英文男女差异

MenandwomenDifferenceorStereotype自由证LOVEATTIYUDEWOMENMENAFTERMARRIAGEWomenwouldlikeThemanmaythoughtWoman:Yes,Ijustfeelwronged.WhyotherpeoplecandriveaBMWeverydaybutIponder(琢磨)repeatedlyeventakingataxi.Man:Icannotgiveyoutheseandyoujustgooutofthehousetofindthesepeoplewhocangiveyou.Woman:Idonotwanttotakethebusanymore!It’stoocrowded!Theworsethingisthatotherssteppedonmykicks.Man:Youarenottheonlyoneinthecrowded.Weallgotoworkbybus.Woman:someoneissomeoneelse,Iamme!Ijustcannotstand!Man:Youcanjusttakeataxi,I’llreimburse(报销)you.Woman:Comeon,lookatyoupathetic(可怜的）wages.Man:Doyouthinkyouarewronged(受委屈的)becauseIcannotbuyacarforyou.AftermanyyearsMan:1)Theydonotunderstandawoman'srapidchangingidea.2)Manliketomakethingssimple,especiallyforemotionalaspect.3)Manfearmostisthatthewomansaythathewasworsethanothers.Woman:1)Towinthesympathyofothers.2)Infact,shejustneedasimplecomfort.3)Justwantthemantobegoodtoher.AnalysisbuyaphoneMan:A:Whatphonedoyouwant?B:TheCPUshouldbefournuclearswithlargescreen……Woman：A:Whatphonedoyouwant?B:Apinkone.ApologizeManapologizetowoman:A:Dear,I‘msorry,Iwaswrong.B:Nothingwrongwithyou.A:Idefinitelychangenexttime.B:youdon’tneedanychange.A:Iloveyou.B:Iknow.B:?Womanapologizetoman:A:Baby,I'msorry,Iloveyou.B:Doyouknowwhat’swrong.A:B:Well,Iforgiveyou.eatingWoman:Beforetheeating:A:I’mstarvingtodeath,Icaneattenbowlsofrice.Aftereatingabowl:A:I’mfull.Man:Beforetheeating:A:I’mnotveryhungry,eatingabiteisOK.Aftereatingabowl:A:Abowlmore.fightingBoysbecomereconciledsoonafterthefighting.Womenwillharborresentmentlongafterthefighting.Hobbies:Woman’shobbiesfromchildhoodtoadultMan’shobbiesfromchildhoodtoadultShopping:Amanwillpay$2fora$1itemheneeds.Awomanwillpay$1fora$2itemthatshewants.Womantreatshoppingasapleasure,theymaynotbuyanythingafterawholedaystroll,thereby,mancan’tdothatvoluntary.TelephoneMenseeitjustasacommunicationaltool.Theyusethetelephonetosendshortmessagestootherpeople.Awomancallonefriendwhommeteachotherthismorningandtheycouldtalkforseveralhours.Asimpleconversationcanbedifferenteventtoamanandawoman.Foraman,aconversationisawaytodefineaproblem,debatetherightsandwrongs,andfindasolution.Butawomanwouldratherhaveafriendlyearfromaman,insteadofadvice.Womenmoreoftenviewconversationasawayofsharingtheiremotionswiththelistener.Theytalkuntiltheyfeelbetter.BeingmysympatheticearConclusion:Althoughtherearemanydifferencebetweenmenandwomen,it’llnotbedifficultforustocommunicatewitheachotherandmakeourselvesunderstood,ifwetrytocooperatewithotherpeopleinourlifeandwork-time.Actually,eachofusshouldthinkabouttheprobleminthewayourpartnersthinkaboutit,orperhaps,weexchangeourthoughtsmoreoften.wehopethatthedifferencecanberecognizedandsolvedproperly,andthen,thesocietywillbemoreharmoniousthannow.