BodylanguageShowingourfeelingsPage2Howdoweshowourfeelingsusually?facialexpessionsgesturesPage3LookatthesefacialexpressionshappysadfrightenedangrycuriousgreedyPage4BodylanguageWhatisbodylanguage?ApowerfulmeansofcommunicationEvenmorepowerfulthanspokenlanguageWhatcanbodylanguageshow?Allkindsoffeelings,wishesandattitudes.stop!Pray/please!Hello/NicetomeetU!Page5smileshowhappinessputpeopleateaseThemostuniversalfacialexpressionPage6ThemostuniversalfacialexpressionsometimesfalseHideangerfearworrylosefacePage7Unhappyorangerfrowningturningone’sbackmakeafistandshakePage8OtherexpressionsagreementdisagreementinteresteduninterestedorboredPage9BodylanguageCulturaldifferencesGreetingsPage10VocabulariesandphrasesstatementgreetrepresentassociationdormitoryflightcuriousColombiaapproachcheekmajormisunderstandingJordandashadultspokenunspoken陈述;说明迎接;问候代表;象征社团;联系宿舍飞行;航班好奇的哥伦比亚接近;靠近面颊主要的误解;误会约旦猛冲;突进成人;成年人口语的非口语的Page11SpainItalylikelycrossroadsfacialfunctioneasetrulyfalselosefaceangerfistyawnsubjectivehugrankdefendagainstingeneralbelikelytoateaseturnone'sbackto西班牙意大利可能的十字路口面部的作用;功能安逸;舒适真实地;真正的错误的;假的丢脸怒气;怒火拳头打呵欠主观的拥抱等级;军衔背对很可能...总的来说;通常保卫...以免受舒适;自由自在Page12SkimingDividethetextinto3partsandmatchthemainideawitheachpart.Part1(Para1)examplesofsomebodylanguagesTherearedifferencesinbodylanguage,andit'simportantforustoknowthem.Bodylanguageissometimesmoreimportantthanspokenlanguage.Part2(Para2-6)Part3(Para7-8)Page13ThewritingoutlineMainidea:Points:1.2.3.4.5.ShowinghappinessShowingunhappinessorangerUniversalbodylanguagetoshowagreementordisagreementUniversalbodylanguagetoshowboredomUniversalbodylanguagetoshowrespectBodylanguagehasmanyuniversalgestures.Page1414SHOWINGOURFEELINGS表达我们的情感Bodylanguageisoneofthemostpowerfulmeansofcommunication,oftenevenmorepowerfulthanspokenlanguage.身体语言是最强有力的交际手段之一,甚至经常比口头语言更有力量。Peoplearoundtheworldshowallkindsoffeelings,wishesandattitudesthattheymightneverspeakaloud.世界各地的人们表达各种各样的情感、愿望和态度,他们可能从来不会大声地说出来。Itispossibletoreadothersaroundus,eveniftheydonotintendforustocatchtheirunspokencommunication.“读懂”我们周围的人的意思是有可能的,即便是人们并不想让我们捕捉到他们没有说出来的信息。Page1515Ofcourse,bodylanguagecanbemisread,butmanygesturesandactionsareuniversal.当然,身体语言可能会被误读,但是很多手势和动作都具有普遍性。Themostuniversalfacialexpressionis,ofcourse,thesmile–itsfunctionistoshowhappinessandputpeopleatease.第二段:最普遍通用的面部表情当然是微笑——其作用是表示快乐和安人心境。Itdoesnotalwaysmeanthatwearetrulyhappy,however.然而微笑并不总是意味着我们是真的快乐。Page1616Smilesaroundtheworldcanbefalse,hidingotherfeelingslikeanger,fearorworry.世界上的微笑可能是假的,用来掩盖其他情绪,比如生气、害怕或烦恼Thereareunhappysmiles,suchaswhensomeonelosesfaceandsmilestohideit.还有不愉快的微笑,比如当某人“丢了面子”就会用微笑来掩饰。However,thegeneralpurposeofsmilingistoshowgoodfeelings.但是,微笑的一般目的就是表达好的情绪。Page1717Fromthetimewearebabies,weshowunhappinessorangerbyfrowning.第三段:从孩提时候起,我们就通过皱眉来表示不高兴或者愤怒。Inmostplacesaroundtheworld,frowningandturningone'sbacktosomeoneshowsanger.在世界上大多数地方,皱眉或者背对着某人都表示发怒。Makingafistandshakingitalmostalwaysmeansthatsomeoneisangryandthreateninganotherperson.把手握紧,朝着别人晃拳头几乎总是意味着愤怒并且威胁别人。Page1818Therearemanywaysaroundtheworldtoshowagreement,butnoddingtheheadupanddownisusedforagreement,almostworldwide.世界上有很多方式用来表示同意,但是几乎全世界都用点头来表示同意。Mostpeoplealsounderstandthatshakingtheheadfromsidetosidemeansdisagreementorrefusal.大多数人也知道摇头表示不同意或拒绝做某事。Page1919HowaboutshowingthatIambored?第四段:如何来表示我很厌烦呢?Lookingawayfrompeopleoryawningwill,inmostcases,makemeappeartobeuninterested.在多数情况下,把眼光从人们身上移开或者打个哈欠,会使我看上去(对此人或此事)不敢兴趣。However,ifIturntowardandlookatsomeoneorsomething,peoplefromalmosteveryculturewillthinkthatIaminterested.但是如果我转身并看着某人或某物,几乎每一个文化背景的人都会认为我(对此人或此事)感兴趣。Page2020IfIrollmyeyesandturnmyheadaway,ImostlikelydonotbelievewhatIamhearingordonotlikeit.如果我转动着眼球,把头扭到一边,很可能是我不相信或者是不喜欢所听到的话。Beingrespectfultopeopleissubjective,basedoneachculture,butingeneralitisprobablynotagoodideatogiveahugtoabossorteacher.第五段:根据每一种文化,对人们表示尊重都是带有主观性的。但是一般来说,拥抱你的老板或老师很可能是不妥当的。Inalmosteveryculture,itisnotusuallygoodtostandtooclosetosomeoneofahigherrank.几乎在每一种文化里,站得离级别更高的人太近都不太好。Page2121StandingatalittledistancewithopenhandswillshowthatIamwillingtolisten.站得有一定的距离,把手微微张开,会表示我愿意倾听。Withsomanyculturaldifferencesbetweenpeople,itisgreattohavesomesimilaritiesinbodylanguage.最后一段:人们之间的文化差异如此之多,但好在身体语言有一些相似之处。Wecanoftenbewrongabouteachother,soitisanamazingthingthatweunderstandeachotheraswellaswedo!尽管我们常常会彼此误解,但我们仍能做到彼此理解,这真是件令人惊奇的事!Page22Answerthefollowingquestions:1.Howcanweknowothers'feelings,eveniftheydonotspeaktous?Thebodylanguage.Wecanwatchtheireyecontacts,facialexpressions,bodymovementsandgestures.Page232.Whyshouldwebecarefulwithourbodylanguages?Weshouldbecarefulofourownbodylanguage,aswemustbesurenottobeimpoliteinothercultures,andweneedtocommunicatewithoutbeingmisunderstood.Page24Sampleletter:DearLinPei,Inoticedthismorningthatyouseemedveryupset.Itlookedasifyouhadbeencrying.WhenIaskedyouwhatwaswrong,youputyourheaddown.I'msorryifIembarrassedyou.Ijustwanttohelp!friend'snamedescribethebodylanguagethatyounoticedPage25Isthereanythingwrong?Iheardthatyourmumhasbeenillandthatyouareverytired