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X：Youseemstowearasadface,whathappened?C：Ihavesometroublewithmyfriend…Ifeelconfusedaboutit…Hey,whatdoyouthinkfriendsare,whatshouldfriendshipbe?X:Well…AsfarasI’mconcerend,friendsaretheraysofsunshineenlighteningourlives.Theyacceptwhatweare,theywilllistentouswhenwewanttospeak,andwipeoureyeswhenwecry,takecareofuswhenwe’reseak.Generallyspeaking,Iwouldliketomakefriendswithsomeonewhoareeasy-goingandenthusiastic.Whyareyouconfusedaboutit?Whatdoyouexpcectfromafriend?C:Asthesayinggoes“Afriendinneedisafriendindeed”,Iconsiderehonestyasanessentialpartofanyrelationship.Iprefertomakingfriendswithconsiderateandhonestpeople.Wesharenotonlyhappiness,butalsosorrow.Becides,Ithinkarealfriendshouldalsobeabletosharehappymoments--withoutfeelingjealous.Butinuniversity,itseemslikeeveryonelivesinaindividualworld.X:Maybeyoucantrytopayattentiontopeoplearoundyou,understandtheirmood,andthenaccesstotheirworld.Friendshipnotonlymeanscompanyandassistance,atmosttimes,itrequiresunderstanding,tolerantandforgiveness.Itmaynotbeperfectandflawless,butitisstillthetreasureofourlivesallthetime.C:Yes,soitis.Amandependsuponhisparentsathomeanduponhisfriendsabroad.Innowadays,it’snotwisetogoitalone.Withoutfriends,itisdifficultforustomoveevenasinglestep.Maybethebiggestproblemformeisshyness,Ifeelnervouswhentalkingwithgirls.X:Butnowyouaretalkingwithme.Differentsexes,agesandsocialpositions,allofthemarenotobstacles.Whenyouwanttomakefriendwithsomeone,trytofindoutthingsyoutwohaveincommon,ordiscussaboutsomethingheorsheisinterestedin.IbelievethatIfIamhonest,friendshipwillbesincere.