.Finishotherpeople’ssentencesforthem.encouragingnoisesandgesturespositive(who’s)talkingtoyouLearntherulesArrive7._______atapartyinsomecountries;inothercountries,youdon’tneedto.Know8.____________________andwhenyouhavetoleave.Findoutwhethertotake9._____tohostsandwhattotake.ontimehowlongyoushouldstayagiftReadthetextcarefullyagainandchoosethebestanswers.1.Whydoesonepersonnodorsmilewhentheotherpersonistalking?A.Toshowheispreparing.B.Toshowheispolite.C.Toshowheispleased.D.Toshowheislistening.2.WhatdidBenjaminDisraelimeanbysaying“Talktoamanabouthimself,andhewillspeaktoyouforhours!”?A.Peopledisliketalkingaboutthemselves.B.Peopleliketalkingaboutthemselves.C.Amanlikesspeakingtohimself.D.Amandislikesspeakingtohimself.Completethepassagebasedonthetext.Smalltalk________youformoreserious___________.Youshouldbe________andhavesome_______conversationopeners_____.Forexample,youcanthinkofarecent________ortellpeopleaboutyour______.Inordernottodamageyour_________youshouldtalkabout_______thingsandavoidtalkingaboutsome______tostrangerspreparesconversationspreparedlow-riskreadynewsstorystudiesconfidencetopics“Safe”学科网学科网Communicationisa_______process–it_______speakingAndlistening.Youwill_______peopleifyou____talktoomuch.Byusing__________noisesand_______youcanshowthatyouare_______.Youshoulduse______bodylanguage.Therearealsosomedon’ts.Forexample,youshouldn’t________fromthepersonwho’stalkingtoyouanddon’t______thesubjector____otherpeople’ssentencesforthem.two-wayinvolvesimpressdon’tencouraginggestureslisteningpositivelookawaychangefinishIfyougotoa____________inanothercountry,rememberthatsocial____canbe________.Insomecountries,youhavetoarrive______ataparty:inothercounties,youdon’tneedto._________,youneedtoknowhowlongyoushould___.Also,insomecountries,you______takeflowersofa______color,becausetheyare_______.Whateveritis,youshould_______first.socialoccasionrulesdifferentontimeInadditionstaymustn’tcertainunluckyfindout1.Haveyouevercrossedtheroadtoavoidtalkingtosomeoneyourecognize?你是否做过这样的事：看见认的人后，故意过马路以避免与其讲话。avoid避免，避开，逃避；后跟名词，代词或动名词。(1)Don’ttrytoavoidme.Wecantalkoverthematter.不要回避我，这事我们可以谈谈。(2)Johnwasembarrassedandtriedtoavoid(meeting)usthenextday.约翰很尴尬，第二天竭力回避我们。2.Doyouwanttomakemorefriendsbutlacktheconfidencetotalktopeopleyoudon’tknow?你是否想结交更多的朋友但又缺乏与陌生人交谈的信心？阅读下列各句，并试着总结lack在句中的含义及用法。1.Eventhoughtheylackedmoney,theymanagedtosendtheirdaughtertouniversity.lack作及物动词，意为“缺乏，缺少”，后接名词或代词作宾语。2.Ashisfamily