Onlove(纪伯伦)Loveisthefloweroflife,andblossomsunexpectedlyandwithoutlaw,andmustbepluckedwhereitisfound,andenjoyedforthebriefhourofitsduration.爱是生命之花,出人意料的开花并无章可循;一旦遇见了就要采摘,及时享受其短暂的花期。——劳伦斯Whenlovebeckonstoyou,followhim,thoughhiswaysarehardandsteep.Andwhenhiswingsenfoldyou,yieldtohim,thoughtheswordhiddenamonghispinionsmaywoundyou.Andwhenhespeakstoyoubelieveinhim,thoughhisvoicemayshatteryourdreamsasthenorthwindlayswastethegarden.当爱召唤你时,跟随他,哪怕爱的道路艰难又险峻。当爱的翅翼围拥你时,顺从他,哪怕藏于羽翼中的剑刃也许会伤害你。但该向你倾诉时,言从他,哪怕他的声音会震破你的好梦,如同被风吹慌了林园。Forevenaslovecrownsyousoshallhecrucifyyou.Evenasheisforyourgrowthsoisheforyourpruning.Evenasheascendstoyourheightandcaressesyourtenderestbranchesthatquiverinthesun,soshallhedescendtoyourrootsandshakethemintheirclingingtotheearth.因为爱会为你戴上荆冠,也会将你钉上十字架。爱使你成长,也会替你修剪。爱会攀上你的枝头,抚惜你阳光下颤动的最柔嫩的枝条,也会潜入你的脚下,摇动你深扎于土壤的根须。Likesheavesofcornhegatheryouontohimself.Hethreshesyoutomakeyounaked.Hesiftsyoutofreeyoufromyourhusks.Hegrindsyoutowhiteness.•如同束束稻栗,爱将你束紧。他舂打你,使你赤裸;他筛分你,使你脱壳;他磨碾你,直至你色泽洁白。Hekneadsyouuntilyouarepliant;andthenheassignsyoutohissacredfire,thatyoumaybecomesacredbreadforGod’ssacredfeast.•他揉搓你,直至你柔韧顺服;然后他将你送上他的圣火,使你成为上帝盛宴上的圣饼。Allthesethingsshalllovedountoyouthatyoumayknowthesecretsofyourheart,andinthatknowledgebecomeafragmentofLife’sheart.•这些都是爱为你做的事,使你知道自己心中的秘密,从而使你的认知成为生命之心的华章。Butifyourfearwouldseekonlylove’spleasure,thenitisbetterforyouthatyoucoveryournakednessandpassoutoflove’sthreshing-floorintotheseasonlessworldwhereyoushalllaugh,butnotallofyourlaughter,andweep,butnotallofyourtears.•但是如果出于恐惧,你只想寻求爱的和平与快乐,那你只好掩饰你的赤裸,穿越爱的打谷场,进入那没有季节的世界;在那里,你将欢笑,却无法笑出所有的快乐,你将哭泣,却无法倾诉所有的伤悲。Lovegivesnaughtbutitselfandtakesnaughtbutfromitself.Lovepossessesnotnorwoulditbepossessed,forloveissufficientuntolove.•爱只有自身可以施予,爱也只有自身可以索取。爱不占有,亦不隶属;因为爱对于爱已经足够了。Whenyouloveyoushouldnotsay,Godisinmyheart,”butrather,“IamintheheartofGod.”Andyouthinknotyoucandirectthecourseoflove,forloveifitfindsyouworthy,directsyourcourse.Lovehasnootherdesirebuttofulfillitself.Butifyouloveandmustneedshavedesires,letthesebeyourdesires.•当你爱的时候,不要说“上帝在我心中”,却要说:“我在上帝心里。”不要想去引导爱,因为如果他发现你值得,他会引导你。爱没有别的愿望,只有成全自己。但若是你爱,定要有所期盼,就让这成为你的愿望吧:Tomeltandbelikearunningbrookthatsingsitsmelodytothenight.•融化如涓涓细流,对夜吟唱自己的旋律。Toknowthepainoftoomuchtenderness.•体味太过温柔敏感带来的痛苦。Tobewoundedbyyourownunderstandingoflove;Andtobleedwillinglyandjoyfully.•因自己对爱的领悟而受伤;•并甘愿欣然流血。Towakeatdawnwithawingedheartandgivethanksforanotherdayofloving;Torestatthenoonhourandmeditatelove’secstasy;•清晨醒来,让神采飞扬,感谢又一个可爱的日子;•午间休憩,默念爱的痴迷。Andthentosleepwithaprayerforthebelovedinyourheartandasongofpraiseuponyourlips.•然后,带着对心中所爱的祝福和唇边的颂歌入眠。。Theend