Unit 13 People EQ Vs IQ

Unit13PeopleWarm-up:beard,blond,long,serious,sunglasses,teenager,thin,uniformcurly(卷的)，gymshoes(运动鞋)，middleheight,leatherjacket(皮夹克)，angry,…Examples:She’sgotlongblondhairandshe’swearingglasses.He’swearingawhitecap.Helooksveryhappy.She’swearingalightgreendress.……EQ:IQReadingTask1:WhatdoyouknowaboutEQandIQ?Giveusasmuchinformationasyoucan.EQ:EmotionalQuotient(情商)IQ:IntelligenceQuotient(智商)Task2:MakesurewhetherthefollowingquestionsarerelatedtoIQorEQ.Q1:WhenIresolvetoachievesomething,Irunintoobstaclesthatkeepmefromreachingmygoals.a.Regularlyb.Oftenc.Sometimesd.Rarelye.Almostnevera=0,b=0,c=1,d=3,d=5Q2:Pleaseenterthemissingfigure:1,8,27,()Q3:Pleaseinsertthemissingcharactertoformtwowords:SLO[]IDE.Q4:Pleasefindthefigurecontinuingtheseries:Key:bKey:64wQ6:DrinkingandDrivingcausesmanyaccidents.a.Manhasbecomemoreindustrious(勤勉的).b.Peopleworkfasterinordertoavoidunemployment.c.Chairshaveashorterlifecycle.d.Workershavemoresparetime.e.ProductivityhasincreasedKey:eQ5:Whatistheresultofplusallfiguresfrom0to25?Key:325Q7:WhatMOSTmotivates(激励)yourightnow?a.Praiseb.Challengec.Moneyd.Fame(名声)e.Solvingproblemsf.Helpingothersg.Threath.Curiosity（好奇心）ThedefinitionofEQ情商（EQ）又称情绪智力，是近年来心理学家们提出的与智力和智商相对应的概念。它主要是指人在情绪、情感、意志、耐受挫折等方面的品质。据《情商：为什么情商比智商更重要》(丹尼尔·戈尔曼“情商之父”),萨洛维(PeterSalovey)及其合作伙伴约翰·梅耶(JohnMayer)已对情绪智力给出了详细的定义，情绪智力扩展为5个主要领域：了解自身情绪;管理情绪;自我激励;识别他人情绪;处理人际关系。ThedefinitionofIQ智商(IQ)就是智力商数。智力通常叫智慧，也叫智能。是人们认识客观事物并运用知识解决实际问题的能力。智力包括多个方面，如观察力、记忆力、想象力、分析判断能力、思维能力、应变能力等。智力的高低通常用智力商数来表示，是用以标示智力发展水平。EQ:IQFiveelementsofEQ:self-awareness自我意识Motivation自我激励self-regulation自我调节Empathy移情，共感，即识别他人情绪Adeptnessinrelationships:人际关系Afigureusedtoindicatethelevelofaperson’sintelligenceaboveorbelowthatofan‘averageintellect’(IQ100).IntelligenceQuotientsarebasedonresponsestoIntelligenceTestsReadthearticleandanswerthequestions:1.Whatdoestherecentresearchsayaboutaperson’ssuccessandhis/herIQ?SuccessisnotsimplytheresultofahighIQ.2.HowdoesProfessorSaloveydescribeEQandIQ?Atwork,itisIQthatgetsyouhired,butitisEQthatgetsyoupromoted.3.WhydosomesmartstudentsendupfailingexamsaccordingtoProf.Salovey?PerhapstheirfailureisbecauseoftheirlowEQ.4.Canaperson’sEQbeimproved?WhatabouthisIQ?Canyougivesomeexamples?IQtellsyouhowsmart/intelligentyouarewhileEQtellsyouhowwellyouuseyoursmartness/intelligence.5.What’sthemeaningof“peopleskills”?Isitimportanttoimprovethemifyouwanttobesuccessfulinlife?Why/whynot?“Peopleskills”meansways/abilitiesofdoingthings.Itisveryimportanttogetthemimproved.Betterskillshelpyoudothingsmoreeasilyandmakeyousuccessful.Task3:DiscussionGroup1:Whichdoyouthinkismoreimportant,IQorEQ,onyourwaytosuccess?Why?Group2:ListsomesignsofhighEQ.Group3:WhatcanwedotoimproveourownIQandEQ?Group4:DoyouthinkEQandIQtestsshouldbeapartofjobrecruitment（求职应聘）?Why?SignsofHighEQApersonwithHighEQ:•ExpresseshisfeelingsclearlyanddirectlywiththreewordsentencesbeginningwithIfeel...•Doesnotdisguise（掩饰）thoughtsasfeelingsbytheuseofIfeellike....andIfeelthat....sentences.•Isnotafraidtoexpressherfeelings.•Isnotdominatedbynegativeemotionssuchas:•Fear,Worry,Guilt,Shame,Embarrassment,Obligation(义务),Disappointment,Hopelessness,Powerlessness（无能为力）,•Dependency（依赖性，从属）,Discouragement（气馁）•Isabletoreadnon-verbal（非语言的）communication.SignsofHighEQApersonwithHighEQ:Letshisfeelingsleadhimtohealthychoicesandhappiness.Balancesfeelingswithreason,logic,andreality.Actsoutofdesire,notbecauseofduty,guilt,forceorobligation.行为出于自愿，而不是义务、内疚、强制或责任Isindependent,self-reliantandmorallyautonomous.Isintrinsically（内在的，本质的）motivated.自我激励Isnotmotivatedbypower,wealth,status,fame,orapproval（认可）.SignsofHighEQApersonwithHighEQ:Tendstofeeloptimistic,butisalsorealistic,andcanfeelpessimisticattimes.Isinterestedinotherpeople'sfeelings.Iscomfortabletalkingaboutfeelings.…EQ标准高情商尊重所有人的人权和人格尊严。不将自己的价值观强加于他人。对自己有清醒的认识，能承受压力。自信而不自满。人际关系良好，和朋友或同事能友好相处。善于处理生活中遇到的各方面的问题。认真对待每一件事情。较高情商是负责任的“好”公民。自尊。有独立人格，但在一些情况下易受别人焦虑情绪的感染。比较自信而不自满。较好的人际关系。能应对大多数的问题，不会有太大的心理压力。较低情商易受他人影响，自己的目标不明确。比低情商者善于原谅，能控制大脑。能应付较轻的焦虑情绪。把自尊建立在他人认同的基础上。缺乏坚定的自我意识。人际关系较差。低情商自我意识差。无确定的目标，也不打算付诸实践。严重依赖他人。处理人际关系能力差。应对焦虑能力差。生活无序。无责任感，爱抱怨。一言蔽之，情商的作用就是使人能更充分地发挥智商的作用、效果。TheIQTest?网址：