love_and_marriage(爱情与婚姻)

&1.AboutLove2.AboutMarriage3.TheRelationshipBetweenLoveandMarriage4.AboutDivorceContent2020/1/26爱情可以排除万难，排除之后，又有万难。——张小娴“Menalwayswanttobeawoman’sfirstlove---womenliketobeaman’slastromance.”——OscarWildeSomequotesaboutloveEverymanisapoetwhenheisinlove.(Plato,ancientCreekphilosopher)每个恋爱中的人都是诗人。(古希腊哲学家柏拉图)WhichlovestorydothesepicturesdescribeWhatisthelove?•Differentpeopleindifferenttimehavedifferentdefinitionstolove.Nowadays,peopledefineditas:basedoncertainmaterialconditionsandthecommonidealoflife,twopeopleintheirheartformthemostsincereadmirationforeachother,andeagertobecomehis\herlifelongpartner.Itisthestrongest,moststableandspecificfeelings.Theessenceoflove“L”－Loyal（忠诚）Beloyaltoyourlover,whichisessentialforthetruelove.Withoutloyalty，lovewouldnotexist.“O”－Observant（用心）Itisthebridgeoflove,whichcanleadonetothedepthsofthesoulofanother.Tounderstandlovebyyourheart,itcanmakelovemoresolid.忠于你的另一半，这是真正的爱情必不可少的，没有忠诚也不会有爱情.用心是爱情的桥梁，通过它能到达彼此心灵的深处。用心去理解爱情，才会让爱情更加的牢固.“V”－Valued（尊重）Whenyouhavedisputeinsomething,youcannotimposeyourownwillonhe＼she.Youshouldrespectehis＼heropinionorchoice.“E”－Excuse（宽容）Thereisnoperfectmaninthisworld，andnoonewillnevermakemistakes,forgivinghis\hershortcomingsandmistakes,whichcanmakelovemorelonger.当你们有分歧时,你不能把自己的意志强加于他＼她,而应尊重他＼她的观点,尊重他＼她的选择.世界上没有完美的人，也没有人永远不会犯错，原谅他她的缺点和错误，可以让爱情更持久.ILOVEYOU•I—independence•L—listen•O—obligate（付出）•V—valued（尊重）•E—excuse•Y—yearn（想念）•O—oath(誓言)•U—understand８０２３ＬｏｖｅｉｎｎｕｍｂｅｒthelovequestionWhowillchoose,theonewholovesyou,ortheoneyoulove?tolove，ortobeloved，that’saquestion2020/1/262020/1/26Difficulttochoose,butIhopeIcanfindoneIlove,andshealsolovesme.Itwillbebetterifshelovesmedeeply.2020/1/26Chooseonewholovesyouverymuch,butyoujustlikehim/her.sometimesyoufeelveryhappy.butmostofthetime,maybeyouareunhappy.didyouinsistonyourpreviouschioce?2020/1/26Butwhywastetimeinpursuingapersonwhodosen'tloveyou?2020/1/26Peoplealwayswanttochoosetheonewhoheorsheloved,andtheyallwanttobeloved.Unfortunatelly,italwayscan'tcometrue,mayatlast,Ican'tfindtheoneIloved,andwilllosetheonewholovedme,butloveisnotmarriage，followyourinnerfeelingsistheregretless。2.AboutMarriageSomemaximaboutmarriage•Byallmeansmarry,ifyougetagoodwife,you'llbehappy,ifyougetabadone,you'llbecomeaphilosopher.(Socrates)•Menmarrybecausetheyaretired,womenbecausetheyarecurious;botharedisappointed.(OscarWilde)Whatisthemarriage?•Theformalandpubliccommitmentoftwopeopletospendtherestoftheirlivestogether.Theessenceofmarriage•LoveeachotherThisisthemostimportantinamarriage.Anditshouldincludeloyalty、responsibilityandunderstanding.•LivetogetherThisisthepurposeofmarriage.Itincludethecombinationofthespirit,thebodyandthehousehold.•HavebabyHavingchildrenisanaturaldevelopmentofmarriage,andtorejectitmayleadtocrackstomarriage.Threequestionsaboutmarriage:QQ1Whatdoyouthinktheromanticandrealistic?QQWhatdoyouthinkmarrystandfor?What'syourviewaboutmarry?Whatdoyouthinktheromanticandrealistic?Youngpeopletendtothinkthatreallifeasdramaticandfascinatingasitisinthenovelsandmovies,whilemoreexperiencedadultsdisregardthisopinion.Adultsthinkthiskindofnaivedaydreamwillonlybedestroyedbylaterexperiencesandeveryoneshouldlearntogetusedtotediouseverydaylife.What'syourviewaboutmarriage?Manycouplesliveahappylifebecausetheirmarriageisbasedontruelove.Onthecontrary,somepeoplemarryformoneyonly,andtheirmarriageisdestinetobeafailure.Marriagebasedontruelovelastsandcannotbeeasilysplitupwhereasmarriagewithoutlovedoesnotendureandmayendindivorce.Whatdoyouthinkmarrystandfor?1.Marriagestandsforsomeresponsibilities.Ifyougetmarriedwithsomebody,youshouldbehonesttohimorher,andnotdoanythingthatisnotfaithfultoyourlove.2.Loveismarriage’smother,buttherearealwayssomepoororphans.Peoplemarryfordifferentreasonsandnotonlyforlove.Maybetheymarryformoney,forpromotion,forrepayment,forparents’orsomeothers’orders,andevenjustforsex.TheRelationshipBetweenLoveandMarriagemarriageWherethereismarriagewithoutlove,therewillbelovewithwithoutmarriage——BenjaminFranklin3.Valentine'day—theBridgeBetweenLoveandMarriageWherethereismarriagewithoutlove,therewillbelovewithwithoutmarriage——BenjaminFranklinTherelationshipbetweenloveandmarriageMarriageisthegraveoflove.TherelationshipbetweenloveandmarriageLoveisthewonderfulstartofmarriageandmarrigeistheidealresultoflove.•FriendOftentravelsfrom•likehiddenlovestruggletimelong••Vindicatefailuregiveup••Successinsistfailureend••Datingnotharmonious••Harmoniousbeboringpredisposedtoward•Feelinggood•marriedThechartoflovedevelopmentFebruary14isvalentine'day.valentine'dayisafestivalofromanceandaffection,honoringlovers,andisaninterestingcombinationofpaganandChristianinfluences.It’saholidayforlovers,husbandsandwives,children,andanyoneelsewhowantstorememberthisday.What’svalentine'day★2015年4月20日VariousValentine'day•1.diaryday•2.whiteday•3.blackday•4.yellowandroseday•5.kissday•6.silverday•7.greenday•8.musicdayandphotoday•9.wineday•10.orangedayandmovieday•11.hugday•12.loveintheinternet2015年4月20日•Differentquantities—differentmeanings』1rose:loveatfirstsight,youaretheonlyone3roses:Iloveyou5roses