Should we get married in college

Shouldwegetmarriedincollege?For1)gettingmarriedhasbecomingalegalcaseinourcountry2)insomeextent,universitystudentsismatureenoughtomakeachoice3)theymayexperiencesomeromantictime,whichmaybringthemhappinessanddecreasetheirloneliness4)itcoulddecreasethenumberofthesocialproblemsthatmanypeopleevenhasnotgetmarridgeuntiltheyarethirtyorfortyyearsold5)thisistheirfreedomAgainst1)wearestillstudents,weshouldcherishourtime,wehavemanythingstolearn,whatweshoulddoittoacquireenoughknowledgeanddoajobinourstudying.2)weshouldwaitforthetimewhenwearereadyineverything,studyisthemostimportantthinginwhichwehavetoconcentrateourselves.3)weshouldmakethisdecisiononthebasisofpersonalbeliefsaswellasstatisticalfacts,notjustforemotional.4)immaturityandtheinabilitytomeetfinancialneedsaretwomainreasonswhydivorceratesdramaticallyincreasewithyoungpeopleofcollegeage.Basically,though,theresponsibilitiesofmarriagearejusttoomuchfora19-or25-year-oldtohandle.5)collegeisatimewhen,ifnecessary,IcancallmyparentsifIneedsomething.VvealreadybeentoldthatwhenIchoosetogetmarried,theresponsibilitytosupportmyselfwillbeentirelymyown.6)Youngpeoplecannotseetherealityoftheresponsibilitiesofmarriage.7)Thedemandsplacedonusduringthesefouryearsarerigorous,andtheyconsumeamajorityofourtime.8)wearenotthesamepersontodayaswewillbetomorrow,thistimeperiodcanbeconsumedwithanunstableandlonelyemotionalstate.9)youmightnotknowexactlywhatyourfuturegoalsare.10)facinganuncertainfuturemayseemarriageasawaytomakethetransitioneasier—butit’snot.11)Marriageisaboutthebiggestcommitmentyoucanimagine,andendingamarriageisadreadfulexperience.Maybemarriageisagoodthingwhilewedon'tgetit，somepeopleareeagertogetmarried.Marriageisnothingmorethanfruitofloveforthem,butaswecanseefromtheelder,astimegoeson,everythinggoesfade.Havetheyeverthoughtofthat?Marriageisreallyachallengeoflife,maybeit'stoomuchforsomepeopletoendureWhetherweshouldgetmarriedduringourcampuslifehasbeenbecomingapopularissueinrecentyears.Asacollegestudent,shallwegetmarried?Therearevaryingopinionsaboutthisquestion.Someofthecollegestudentsthinkthisisagoodnews,whileotherstakeitasathingwhichshouldnothappeninthecampus.Asitknowntomostofus,gettingmarriedhasbecomingalegalcaseinourcountryinthepasttwoyears.Butit'sreallygoodforourcollegestudentstogetmarriedwhenwestillbeingstudy?Myownopinionisthatweshouldnotdosuchathing.Foronething,wearestillstudents,whatweshoulddoittoacquireenoughknowledgeanddoajobinourstudying.Thisisourtaskaswellasresponsibility.Foranother,asastudent,wearesupportedbyourparents.Weevencouldnotearnapenny,howcanwesupplyforourownfamily.Whatdoyoutaketofeedyourwifeorhusband?It’sproperforustouseourparents'moneytosupportourfamily?Ithinknot.So,beforewedoingthingslikethis,weshouldthinkcarefully.Andconsideringwhetherisrightornottodoit.Inoneword，Idisapproveofthisissue.Ithinkitnotsuitforourcollegestudentstogetmarried.What'syouropinion?Nowadays,theproblem,somecollegestudentsfaced,maybe“ifwecanmarryincollege?Sinceourgovernmentmakesalawtoallowcollegestudenttomarry,wearenotastonishedbythemarriageinthecollegeoncemore.But,ifyouarereallyreadytomarry?Weshouldtakeourcircumstanceintoaccount,mostofushavetorelyonourparents.Wecannotearnenoughmoneytosupportourmarriage.Then,wehavetoconsiderifourstudycannotbeinfluencedbymarriage,weshouldcherishourtime,wehavemanythingstolearn.Ifwegetmarried,wemayhaveourbabies,eventheworse,itwillbeatragedyforourstudy,wehavetopaymuchtimeinlookingafterthebabies.Inmyopinion,Idon’tagreetomarryincollege,weshouldwaitforthetimewhenwearereadyineverything,studyisthemostimportantthinginwhichwehavetoconcentrateourselves.Shouldcollegestudentsgetmarried?Seriouschoices,consequencesThequestionofmarriagebeforegraduationfromanundergraduateinstitutionisadifficultaswel]asproblematicone.IfIwereapproachedbyanindividualwhowishedtobecomemarriedbeforeheorshegraduated,Iwouldhighlyrecommendnotdoingso.Iwouldmakethisdecisiononthebasisofpersonalbeliefsaswellasstatisticalfacts.Tobegin,themarriageanddivorcerateintheUnitedStatesishigherthaninanyothercountryintheworld.AccordingtoEshleman,inastudydonein1994,almost21divorcesoccurredoutof1,000marriages.AnotherproblemisthatthisratehasbeensteadilyrisingsincetheNationalCenterforHealthServicesbegantakingstatisticsondivorce.Afterobservingthesestatistics,onewouldask,“Whatdoesthisspecificallyhavetodowithindividualswhoweremarriedincollege?”Theansweristhatdivorceratespeakinwomenundertheageof19,whileinmenitpeaksbeforetheageof25.Bothoftheseagesspeakspecificallyofthoseincollegeorjustout.These,inmyopinion,arethekeystatisticspertainingtothemarriageofindividualswhileincollege.Thereasonsfordivorceinyoungpeoplearemany.AccordingtoEshleman,immaturityandtheinabilitytomeetfinancialneedsaretwomainreasonswhydivorceratesdramaticallyincreasewithyoungpeopleofcollegeage.Basically,though,theresponsibilitiesofmarriagearejusttoomuchfora19-or25-year-oldtohandle.Thisisthebeststatisticalevidenceastowhythoseincollegeshouldrefrainfromgettingmarriedbeforetheygraduate.Inadditiontotheseempiricalreasons,however,therearemorepracticalreasonswhymarriageincolle