Love-is-a-Fallacy-[presentation](爱是谬误)

UnitFiveLoveIsaFallacy---byMaxShulmanLoveIsaFallacyistakenfromTheManyLovesofDobieGillis”publishedin1951andbringstolightissuesofthedayincludingthestereotypingofwomen.Init,MaxShulmandemonstratesawitandclarityoflanguage.MaxShulman(1919-1988)OneofAmerica’sbestknownhumorists,awriterofmanytalents.FirstdelvedintotheworldofwritingasajournalismstudentattheUniversityofMinnesota.Maxwasalsotheworld'smostunderratedromanticpoet.Helovedtoincludepoetryinhisnovels,usuallytohilariouseffect.MaxShulman(1919-1988)HebeganwritingDobieGillisstoriesin1945forvarioushumormagazines.In1951,thesewerecollectedandpublishedasabookentitledTheManyLovesofDobieGillis”,fromwhichourtextistaken.MaxShulman(1919-1988)In1959,ShulmanpublishedanothervolumeofDobiestories,IWasATeenageDwarf.Thatsameyear,ShulmancreatedandproducedTheManyLovesofDobieGillisTVseriesforCBS.Theshowhadarunof147episodesbetween1959and1963.Shulman’sotherworksBeforehistwoDobiebooks,Shulmanhadalreadywrittenfourothersuccessfulnovels:“BarefootBoyWithCheek“《无礼的赤脚少年》,“TheFeatherMerchants“《衣冠楚楚的商人》,TheZebraDerbySleepTillNoon.AftertheDobiebookshewrote“RallyRoundTheFlagBoys“《孩子们，团结在旗帜周围吧》,whichbecameabest-sellerandthenamoviestarringPaulNewman,JoanneWoodward,JoanCollins,MaxShulman'slastnovelsMaxShulman'slastnovelswereAnyoneGotAMatch?,abitingsatireaboutcigaretteadvertisingontelevision,TatumsSmokeMildLikeanInnocentChild!andthenfinallyhissemi-autobiographicalPotatoesAreCheaper.QuotationsfromDobieGillis(1)“MynameisDobieGillisandIlikegirls.WhatamIsaying?Ilovegirls!Love‘em!Beautiful,gorgeous,soft,round,creamygirls.Now,I’mnotawolf,mindyou.No,youseeawolfwantslotsofgirls,butme?Well,Ijustwantone.Onebeautiful,gorgeous有魅力的,soft,round,creamygirlformyveryown.That'sallIwant!Onelousygirl!ButI'lltellyouasad,hardfact.I'mnevergonnagetagirl.Never.Why?Becausetogetagirlyouneedmoney.Andstandingbetweenmeandmoneyisapowerfulobstacle:aPOWERFULobstacle!QuotationsfromDobieGillis(2)Dobie,wantsalittlecutie,Dobie,wantsalittlebeauty,DobiewantagaltocallhisownAnysize,anystyle,anyeyes,anysmile,anyJean,anyJane,nayJoan.OhDobie,wantsagirlwhoisdreamy,Dobie,wantsagirlwho'screamy,Dobie,wantsagirltocallhisown.Issheblond,isshetall,isshedark,isshesmall,IssheanykindadreamboatatallNomatter,he'shersandhersalone.Definitionofloven,astrongfeelingoflikingsomeonealotcombinedwithsexualattractionv,tohaveastrongfeelingofaffectionforsomeone,combinedwithsexualattraction“Love”insomeotherlanguages爱armour,aimer;liebeAboutloveLoveis…Lovemeans…Loveimplies…Loveentails…Loveinvolves…Lovecan…Loveismeanttobe/todo…SomemeaningsofauthenticlovefromIneverknewIhadachoiceLovemeanshavingaresponsibilitytowardthepersonIlove.LovemeansgrowthforbothmyselfandthepersonIlove.LovemeansmakingacommitmenttothepersonIlove.LovemeanstrustingthepersonIlove.SomemeaningsofauthenticloveLovecantolerateimperfection.Loveinvolvesseeingthepotentialwithinthepersonwelove.Inlovetheparadoxoccursthattwobeingsbecomeoneandyetremaintwo.SomemeaningsofauthenticloveLovemeansthatIknowthepersonIlove.I’mawareofthemanysidesoftheotherperson—notjustthebeautifulsidebutalsothelimitations,inconsistenciesandflaws.LovemeanshavingrespectforthedignityofthepersonIlove.Icanseeyouasaseparateperson,withyourownvaluesandthoughtsandfeelings,andIdon’tinsistthatyousurrenderyouridentityandconformtoanimageofwhatIexpectyoutobeforme.Icanallowandencourageyoutostandaloneandtobewhoyouare,andIavoidtreatingyouasanobjectorusingyouprimarilytogratifymyownneeds.LoveQuotesLovecomesinasecond,andgoesatthesamespeed.Ifyoujudgepeople,youhavenotimetolovethem.Thefastestwaytoloseloveistoholdittootightly,andthebestwaytokeepitistogiveitwings.Thesupremehappinessinlifeistheconvictionthatweareloved.LoveQuotesLoveisfriendshipsetonfire.-unknownLoveisanidealthing,marriagearealthing.GoetheTobeinloveismerelytobeinastateofperceptualanesthesia.“H.L.MenckenItwasimpossibletoloveandtobewise.BaconSometimesloveisstrongerthanaman'sconvictions.IsaacBashevisSingerLoveisthemasterkeythatopensthegatesofhappiness.OliverWendellHolmesMaybeloveislikeluck.Youhavetogoallthewaytofindit.“RobertMitchumLoveislikewar:Easytobeginbuthardtoend.AnonymousLoveconsistsinthis,thattwosolitudesprotectandtouchandgreeteachother.RainerMariaRilkeWhereloveis,noroomistoosmall.TalmudToloveistoreceiveaglimpseofheaven.KarenSundeAlovesongisjustacaresssettomusic.SigmundRombergLoveisanactofendlessforgiveness,atenderlookwhichbecomesahabit.PeterUstinovLoveislikeaviolin.Themusicmaystopnowandthen,butthestringsremainforever.unknownFunnyLoveQuotesIknowthatsomewhereintheUniverseexistsmyperfectsoulmate--butlookingforherismuchmoredifficultthanjuststayingathomeandorderinganotherpizza.Iwasnauseous讨厌的andtingly刺痛的over.IwaseitherinloveorIhadsmallpox痘CuteLoveQuotesLOVE:Theirresistibledesiretobeirresistiblydesired.MarkTwainI'mnotrushingintobeinginlove.I'mfindingfourthgradehardenough.Regina'Age10'Loveisfoolish...butIstillmighttryitsometime.Floyd'Age9'AChinesepoem有关爱的谬误丁义明我不敢爱你不是我不爱你而是我爱了你便怕失去了你DiscussionWhatisyourunderstandingoftruelove?W