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弟子规StandardsforBeingaGoodStudentandChild弟子规，圣人训，•StandardsforbeingagoodstudentandchildisabookthatwastaughtbyChinesesaintsandsagesoftheancientpast.首孝悌，次谨信．•Firstitteachesushowtobedutifultoyourparents,andhowtoberespectfulandlovingtooursiblings.•Thenitteachesyouhowtobecautiouswithallpeople,mattersandthingsinyourdailylifeandhowtobeatrustworthypersonandtobelievetheteachingsofancientsaintsandsages.泛爱众，而亲仁，•Furthermore,itteachesyoutoloveallequally,andtobeclosetoandlearnfrompeopleofvirtueandcompassion.有余力，则学文．•Whenyouhaveaccomplishedalltheaboveduties,youcanstudyfurthertolearnliteratureandarttoimprovethequalityofyourculturalandspirituallife.第一章：孝（入则孝）BeaDutifulChildWhenatHome父母呼，应勿缓．父母命，行勿懒．•Whenyourparentscallyou,answerthemrightaway.•Whentheycommandyoutodosomething,doitquickly.父母教,须敬听.父母责,须顺承.Whenyourparentsinstructyou,listenrespectfully.Whenyourparentsreproachyou,obeyandaccepttheirscolding;tryhardtochangeandimproveyourselfandstartanew.冬则温，夏则．晨则省，昏则定．•Inthewinter,keepyourparentswarm;inthesummer,keepyourparentscool.•Greettheminthemorningtoshowthemthatyoucare.Atnight,besurethattheyrestwell.出必告，返必面．•Beforegoingout,tellyourparentswhereyouaregoing,forparentsarealwaysconcernedabouttheirchildren.•Afterreturninghome,goandseeyourparentstoletthemknowyouareback,sotheydon’tworryaboutyou.居有常，业无变．•Haveapermanentplacetostayandleadaroutinelife.•Persistinwhateveryoudoanddonotchangeyouraspirationsatwill.亲所好，力为具,亲所恶,谨为去.•Ifwhateverpleaseyourparentsisfairandreasonable,tryyourbesttogetitforthem.•Shouldsomethingdispleaseyourparents,ifwithinreason,cautiouslykeepitawayfromthem.身有伤，贻亲忧，德有伤，贻亲羞．•Whenyourbodyishurt,yourparentswillbeworried.•Ifyourvirtuesarecompromised,yourparentswillfeelashamed.亲爱我，孝何难，亲恶我，孝方贤．•Whenyouhavelovingparents,itisnotdifficulttobeadutifulchild.•Butifyouarestilldutifultoparentswhohateyou,youwillmeetthestandardsofthesaintsandsagesforbeingadutifulchild.亲有过，谏使更，怡吾色，柔吾声．•Whenyourparentsdowrong,urgethemtochange.•Doitwithakindfacialexpressionandawarmgentlevoice.谏不入，悦复谏，号泣随，挞无怨．•Iftheydonotacceptyouradvice,waituntiltheyareinahappiermoodbeforeyoudissuadethemagain,followedbycryingtomakethemunderstandwhy.•Iftheyendupwhippingyou,donotholdagrudgeagainstthem.亲有疾，药先尝，昼夜侍，不离床．•Whenyourparentsareill,tastethemedicinefirstbeforegivingittothem.•Takecareofthemnightandday,donotleavetheirbedside.丧三年，常悲咽，居处变，酒肉绝．•Duringthefirstthreeyearsofmourningaftertheypassedaway,rememberthemwithgratitudeandfeelsadoftenfornotbeingabletorepaythemfortheirkindnessinbringingyouup.•Duringthisperiod,youshouldarrangeyourhometoreflectyourgriefandsorrow.Avoidfestivitiesandindulgenceinfoodandalcoholicdrinks.丧尽礼，祭尽诚，事死者，如事生．•Observetheproperetiquetteinarrangingtheirfunerals.Holdthememorialceremonyandcommemoratetheiranniversarieswithyourutmostsincerity.•Serveyourdepartedparentsasiftheywerestillalive.第二章：悌（出则悌）StandardsforaYoungerBrotherWhenAwayfromHome兄道友，弟道恭，兄弟睦，孝在中•Oldersiblingsshouldbefriendtheyoungerones.Youngersiblingsshouldrespectandlovetheolderones.•Siblingswhokeepharmoniousrelationshipsamongthemselvesarebeingdutifultotheirparents.财物轻，怨何生，言语忍，忿自泯．•Whensiblingsvaluetheirtiesmorethanpropertyandbelongings,noresentmentwillgrowamongthem.•Whensiblingsarecarefulwithwordsandholdbackhurtfulcomments,feelingsofangernaturallydieout.或饮食，或坐走，长者先，幼者后．•Whetheryouaredrinking,eating,sittingorwalking,lettheeldersgofirst;youngeronesshouldfollow.长呼人，即代叫，人不在，几即到．•Whentheelderisaskingforsomeone,getthatpersonforhimrightaway.•Ifyoucannotfindthatperson,immediatelyreportback,andputyourselfattheelder’sserviceinstead.称尊长，勿呼名，对尊长，勿见能．•Whenyouaddressanelder,donotcallhimbyhis“givenname”.•Infrontofanelder,donotshowoff.路遇长，疾趋揖，长无言，退恭立．•Ifyoucomeacrossanelderyouknowonthestreet,promptlyclaspyourhandsandgreethimwithabow.•Ifhedoesnotspeaktoyou,stepbackandrespectfullystandaside.骑下马，乘下车，过犹待，百步余．•Shouldyouberidingonahorseandyouspotanelderyouknowwalking,youshoulddismountandpayrespecttotheelder.•Ifyouareridinginacarriage,youshouldstop,getoutofthecarriage,andaskifyoucangivehimaride.•Ifyoumeetanelderpassingby,youshouldstandasideandwaitrespectfully;donotleaveuntilyoucannolongerseehim.长者立，幼勿坐，长者坐，命乃坐．•Whenanelderisstanding,donotsit.•Aftertheeldersitsdown,takeaseatonlyafteryouaretoldtodoso.尊长前，声要低，低不闻，却非宜．•Beforeanelder,speaksoftly.•Butifyourvoiceistoolowandhardtohear,itisnotappropriate.进必趋，退必迟，问起对，视勿移．•Whenmeetinganelder,walkingbrisklytowardshim.•Whenleaving,donotexitinahaste.•Whenansweringaquestion,lookatthepersonwhoisaskingyouthequestion.事诸父，如事父，事诸兄，如事兄．•Serveyourunclesasifyouwereservingyourparents.•Treatyourcousinsasiftheywereyourownsiblings.第三章：谨（谨而信）BeCautiousinYourDailyLife朝起早,夜眠迟,老易至,惜此时.•Getupearlyinthemorningbeforeyourparents.Gotobedatnightonlyaftertheyhavegonetosleep.•Whenyourealizethattimeispassingyoubyandcannotbeturnedback,andthatyouaregettingolderyearbyyear,youwillespeciallytreasurethepresentmoment.晨必盥，兼漱口，便溺回，辄净手．•Whenyougetupinthemorning,washyourfaceandbrushyourteeth.•Afterusingthetoilet,alwayswashyourhands.冠必正，纽必结，袜与履，俱紧切．•Youmustwearyourhatstraight,andmakesurethehooksofyourclothesaretied