跨文化交际实用教程unit_6

womanmanfemalemaleInBible,GodcreatedamannamedAdam,asAdamwasverylonely,GodcreatedawomannamedEvewitharibofAdam.Fromtheancienttime,itisthoughtthatmenandwomenaredifferentandwomenareonlypartofmen.JokeappreciationforculturaldiversityAyounglady’sminiskirtwasaccidentallytornopenbyayoungman.Pleasedecidewheretheycomefromaccordingtotheirresponsestothisincident.Jokeappreciationforculturaldiversity1.Beforethemansayingsorry,thewomanboweddownandsaidinatendervoice:“Sorry,itisallmyfault.Itisallthebadqualityofmyskirt.IamsorryforthetroubleIhavebroughttoyou.”JapanOver-courtesyandmale-dominatedJokeappreciationforculturaldiversity2.Beforethemansayingsorry,thewomangavehimaname-cardandsaid:“Thisismylawyer’sphonenumber.Hewilltalkwithyouaboutyoursexharassment.Seeyouinthecourt.”AmericaAplacewherelawtalks!Jokeappreciationforculturaldiversity3.Beforethemansayingsorry,thewomancoveredthetornpartoftheskirtwithanewspaperinhandandshylysaid:“Sir,canyousendmehome?Itisnotveryfarfromhere.”Thentheyoungmanputhiscoatonthegirlandcalledataxitosendherhome.EnglandGentleandconservativeJokeappreciationforculturaldiversity4.Beforethemansayingsorry,thewomangurgledandputherhandontheman’sshoulder:“Sir,ifyoudonotmind,youcanbuymearedrosetoshowyourapology.”Thenthemanboughtheraroseandtheywenttoahoteltogethertostudymoreabouttheskirt.FranceFriendlyandromanticJokeappreciationforculturaldiversity5.Beforethemansayingsorry,thewomanflewintorageandgavethemanaboxontheface:“nigeshao,xiangqilaoniangdoufu,laozidasini.”Thenshetookoutamobilephoneanddialednumberandagangofpeoplecame.Thewholethingdevelopedintoariot.ChinahotandirritableJokeappreciationforculturaldiversity6.Themanfeltveryembarrassedandmadeasincereapologytothegirl.Butthebeautifulgirlsmiledandsaid:“Don’tworry,Sir.Iamaman,too”.ThailandLadyboy,shemanCross-GenderCommunicationUnitSix1.Learnthedifferencesofsexandgender;2.Learnthedifferencesoffeminineandmasculinecommunicationcultures;3.Learntounderstandcross-gendercommunication.Objectives1.Whenyouapplyforavisa,itis:A:GenderB:Sex2.Whenyouapplyforajobinacompany,itis:A:GenderB:Sex3.Ontheformofrecordsofvisitors,itis:A:GenderB:SexWhatisthetermforthecolumnthatrequirestheapplicanttochooseM(male)orF(female)?SexandGenderSexreferstothebiologicaldifferencesbetweenmalesandfemales.Sexisstaticandcannotbechanged.katoeySexandGenderGenderisasocialandculturalcreation.Genderemphasizesmoreondifferentrolesmalesandfemalesplayinsociety.Genderismoredynamicandcanbeconstructedinthelifetime.Whoaremoreempathetic?AGenderSurveyWhoiswomenmenNodifferencesmoreawareofwhatisgoingonaroundthemmorecompassionatemorewillingtotakerisksmorelogicalorrationalmoreaggressiveWhoiswomenmenNodifferencesmoreintelligentmoredecisivebetteratlisteningmoreemotionalmoreself-centeredbetterabletodomanythingsatonetimeboyishtomboysissycross-dressinggaylesbianSexhasthesamedimensionallaroundtheworld:he=male,she=femaleGenderhasdifferentdimensionsamongdifferentcultures:he=boy/man/gentlemanshe=girl/woman/ladyGender=sex+culture+roleinsocietySexisdeterminedbygeneticsandbiology,whilegenderisproducedbysociety.AreThereAnyDifferencesinMaleandFemale’sCommunication?---Whatisgendercultureandgenderrole?---Arethereanydifferencesinmaleandfemale’scommunication?---Whyaremaleandfemaledifferent?A.sleepingB.playingfootballorbasketballC.playingPCgamesD.playingcardswithfriendsE.reviewingthelessonsF.goingshoppingG.readingromancenovelsH.chattingontheinternetI.washingclothesHowwouldyouspendyourfreetimeonweekends?Herearesomeoftheitemstochoose:Asurveyhasbeenconductedtoaskthesamequestionstomalesandfemales:“Ifyouhadacar,whatwouldbethefirstthingyouliketodowithit?”Mostfemales’answerswerelikethis:“IfIhadacar,thefirstthingIprefertodowouldbetakingaride.Whilemostmalesanswermoreorlesslikethis:“IfIhadacar,Iwouldchecktheenginefirst.”or:”IfIhadacar,IwouldconsiderifIcouldcleaniteverySaturday.”FamilyrolesCooking,ShoppingLaundry,BabysittingWashingdishes,HousecleaningMakingthebedSewingclothesChildreneducation…Bread-makerDecisionmakingAmanagerAsecretaryAsalesmanAnurseJobrolesGenderCultureGenderculturereferstothedifferentsystemsofbeliefs,valuesandbehaviorsheldbypeopleofdifferentsexinasociety.Malesandfemalesaretreateddifferentlysincetheearlystageoflife.GenderCultureBehavelikeagirl.Asagirl,sheshouldhaveacceptedit.Girlsaregirls.Ifshewereaboy,shewouldbecomeanexcellentstatesman.Boysareboys.Beaman,notears.GenderRoleGenderrolereferstotheexpectedroleforamaleorfemaletoplayinasociety.TheshapingofgenderrolesinmostAsianculturesareheavilyinfluencedbyConfucianphilosophy.“Strictfather,kindmother.”ConfucianphilosophyMenarebelievedsuperiorthanwomen.Theyareresponsibleforpassingfamilynames.MaleoffspringGirlswereconfinedtotheinnerquartersofthehousewheretheyreceiveinstructionsinwomanlybehaviorandtasks,suchasdomesticduties,embroideryandcooking.Male-dominatedSocietyInAsiamen:ruler,protector,breadwinner;women:homemaker,child-raiser;InLatinAmericatheplaceforfemalesshouldbeathome.InEuropemaledominationInAfricaGainsareveryhardforfemalestomakeinbothpo