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十条应该遵守的西方礼仪Howtobehaveattableinwesternsociety?1.Whenhelpingawomanpullherchairtothetable,holditandguideit.Don'tshoveitagainstthebackofherlegs.为女士拉椅子的时候，要把椅子抓住了，留个角度，让女士好走过去。别让椅子腿碰到女士的腿。2.Ifyou'reseatedatatablewitheightorfewerguests,waitforeveryonetobeservedandforthehostesstobegineatingbeforeyoudigin.Atalongbanquettable,it'sOKtostartwhenseveralpeopleareseatedandserved.如果就餐人数少于等于八人，那就等所有人都坐好了，女主人开始用餐了，再开动。如果是长餐桌，那么只要有几个人入座进食了，你也就可以开始吃了。3.Allthingsnothavingtodowithfoodshouldremainoffthetable:keys,clutchbags,cigarettepacks,sunglasses,BlackBerrys.一切和食物无关的东西都不应该出现在餐桌上，包括：钥匙、手袋、烟盒、墨镜还有手机。4.Don'tsnapyournapkinopenorunfurlitshowilylikeit'sanOlympicflag.不要把餐巾展开，看起来像是在展示奥林匹克会旗一样。5.Ifyouprefernottohavewinewhilediningout,don'tturnyourglassupsidedown,anddon'tmakeabigdealofsayingyoudon'tdrink.SimplyplaceyourfingertipsontherimoftheglassandsayNottoday,thanks.如果在用餐时你不想饮酒，不要把酒杯倒过来放，也不要很在意地宣布你不喝酒。只要轻轻地把指尖放在酒杯边缘，说一句今天不喝，谢谢。6.Ifyou'reeatingandwanttotakeasip,dabyourmouthwithyournapkintoavoidstainingtherimoftheglass.如果你在吃东西的时候，想要啜一口饮料的话，那就先拿餐巾把嘴擦干净了，以免在杯子边缘留下残迹。7.Grabbingabowlofsaladorasaltshakerasit'sbeingpassedtosomeonewhoaskedforitistheequivalentofcuttinginline:greedyandrude.7.把原本要递给别人的沙拉碗或者盐瓶从半道截下来，这基本上就等于在说：你是个既贪婪又粗鲁的人。8.Onthesubjectofpassing:Dishesgocounterclockwise,butifsomeonetoyourleftasksforsomething,youcanhanditdirectlytohim.8.餐桌上要传递东西的话，规则一般是逆时针传递。不过，如果坐在你左手边的人想要什么东西时，你也可以直接递给他。9.Whenyouexcuseyourselftogototherestroom,justsayPleaseexcuseme.9.想去洗手间的时候，只要说失陪一下就可以了。10.Whenoutwithfriendsorfamily-evenatafancyrestaurant-it'sOKtoaskforyourleftoverstobewrapped.Butdon'tdoitatabusinesslunchordinner.10.和朋友家人一起外出用餐，即使是到很高级的餐馆，也可以要求把吃剩下的食物打包带走。不过，如果是在商务宴会上，就不要这么做了。改错2.PeoplegotoaformalWesterndinnerpartythefirsttimemaybesurprisingbytheWesterntablemanners.Nexttothenapkin,you’llfindsomebreadandthreeglasswhichareforthewine.Theknifeandforkthatareclosesttoyourplatearealittlemorebiggerthantheonesbesidesthem.Dinnerstartswithasmalldish,thatisoftencalledastarter.Forthestarter,whichyoueatenwiththesmallerpair,youkeeptheknifeinyourrighthandandtheforkinyourleftone.Althoughgoodmannersalwaysmakeyoulookgood,butyoudonotneedtoworryaboutalltheseruleswhileyouhavingdinnerwithyourforeignfriends.第一行：①People后加who/②party后加for/③surprising→surprised第二行：④glass→glasses第三行：⑤去掉more第四行：⑥besides→beside/⑦that→which第五行：⑧eaten→eat第六行：⑨去掉but第七行：⑩去掉you或在you后加are中国的餐桌礼仪和文化ThemaindifferenceontheChinesedinnertableischopsticksinsteadofknifeandfork,butthat’sonlysuperficial.Besides,indecentrestaurants,youcanalwaysaskforapairofknifeandfork,ifyoufindthechopsticksnothelpfulenough.TherealdifferenceisthatintheWest,youhaveyourownplateoffood,whileinChinathedishesareplacedonthetableandeveryoneshares.Ifyouarebeingtreatedtoaformaldinnerandparticularlyifthehostthinksyou’reinthecountryforthefirsttime,hewilldothebesttogiveyouatasteofmanydifferenttypesofdishes.Themealusuallybeginswithasetofatleastfourcolddishes,tobefollowedbythemaincoursesofhotmeatandvegetabledishes.Soupthenwillbeserved(unlessinGuangdongstylerestaurants)tobefollowedbystaplefoodrangingfromrice,noodlestodumplings.Ifyouwishtohaveyourricetogowithotherdishes,youshouldsaysoingoodtime,formostoftheChinesechoosetohavethestaplefoodatlastorhavenoneofthematall.PerhapsoneofthethingsthatsurpriseaWesternvisitormostisthatsomeoftheChinesehostsliketoputfoodintotheplatesoftheirguests.Informaldinners,therearealways“public”chopsticksandspoonsforthispurpose,butsomehostsmayusetheirownchopsticks.Thisisasignofgenuinefriendshipandpoliteness.Itisalwayspolitetoeatthefood.Ifyoudonoteatit,justleavethefoodintheplate.PeopleinChinatendtoover-orderfood,fortheywillfinditembarrassingifallthefoodisconsumed.Whenyouhavehadenough,justsayso.Oryouwillalwaysovereat!中西方餐桌礼仪文化差异练习：CanyouimaginethesituationthataChinesestudenthasdinnerathisAmericanprofessor’shouseforthefirsttime?Let’sreadthefollowingandtrytomakeacommentaboutitbyaskingandansweringwiththesewordsorphrasesabove.1.WhatimpressiondidheleaveontheAmericanprofessorandhisfamily?2.Howdidhebehaveatthetable?3.DidheknowanyaboutAmericantablemanners?4.WhosefaultwasitthathecommittedsuchFauxPas(失礼)inAmericantablemanners?5.Whydidotherpeoplestareathim?Washeadisabledpersonwithtwohornsonhishead?Didtheymakejokesabouthim?6.Whatadvicecanwefollowabouttablemanners?7.（1-9）练习定语从句Thefirstcourseissoup.Hepicksupthebowl,slurpsitdown,and,tocontinuesthetraditionofnotwastingfood,tipsthebowloverhisheadtogetthelastdrop.Satisfied,heputsdowntheemptybowl,letsoutaburp,andexclaims:Greatsoup!Thenhenoticesthateveryoneatthetablestopseatingandisstaringathim.“Whyiseveryonestaring?”Heisthinking…“DidIjustgrowtwohornsonmyhead?”No!HehasjustcommittedalmosteveryFauxPas(失礼)inAmericantablemanners.Okay,perhapsthesceneisaslightexaggeration(夸张).ButitoftenhappenstosomenewlyarrivedChinese.AtaChineserestaurant,it’sperfectlyokaytoshout,burp,andslurp.ButtablemannersinAmericanhomesandrestaurantsareverydifferent.HerearesomebasicsforyoutofollowthenexttimeyougotoyourAmericanprofessor’shouse.Don’ttalkwithyourmouthfull.Noonewantstoseewhatyouarechewing.Thisisoneofthemostcom