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Iloveyounotbecauseofwhoyouare,butbecauseofwhoIamwhenIamwithyou.Howareyoufeelingnowwhenyouseethesepictures?angryexcitedshockedunbearablehappyridiculousamazingromanticembarrassedagreeablebeatific（祝福的）unbelievable……intheworld——homosexuality(同性恋）Currentsituation（现状）AfilmyesornoandloveinweiboReasonsandpsychologicalLawsindifferentcountriesPeoples’attitudeWhatshouldwedo?contentsWhat’shomosexuality?Homosexualityisromanticorsexualattractionorbehavioramongmembersofthesame-sex,occasionallyorasanenduringdisposition.Accordingtothesurvey,thegaypopulationtheproportionofthepopulationis5%.Yes.Thatistosayeveryonehundredpersonhas5personisgay.HomosexualityindifferentculturesCallingforHomosexualityMale:gayqueer断背短袖Female:lesbianles拉拉百合Whysomepeoplewillbehomosexuality?Thecauseofhomosexualityisduetocongenitalfactorsandacquireddisposition.Congenitalfactorsreferstophysicalfactors,suchasgeneticgene,hormonelevel,theinfluenceofthebrainstructure,etc.Theacquireddispositionisreferstothepsychologicalfactorsandsocialfactors,suchaschildhoodenvironment,adolescentexperiencesandso-calledsituationgayenvironmentalfactorsandsoon.Butforthecausesoftheformationofhomosexualityisinnateoracquired,ithasnotyetbeendetermined.Homosexual’snegativepsychology（负面心理）Theinferioritycomplex（自卑心理）Homosexual,theyfirmlydenytheirbehaviors,becausetheyfeelashamed.Theydon'thavetheabilitytogetridofitandtheyarepainful.Theyfeelinferior,remorse,self-denial,andselfdepression,selfsealing.同性恋者，尤其已有过同性恋性行为者，对自己的同性恋坚决持否定态度，认为见不得人。自己又无力摆脱，常为此十分痛苦。自卑、自责、自我否定，并因而自我压抑，自我封闭。Lastingambivalence(持久的矛盾心态)Homosexual’slifeisfullofcontradictions.Thecontradictionofsame-sexbehaviourandstraightofculturalconcept,thecontradictionsbetweenrationalconsciousnessandtheactualbehaviorandsoon,whichbroughtalotofpainforthem.Sogaygroupisaspecialsocialgroup,whofeelthemostofpain.同性恋者的生活中充满了矛盾。同性行为与异性恋文化观念的矛盾，意识理性和实际行为的矛盾等等,这些矛盾带来了许多的痛苦，所以同性恋是社会群体感受痛苦最多的一个特殊群体之一。Mentaldepression(抑郁心理)Homosexualhasaclosedpersonality.Theyoftenfeeldepressed,ashamed.Especiallyintheagetheyarerequiredtogetmarried,ahugepressurefromfamily,societyandculture,makethemfeelingverydepressed.Theylostconfidenceinthefutureandlife,sotheymuddlealong.Theyaredesperate,andwithdeepdepression,theyevenchoosetosuicide.同性恋者封闭，常常感到压抑，自卑、自愧。尤其是到了结婚的年龄时，来自于家庭、社会和文化的巨大压力，使他们感到十分的抑郁。他们对未来和生活失去了信心，得过且过，自暴自弃，甚至得抑郁症，想到要自杀。Thepsychologyofseekingtreatment(求治心理)Anumberofhomosexualcan’tacceptthefactsotheyurgethemselvestochangethefactthattheyarehomosexual.Butafterseekingthetreatment,theyrealizethatitisnoteasytochangethefactandtheninspecttheirbehavior.有相当一部分同性恋者无法接纳自己的同性恋趋向，强烈要求转变自己同性恋为异性恋，他们到处查找资料，秘密求医，甚至接受各种治疗，其中也不乏受骗上当者。只是在他们查找了许多资料认识到同性恋不易转变的结论后，才开始重新审视自己的求医行为。thepsychologyofstudyingthehomosexual(追根求源心理)Theyoftenstudythesephenomena,especiallytheproblem“whyheishomosexual”,whichwillhelpthemtofindthecoursesandgaintolerantfromothersandthemselves.同性恋对自己的研究，尤其是对自己为什么是同性恋的研究十分投入，对各种研究结果，也十分敏感，似乎他们总期望在同性恋形成的根源中找到一种理由，找到一种理解，对自己是同性恋找到一种宽容。thepsychologyofcomplaining(仇视和抱怨心理)Someofthemwillthinkwhytheycan’tenjoythebeautifullifeasothers,maybetheywillthinkitisunfairtothem.That’swhysometimestheywillcomplainitandevenhatethesociety.What’smore,theyaresosensitivethattheyareeasytobehurtbytheonewhotheyloveverymuch.Whatwillshockusisthattherateofcrimepassionnel(情杀)ishigher.为什么自己是同性恋而不能享受异性恋的幸福美满的家庭生活?他们会觉得命运不公平，甚至感到嫉妒、怨恨。有极少数同性恋者甚至仇视社会和异性恋者。同性恋者对所恋对象的感情投入会很深，对对方的一举一动都会很敏感，嫉妒心会很强，一旦发现对方感情的转移，或背叛，常不能自拔，甚至发生报复行为。同性恋的情杀有时比异性恋的情杀案更残忍。LawAbouthomosexualitymarriageIn2001，theNetherlandsbecamethefristcountrytorecognizehomosexuality,andthehomisexualitymarriagesweresubsequentlyrecognizedinBeigium(2003)theUSstatesofMassachusetts(2004)SpainandCanada(2005)SouthAfrican(2006)lowa(2009),Vermont(2009)Maine(2009）Norway(2009),Sweden(2009)Iceland,Portugal,andArgentina(2010)HomosexualitymarriageinIranHomosexualitymarriageisillegalandtheLGBwillbesentencedtohanginIran.homosexualitymarriageinAmericanTheWallJournalreportedthatinarecentsurvey,50%approvedofhomosexualitymarriage,while48%saidtheyopposedithomosexualitymarriageinChinaSincetheearly1990s,theChinagovermenthasbecomeincreasinglytolerantabouthomosexuality.By1997,thelawthatoutlawedsodomywasrepealed,whilehomosexualitywasofficiallyremovedfromthenation'slistofmentalillnessin2001.ButhomosexualsarestillamarginalizedsocialgroupinChina.People’attitudestowardhomosexualInChina,somepeoplethinkhomosexualimmoralandevenabnormalandthereisnolawmadetoprotectitnowadays.Inforeigncountries,afewcountrieslikeCanadaandtheNetherlandshavedeclaredsame-sexmarriageslegal,butsomecountriesstillseehomosexualactasimmoral.Eveninliberal,moretolerantsocietiesliketheUS,comingout(revealingone’shomosexualityopenly)meansonecanfacealotofpressureandchallenges.People’attitudestowardhomosexualHowever,InthemodernWesternworld,perceptionsandattitudeshavebeenremarkablytolerantofhomosexuality,homosexualityisneitherasinnorsickness.Somescientistshavetriedtoprovethathomosexualityisnatural,othersthatit’sageneticdeformityMyattitudeItisnottheirfaulttohavehomosexualtendency.Maybewhenweseetheiractions,wewillfee