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SingleorMarriedNowadays,withthedevelopmentofthesociety,greatchangeshavetakenplaceinpeople’smind.Forexample,thequestiontoselectsingleormarriedwithtoday’ssocialpressuresurge.Singleormarried,thisisaquestion.Inmyopinion,therearestillalotofpeoplethattheyareeagertohavetheirownhappymarriage.Ifthisisnotthecase,EleanorRigbywon’tpickupthericeinthechurchwheretheweddinghasbeen.Ifthisisnotthecase,therewillbesomeunmarriedpeoplecrazyfortheluckyflowerswhichisthrownfromfromthebrideintheirfriend’sweeding.WhenIfacethequestionaboutsingleormarried,Iwillnothesitatetochoosetogetmarried.Firstly,IwanttogetmarriedbecauseIdon’twanttoletmylifeisfulloflonely.Secondly,whenIfacedwithdifficulties,IknowthatthereisawomanIlovedtosupportme.Weovercomethedifficultieswithourcommonefforts.Moreover,Iwanttohaveachild,ifIchoosetobeasingle,Iwon’tknowthefeelingofafatherforever.Nomatterhowsinglepeopleaginggracefullyandpassawaygracefully,theywillleavesomeregrets.Beforetheirbed,therearen’totherpeopleinadditiontothemedicalworkerswhentheyleave,noson,nodaughter,nowife,leavingthisworldinsilence.Ithinkthevalueofmarriageisstillalot,atleastIwon’tleavesomeregrets.TreatorLetDie?InShakespear’s“Hamlet”,thereisaclassicline:Tobeornottobe,thisisaproblem.Thissentencelikestheproblemthatthedoctorsfacedintheworld:Treatorletdie,thisisalsoaproblem.Medicalhasmadeagreatprogressinmodernsociety,butitalsohasbecomeadouble-edgesword.Theseletdoctorsfacethedilemma.Fromthelaw,professionalethicsandpublicopinionmakedoctorsfacingadifficultsituation.Makingthechoiceoftreatornottreatisthebasicquestioninmodernmedicine.Inmyopinion,allproblemsshouldn’ttreatasthesame.Weshouldtreatdifferentproblemswithdifferentstandards,soshouldmedical.Ofcourse,thisisnottosaythatdoctorscango-as-you-pleaseoverthepatients’life.However,ifthecostofthesavingpatientsistoletthepatientsfacedwithgreatpainintheirrestlife,thedoctorsshouldbewellconsidered.Firstly,theyshouldsolicittheopinionsofthepatients.Becausethelifebelongtothepatients,itistheirownrightsthathowtomakeadecision,soweshouldrespecttheirdecisions.Secondly,doctorsalsoneedtosolicittheopinionofthepatients’families.Because,ifthepatientmadeadecidedtogiveuptreatment,whichmeansthattheirfamilies’loveoneswillbesoontoleave,anditisalsoakindofsadforfamilies.Lastbutnottheleast,weshouldalsoconsiderthelegalrequirements,cannotcrossthelawtomakeadecision.Asmedicalscientistspushbackthefrontiersoftherapy,thedilemmawillcontinuetoexist.Inmyopinion,thisisnotaquestion-treatorletdie-thatdoctorsshouldbethink,thegovernmentandsocietyshouldparticipateinit.Onlyinthisway,wecanbettersolvethisproblem.