the relationship between parents and child

李嘉欣陈晓琳徐娅婷What’swrongwithyouandyourchild?Q2:Doyouoftenbeinconflictwithyourparents?Q3:Doyoufeelthatyourparentsareinterferingtoomuchinyourdailylife?Q4:Doyouthinkthatyoulacksrespectinfrontofyourparents?Q5:Howmuchdoyouknowaboutyourparents?Q1:Howoftendoyoutalktoyourparentsaboutyourlifeandcollege?Parent-childRelationshipProblemsPoorCommunicationViolenceBehavioralProblemsUnawareofbothsides’InterestsWhosefault?CONTENTHowdotheconflictsusuallybreakout?Whatarethetypicalsymbolsoftheconflicts?Whyareteenagersinpubertymorelikelytohaveconflictswiththeirparents?010203WHATRebellingagainstparentalcontrolAchieveindependenceHavedifferentopinionsFormtheirmoralcodePullingawayfromtheirparentsTryondifferentlooksandidentitiesDifferfromtheirpeersResultinepisodesofdistressandconflictwithparentsHOWWHYABTheyarefightingtochangetheirrelationshipwithaparent,tomakeaparentseethattheyarenotthechildtheparentthinkssheknowsTeensclarifyanddemandrecognitionforthenewpersontheyseethemselvestobe-oronthewaytobeing.Teenagers’realfocusisonaparent’sacknowledgementofhismaturity,capabilityandhumanvalue.CWHYegotisticalselfishsnobbishTheycannotputthemselvesintheshoesoftheparentsandunderstandtheirparents.DParentalfactorsParentalfactorsTherelationshipbetweentwopeopleorgroupsisthewayinwhichtheyfeelandbehavetowardeachother.——CollinsEnglishdictionaryTootightcontrolLackofattention&poorcommunicationFamilyethicaleducationParentalfactorsIgnorechildren’self-awarenessExpect&requirehigherachievementWorkingrequirementTraditionalfatherstatusDisciplineissuesLackofmutualrespectParentalfactorsIgnorechildren’self-awarenessExpect&requirehigherachievementTootightcontrolParentalfactorsLackofattention&poorcommunicationWorkingrequirementTraditionalfatherstatusLackofattention&poorcommunicationAlackofattentioncancauseproblems,includingdisplaysofacting-outbehaviorsintheparent-childrelationship.——childdevelopmentassistantspecialistDeborahRichardsonatOklahomaStateUniversity'sCooperativeExtension.LackofAttentionPoorCommunicationEffectivecommunicationisessentialinbuildingastrongparent-childrelationship.——ResearchconductedbyscholarsattheVirginiaCooperativeExtensionParentalfactorsFamilyethicaleducationDisciplineissuesLackofmutualrespectFamilyethicaleducationAdolescencecanbeafrustratingtimeforbothparentsandteens,asparentsrealizethatolddisciplinarystrategiesnolongerwork,andteensstruggletobalancetheirneedforindependencealongsideparentalrules.——TheAmericanPsychologicalAssociation.DisciplinaryissuesLackofMutualRespectManyparent-childrelationshipsbreakdownbecauseofthepowerstrugglesthatrevolvearoundrespect.——JohnPeterson,Psy.D.,afamilypsychologistSuggestionsConversation※Promoteexpressionoffeelings.※Facilitateself-explorationandidentitybuilding.※Identifyproblemsandsolveconflicts.※Communicateinterest,understandingandempathy.Respectchild'schoicesandprivacyChildrenreachoutforindependenceatayoungage,andparentscanhelptofosterthosedecision-makingskillsbybeingsupportiveandevenlookingtheotherwayonoccasion.Putyourselfinyourparents’place