BusinessEtiquette——oralpresentationskills商务礼仪——口语表达技巧文秘办公礼仪(Secreataryofficeetiquette)场景一:询问访客身份(Askforidentityofguests)MayIhaveyourname,please?Whatcompanyareyoufrom?Couldyoutellmewhatcompanyyouarerepresenting?请问您贵姓?您是哪个公司的?能告诉我您代表什么公司吗?场景二:询问是否预约,来访目的Doyouhaveanappointment?Wouldyougivemeyourbusinesscard?CanIaskwhatyouwishtoseehimabout?请问你有预约吗?请给我您的名片好吗?我能问一下您要见他有何事吗?场景三:带客人去见经理Pleasehaveaseat,Mr.JonesandMr.Smithwillseeyouinfewminutes.Mr.Chenisexpectingyou.I'lltellhimthatyou'rehere.请坐,琼斯先生和史密斯先生几分钟后就到。陈先生正在等你。我去告诉他你到了。场景四:婉言拒绝客人来访Mr.Chenisoccupiedatthemomentandwantstoknowifyourbusinessisurgent.Hemaywanttogetintouchwithyouinthefuture.Wouldyouleaveyourcard?陈先生正忙着,请问您的事情很紧急吗?他想以后再和你联系。请留下你的名片好吗?职场上稳妥表达观点(Howtoexpressideasrealible)如果表示赞成,你可以说:That'sagoodidea.是个好主意。如果表示有条件地接受,你可以说:ontheconditionthat···Weacceptyourproposal,ontheconditionthatyouorder20,000units.如果您订2万件,我们会接受您的建议。如果表示拒绝,你可以说:We'renotpreparedtoacceptyourproposalatthistime.我们这一次不准备接受你们的建议。如果对方误解了你,你可以说:No,I'mafraidyoumisunderstoodme.WhatIwastryingtosaywas.....不,恐怕你误解了。我想说的是.....在邮件中恰当描述(ExpressappropiatelyinE-mails)1)Iamwritingtoconfirm/enquire/informyou…我写信时要确认/询问/通知你…2)IamwritingtofollowuponourearlierdecisiononthemarketingcampaigninQ2.我写信来追踪我们之前对于第二季度营销活动的决定。3)Withreferencetoourtelephoneconversationtoday…关于我们今天在电话中的谈话...4)Inmypreviouse-mailonOctober5…先前在10月5日所写的信…5)AsImentionedearlierabout…如我先前所提及关于…6)Asindicatedinmypreviouse-mail…如我在先前的信中所提出…7)Aswediscussedonthephone…如我们上次在电话中的讨论…8)Fromourdecisionatthepreviousmeeting…如我们在上次会议中的决定…9)Asyourequested/peryourrequirement…按照你的要求…10)Inreplytoyoure-maildatedApril1,wedecided…回答你在4月1日写的信,我们决定…如何提高办公室亲和力(Howtoimproveaffinityintheoffice)Trytobemorehumility(学会更加的谦虚)Theyletothersshowcasebydeliveringkeymessagesinsteadofalwayshavingtobeonstagethemselves.通过传递关键信息,让别人替自己“展示”,而不是总把自己放在“舞台”表演。Theyletothersfeelimportantbyinterpreting,passingon,andapplyingtheirgoalsandinitiatives.通过“诠释”、“传递”、“落实”自己的目标和计划,让别人感到重要起来。Trytobepolite(学会如何礼貌表达)Eventhesmallestcourtesieskindleafirethatigniteschemistryandbuildskinship.Thecourtesyofsayinghellowhenyoucomeintotheofficeafterbeingaway.Thecourtesyoflettingpeopleknowwhenyou'regoingtobeawayforanextendedperiod.Thecourtesyofhonoringpoliciesaboutreservingrooms,spaces,andequipmentforactivities.Thecourtesyofasimpleplease,thankyou,andyou'rewelcomeforsmallfavors.即使是最小的礼貌也会激发融洽感、点燃亲密的“火焰”。比如回到办公室时说声“嗨”;不能按时赶回来时,要和别人说一声;遵守关于为活动预留房间、空间、设备的规定;对小的恩惠给予一个简单的“请”、“谢谢”、“不客气”。Trytoshowasenseofhumor(展现你的幽默感)Self-deprecatinghumorcanopenheartsandmindstomakepeoplereceptivetoideasinwayswordsalonecan't.自嘲式幽默能让人们敞开胸怀和心思,比语言更能说服人接受一些想法。Trytobemorehomouroustootherswhenyoutalkingaboutthem,youcantalksomejokewiththemtorealivepressure.在和别人谈话时,尝试着学会用笑话缓解压力,使自己变得更加富有幽默感。