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A：Marriageisoneofthemostimportanteventsofpeople'slives.sowealwaystreatitverycautiously.Andnodoubtwhatwepaythemostattentiontoischoosingasatisfactorymanorwomantomarry.Whatkindofpersonwouldyouliketomarry?B：Perhapswemaytalkaboutitaccordingtotheletter“marriage”.ThefirstletterMisformoney.Iguessthatnoonecandenythesignificanceofmoneyinmarriage.Thesenseofhappinessisbuiltoncertainmaterialbasis,thoughsomepeoplesaydon'tmarryformoney.Thesecondletterisforability.Abilityisthewaytomakingalivingaswellasanelementofcharm.Itseemsthatmanpaymoreattentiononhisspouse'sability.TheletterRstandforright.Heischarming,cool,handsome,excellent…Sheispretty,cute,graceful…ThewisewomenchoosetheirMr.right.Iisforindependent.itrefersthatheorsheshouldbeabletotakecareofhimselforherself.Youaresearchingforawife,notadaughter.A：Itseemslikemoreandmoregirlswanttomarryaforeigner.Iamoneofthem.Well,Ithinkthebestthingisthattwopeoplefallinlovefinallygettogether.Also,goodthingslikecangoandliveinanothercountry,learndifferentcultures,knowhowpeoplethinkandbehaveoverthere,whentheyhavechildren,canteachthemthebestthingsfrombothside.Tomarryaforeignermakeyoumoreunderstanding,becauseonlybythat,twopeoplefromdifferentcountrycanbetogetherhappilyeverafter.Don'tyouthinkso?C：Ofcourseweshouldlookforonewhoweloveandbywhomwearelovedinreturn.Afterall,eachofushasonlyonelife.Andloveisthemostessentialelementofafulfilledlife.Aguywhosharessomeofmyinterestssothatatleastwewon'tbeboredandcanhaveagenuinelygoodtimetogether.forexample-camping.Ihateit.Wewouldhaveproblemsifitwerehispassion.Ifonlythereisaslightesetchance,Ithinkoneshouldnotgiveupthesearchfortruelove.Love,KathleenCouldn'tagreemore.Lovemakestheworldbeautiful.Ifyourheartisfullofloveandaffection,youwillfindyoucanalmostgoeasilywitheverythingandeveneveryone.Andeventuallyyou'resuretofindyoureverlastinglove.Well,whatdoyouthinkiscrucialforahappymarriage?D：Ithinkthemutualtrustmakesahappymarriage.Firstly,mutualtrustisthemostbasicemotionalqualitybetweenamarriedcouple.Secondly,mutualtrustisthemostimportantfactortokeepalongandhappymarriage.Lastly,mutualtrustistheonlythingonewifeoronehusbandneedswhentheyareintrouble.SoIthinkmutualtrustisoneofthemostimportantelementstomakeahappymarriage.B：Talkingabouthowtothemarriagehappy,differentpeopleholddifferentopinions.Forme,Ibelievethatcommunicationisvital.Marriagemeansyouarenotaloneanymore.Youaresupposedtosharetheopinions,feelings,hobbiesandmanyotheraspectsinyourlifewithyourhusbandorwife，otherwisethismarriagehaslostitsrealmeaning.Alsoifyoualwayshideyourfeelingstowardhimorher,themarriagecanhardlylastlong.Inthisway,Ibelievethatcommunicationleadsahappymarriage.What'smore,youshouldtrytounderstandyourpartnerandconcernwhatheorsheneeds,doyourbesttohelpovercomethedifficultiestogetherandhandinhandcreateabetterlifeA：Mutualunderstandingiscriticaltothesuccessofmarriage.Asasayinggoes:Marriageisthegraveforlove.Toacertainextent,ithassomepointinit,becauseloveinmostcaseisromanticandtheloveronlyseethebrightsideofhisorherpart,butthemarriageinvolvesmorevulgarthings.Duringthedailylife,younotonlydiscoverhisorherbrightside,youmayalsobereluctanttofindsometimesheorsheoffensivetoyou.Therefore,mutualunderstandingisprettyimportanttomaintainagoodmarriage.C：Iagreewithyou.Withoutit,thecoupleswillonlycomplaineachotherwhenconfrontedwithconflictsbetweenthem.Astimegoesbyandthetensionexists,moreoftenthannot,themarriagewilleventuallyfallcollapsed.Sothemostandforemostthingthatacoupleshouldkeepinmindisthatthepreciouslovethatbindthemtogether.Ifnotforthat,howcouldtheygettoknowandfallinwitheachother?D：Inmyopinion,Whenweareyoungandfallinlovewecansometimeshavetoohighexpectationsforourselves.Wewouldlikeeverythingtobeperfect.Wethinkofourfuturetogetherforeverandhopethatonedaywewillinfacthaveafairytaleweddingandthereforelivehappily.Formostcouplesloveandmarriagecanbeafairytale.Wakinguptogetherinthemorninglookingforthatfirstsmileoftheday.Thisalonecanputyouonahighpedestalfortherestoftheday.Sharingbreakfasttogethercanalsobefun.Thenwhenyoureturnhomefromworkandcannotwaittoseeeachotherthereissomuchtotelloneanotherthat,withoutrealizingit,youarebecomingcloserandclosertoeachother.Hence,astablerelationshipisgrowingallthetime.Liveissuchawonderfulthing.