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Howtobuildupself-confidenceSelf-confidenceplaysanimportantroleinourlife.Wecandonothingwellwithoutself-confidence.Thereare,Ithink,threestepstobuildupourself=confidence.Firstweshouldbelieveourselves.Thisisthebasicpartofbuildingself-confidence.Thenweshouldstartfromtheeasythings.Itwillgreatlyencourageusifwedothesethingswell.Atlastweshouldmakeprogressstepbystepbydealingwithproblemswhicharemuchhardertobedonewell.Firststep:Believeyouyourself.Sayingismucheasierthandoing.Butwehavenochoice.Wemustbelieveourselves.Ifwedon’tthinkwecandealwithsomethingwell,thenwearedeterminedtofailbeforewesettinguptodoit.Weshouldtellusthatevenwecan’tdoitverywell,butatleastwecanmakesomechanges.Themostimportantpartistoremindourselvesthatwecanmakesomedifferences.Toencourageourselves,womuststartfromtheeasythings.Romewasnotbuiltinaday.Forxexample,IwasnotgoodatEnglishgrammarwheninhighschool,IwasupsetwhenImademanymistakesintheexams.ThenmyEnglishteachertoldmetodofromtheeasiespart.Andhegavemesomeveryeasyexercisetopractice.IfounditenjoyablewhenIwasdoingtheexercise.Dayafterday,IwasnotafraidofdoingEnglishgrammarexercise.Andmyself-confidencewasbuiltbystartingfromtheeasypart.Sorememberthatweshouldchoosethesimpleandordinarythings.Thirdweshouldgofatherafterfinishingthesimpleandeasypart.Whenwefindthatwecanhandlemostproblemseasily,weshouldknowitisasignofmovingforward.Forexample,ifyoucanrun3milesinanhoureasily,thenyoushouldtrytorun4mileinanhour,andthen5miles.Justkeepmoving.Thebetteryoudo,themoreconfidentyouwillbe.Thenonedayyouwillfindyouhavesurpassedmostpeoplearoundyou.Andatthistimeyouwillfindthatyourself-confidenceisbuiltupalready.