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Asisuniversallyacknowledged,nomanisanisland.Wemeetmanypeopleinourlives.Butthereisnoexaggerationtosaythatpeoplecomeintoyourlifeforareason,aseason,oralifetime.Andonlyifyoufigureoutwhichitis,canyouknowexactlywhattodoandmakearightchoice.Whenitcomestothepeoplecomingintoyourlifeforareason,itisusuallytomeetyourneedorcometoyourassistance.Bydesignorbycoincidence,theyhelpyouthroughdifficulty.Theymayprovideyouwithusefulguidance,preciousadviceorsupporttoaidyouphysically,emotionally,orspiritually.Basedonmypersonalexperience,therewasatimewhenIwaslowinspiritanddidn’tdowellintheexam.Ifeltextremelyupsetandwaslostindesperation.Worriedaboutme,myteacherhadaclosetalkwithme.Itwashiswordsthatencouragedmeandhelpedmemakeupmymindtoworkhardandmakeachange.Eventually,Imadeagreatprogress.ThepersonwasagodsendtomeandIappreciatedhishelp.However,Ineedtobeawareofthefactthatmydesireisfulfilled,hisworkisdone,anditishightimethatIshouldtakeastandandmoveon.Whenpeoplecometoyourlifeforaseason,itisbecausethatyouhavetospendtime,growandlearntogetherwiththem.Maybetheyareyourclassmatesorfriends.Westudytogetherandontheweekends,weplayandlaughwiththem.Weworkandsweattogetherandsometimestheygivemeanunbelievableamountofjoy.Thankstothoseguys,theybrightenedmydaysjustlikethesunshineandhelpedmegetridofloneliness.Ireallymisstheolddays.Theyareshortbutprecious.Lifetimerelationshipsteachuslifetimelessons.Usuallyweneedtomakeeffortsandsacrificeourselvestobuildasolidemotionalfoundation.Andweknowexactlywhetheritisworthwhileornotwhenwemeetthatperson.Andwhatweshoulddoistoacceptthelessonandlovethepersonanyway.Itissaidthatthehappiestpeopleontheplanetarenotthosewholiveontheirowntermsbutthosewhochangetheirtermsfortheonetheylove.AsfarasIamconcerned,sometimeswhenwemeetsomeone,it’shardtodecidewhetherheisthepersonforthelifetimeornotbecauseofmanyreasons.Sowhatweneedtodoistobewiseandhavethecouragetofollowourheartandintuition.