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AdvancedEnglish5高等教育出版社EDUCATIONPOSITIONReportAcademicSCHOOLRESEARCHFamilyCultureWhitmanManhoodLITERATUREHousesCitiesWritingDATAQualitativeAdvancedEnglish5AdvancedEnglish5高等教育出版社Unit5SUBJECT2FamilyMattersStudythesetopicsinthisunit.Differentviewsonfamilyandfamilylife1Basicconceptsofmarriageanddivorce2Familyinahistoricalperspective3高等教育出版社AdvancedEnglish5高等教育出版社ContentsofthisunitUnderstanddifferentpositionsEssayreadingSelf-studyReadingacademicargument12345Self-studyCONTENTNEXTPREVNotesUnderstanddifferentpositionsUnderstanddifferentpositionsCONTENTHOMENEXTPREVUnderstanddifferentpositionsDifferentpeopleinhistoryhavedifferentviewsonthefamilyandfamilylife.Readthequotesbelowandthencompletethematchingtask.Drawappropriatelinesforthematching.TeachingSuggestionsCONTENTHOMENEXTPREVUnderstanddifferentpositionsViewsonthefamilyandfamilylifeWhoholdsthisview?1Wehavetoacceptthisfactthatmarriage,divorce,andremarriagewillprobablybethenormalstateoffamilylifeinfuture.JamesBoswell2Ismarriagenaturaltoman?SamuelJohnso3Lovefromparentsfortheirchildrenisbasedonanimal’sinstinct.GeneralPaoli4Marriageisnotofhumannature.BertrandRussell5Eachfamilyisdifferentandtherefore,wecanhardlyunderstandwhatkindofproblemsthereareinotherfamilies.ArthurC.Clark6Marriageisanaturalbondbetweenmanandwomanwhopleaseeachother.JaneAustenCONTENTHOMENEXTPREVUnderstanddifferentpositionsViewsonthefamilyandfamilylifeWhoholdsthisview?1Wehavetoacceptthisfactthatmarriage,divorce,andremarriagewillprobablybethenormalstateoffamilylifeinfuture.ArthurC.Clark2Ismarriagenaturaltoman?JamesBoswell3Lovefromparentsfortheirchildrenisbasedonanimal’sinstinct.BertrandRussell4Marriageisnotofhumannature.SamuelJohnson5Eachfamilyisdifferentandtherefore,wecanhardlyunderstandwhatkindofproblemsthereareinotherfamilies.JaneAusten6Marriageisanaturalbondbetweenmanandwomanwhopleaseeachother.GeneralPaoliCONTENTHOMENEXTPREVUnderstanddifferentpositionsOnTuesday,March31,heandIdinedatGeneralPaoli’s.Aquestionwasstarted,whetherthestateofmarriagewasnaturaltoman.Johnson,“Sir,itissofarfrombeingnaturalforamanandwomantoliveinastateofmarriage,thatwefindallthemotiveswhichtheyhaveforremaininginthatconnection,andtherestraintswhichcivilizedsocietyimposestopreventseparation,arehardlysufficienttokeepthemtogether.”TheGeneralsaid,thatinastateofnatureamanandwomanunitingtogetherwouldformastrongandconstantaffection,bythemutualpleasureeachwouldreceive;andthatthesamecausesofdissensionwouldnotarisebetweenthem,asoccurbetweenhusbandandwifeinacivilizedstate.Johnson,1CONTENTHOMENEXTPREVUnderstanddifferentpositions“Sir,theywouldhavedissensionsenough,thoughofanotherkind.Onewouldchoosetogohuntinginthiswood,theotherinthat;onewouldchoosetogofishinginthislake,theotherinthat;or,perhaps,onewouldchoosetogohunting,whentheotherwouldchoosetogofishing;andsotheywouldpart.Besides,Sir,asavagemanandasavagewomanmeetbychance;andwhenthemanseesanotherwomanthatpleaseshimbetter,hewillleavethefirst.”…JamesBoswell1CONTENTHOMENEXTPREVUnderstanddifferentpositionsThebasisofthefamilyis,ofcourse,thefactthatparentsfeelaspecialkindofaffectiontowardstheirownchildren,differentfromthatwhichtheyfeeltowardseachotherortowardsotherchildren.Itistruethatsomeparentsfeellittleornoparentalaffection,anditisalsotruethatsomewomenarecapableoffeelinganaffectionforchildrennottheirownalmostasstrongasthatwhichtheycouldfeelfortheirown.Neverthelessthebroadfactremains,thatparentalaffectionisaspecialkindoffeelingwhichthenormalhumanbeingexperiencestowardshisorherownchildren,butnottowardsanyotherhumanbeing.Thisemotionisonewhichweinheritfromouranimalancestors.InthisrespectFreud2seemstomenotsufficiently2CONTENTHOMENEXTPREVUnderstanddifferentpositionsbiologicalinhisoutlook,foranyonewhowillobserveananimalmotherwithheryoungcanseethatherbehaviortowardsthemfollowsanentirelydifferentpatternfromherbehaviortowardsthemalewithwhomshehassexrelations.Andthissamedifferentandinstinctivepattern,thoughinamodifiedandlessdefiniteform,existsamonghumanbeings.Ifitwerenotforthisspecialemotiontherewouldbealmostnothingtobesaidforthefamilyasaninstitution,sincechildrenmightequallywellbelefttothecareofprofessionals.Asthingsare,however,thespecialaffectionwhichparentshaveforchildren,providedtheirinstinctsarenotatrophied,isofvaluebothtotheparentsthemselvesandtothechildren.CONTENTHOMENEXTPREVUnderstanddifferentpositionsThevalueofparentalaffectiontochildrenlieslargelyinthefactthatitismorereliablethananyotheraffection.One’sfriendslikeoneforone’smerits,one’sloversforone’scharms;ifthemeritsorthecharmsdiminish,friendsandloversmayvanish.Butitisintimesofmisfortunethatparentsaremosttobereliedupon,inillness,andevenindisgraceiftheparentsareoftherightsort.Weallfeelpleasurewhenweareadmiredforourmerits,butmostofusaresufficientlymodestathearttofeelthatsuchadmirationisprecarious.Ourparentsloveusbecausewearetheirchildrenandthisisanunalterablefact,sothatwefeelmoresafewiththemthanwithanyoneelse.Intimesofsuccessthismayseemunimportant,butintimesoffailureitaffordsaconsolationandasecuritynottobefoundelsewhere.BertrandRussell33CONTENTHOMEN