ThemostvaluabletraditionofmyfamilyThere'sonethingnobodycandeny,whichistheinfluenceonusofourfamilytraditions.Itisaccumulatedslowlyinlife,maybeatfirstwedon'tawarethat,thentimegoesby,wewillfinallyfindoutthattraditioniseverywhereinourlives.IcomefromanaveragefamilyinChina.Notlikeotherfamilies,myfatherisgentle,whilemymotheristheseriousone.WhenIwasalittlegirl,Ialwayswentaftermyfather.Myfatherplaysanimportantroleinmylife.Inmymemoryofthechildhood,Hetookmetohospital,sentmetoschool.evennow,whensomethinggoodorbadhappensinmylife,heisthefirstpersonIwanttotalkto.Themostvaluabletraditionofmyfamily,whichalsoisthebiggestinfluenceonmeisthatmyparentsletmelearnedthatIshouldbegratefultomylife.Myfathersaid:howevermeanyourlifeis,meetitandliveit;donotshunitandcallithardnames.Loveyourlife,poorasitis.OnceIaskedhim:Haveyoueverregretaboutthingsyouhaddoneorwantedtodevelopatotallydifferentlife?NoHereplied,Iamcontentwiththecurrentlife.Ihaveyou,myfamily,normalbutwarm.Iappreciateallthesethings.Iamverygratefultothemforteachingme.Theyletmeknowtherightsandwrongsinmylife,andwhateveritis,lovemylife.NomatterhowfarIamawayfromhome,theyloveme,andlightalampformeforever.