外研社选修六module-1The-Wrong-Kind-of-Small-Talk公开课

Module1SmallTalkReadingandVocabularyTheWrongKindofSmallTalkReviewofImportantWordsoutspokenteasecontradictmessymatureacquaintanceB.Sayingexactlywhatyouthink,evenifithurtspeopleA.fullygrownanddevelopedD.laughatC.tosaythattheoppositeistrueF.unpleasant,confusedordifficulttodealwithE.apersonthatyouknowbutwhoisnotaclosefriendReviewofImportantPhrasesasaconsequenceItis/wasnocoincidencethatWhatacoincidencebeduebecautiousaboutbemodestaboutdiscouragesb.fromdoingsth.因此，结果真巧不是巧合预期对。。。谨慎对。。。谦虚阻止某人做某事Nicetomeetyou,mynewclassmate,buthowtallareyou?What’swrongwiththesmalltalk?Lead-in……Lead-inWhat’swrongwiththesmalltalk?Youlookquitecute,mynewroommate.Doyouhaveaboyfriend?smalltalk：informalconversationaboutthingsthatarenotimportantsmalltalk：lightconversationthatpeoplemakeatsocialoccasionsaboutunimportantthingssmalltalk：politefriendlyconversationaboutunimportantsubjectsDefinitionsandFeaturesofSmallTalkPre-reading:TheWrongKindofSmallTalk•Whatkindofsmalltalkcanbecalledthewrongkind?Theonethatmakesothersembarrassed/angry/upset/awkward/uncomfortable…Pre-reading:Readthepassagequickly,divideitintotwopartsandfindthemainideaofeachpart.Part1(para.1-para.2)Part2(para.3-para.22)abriefintroductiontoEstherherwrongkindsofsmalltalkTheWrongKindofSmallTalkFast-readingName:______________________Profession(职业):__________________Character:___________________Motto:_______________________________________Majorshortcoming:____________________________EstherGreenbaumasaleswomanoutspokenEverytimeIopenmymouth,Iputmyfootinit.acompleteabsenceofsmalltalk（我一张嘴就使人难堪）Detailed-readingExercise：1.Whichsentencecanbereplacedby“WheneverIsaysomething,Ialwaysmakemistakesandmakepeoplefeelawkwardanduncomfortable.”EverytimeIopenmymouth,Iputmyfootinit.2.Itwasnocoincidenceeitherthatshewasn’taverygoodsaleswoman.A.Itwascertainthatshewasn’tagoodsaleswoman.B.Itwassurprisingthatshewasn’tagoodsaleswoman.Z.xxkFindouttheexamplesofherwrongkindofsmalltalk.1.Esthervs.a_______woman2.Esthervs.a_______wholooks______3.Esthervs.a_________whoisgoingthrougha___________4.Esthervs.a______withanew_______5.Esthervs.afamous_______6.Esthervs.a__________whohasgotanew_____milesaway7.Esthervs.anold____________atthepartymaturetypistheavy/fatsalesmanmessydivorceclerkhairstylewritercolleaguejobschoolfriendWhat’swrongwithheroneachoccasion?Detailed-reading(pairwork)Occasionswrongkinds1amaturewoman2atypist3anacquaintance,asalesman4aclerkShemadeherawkwardbyaskingherage,andsaidshelookedold.Sheteasedherbysayingshewaspregnant,whichmeantshelookedfat.Shefailedtocheerhimupbysayingnoonelikedhiswife.Sheaskedthecostofherhairstyle,andshemeantthatherhairstylewasn’tnice.5.afamouswriterGuessthemeaning:WhatmaythefamouswriterthinkwhenEsthersays“You’rewritingabookandI’mreadingone!”Aretheythesamething?6.amodestcolleague1.“Iguessthecompanychosemesothey’dgetsomepeaceintheoffice”means:A.Thecompanywantstogetridofme.B.Iamfullofenergy,andthecompanythinkshighlyofme.2.No.Iguesstheychoseyoutodiscourageyoufromspendingyourwholecareerwithus.A.Thecompanydislikesyou,andsodowe.B.Youaresoexcellentthatyoumoveuptoahigherposition.Z.xxkOccasionswrongkinds7anoldschoolfriendShesaidherhusbandwasuglyandinterruptedher.----Let’sdotherightkindofsmalltalk!◆Usepositivebodylanguage◆becautiousaboutothers’feelingsandnottoembarrasspeople◆choosetheappropriatetopics(DON’TMENTIONmoney,age,weight,marriage)◆apologizetoothersifhurttheirfeelings◆showpositiveenergy★Trytobeapersonwithgoodskillsofsocialcommunication.★Onlybylearningsocialskillswellcanwegetalongwellwithothers,liveinharmonyandmakemorefriends.◆Writeane-mailtoEstherandgivehersomesuggestionsonsmalltalk.◆Ifyouwanttoknowmoreaboutsocialskills,youcanclick: