RelationshipFriendshipSocialintheEastandWestReasonsFriendshipintheWestSocialRelationshipintheEastvideoWhatMadetheseDifferencesFriendshipintheEastSocialRelationshipintheWestContent目录社会系关SocialRelationshipintheWestGroupmembershipisimpermanent.2Membershipinfamiliesissubjecttopersonalchoice.(Individual’sneedscomefirst.)31IndividualsintheUnitedStatesaremembersofmanygroupssimultaneously.TheinnermostcircleofsocialorganizationinAmericanculturewouldbealone.AndSocialorganizationiscontractual,looseandimpermanent.4TakeChinaForExample社会系关SocialRelationshipintheEast1234SocialorganizationinChinaisrelativelystable.TheChinesewordforrelationship,alsomeansconnections.SocialorganizationinChinesecultureisaseriesofconcentriccircles(同心圆)withfamilyatthecenteralongwith,theego.Groupmembershipmaynotbesubjecttochoice.Theresponsibilitiesofmembershipcomebeforeindividual’sneeds.InChineseculture,individualsidentifywithonlyafewdistinctgroups,andgroupmembershipisstrongandenduring.ThecircleofChinesesocialrelationshipIntimatedfriendsformerclassmatesAcquaintancesColleagues/neighborsGrandparentsParentsISpouseChildren社会关国系中对比析分IntercomparisonIntheU.S.InChinaIndividualsaremembersofmanygroupssimultaneously(para.1)Individualsidentifywithonlyafewdistinctgroups(para.4)Groupmembershipandfriendshipdevelopfromavarietyofcontactsandisimpermanentandfragmented.(para.1,2)Thetiesofmembershipandfriendshipareverystrong,stableandtheserelationshipsmayendureforalifetime(para.4)Groupmembershipissubjecttopersonalchoice;individualneedscomefirst(para.3)Groupmembershipmaynotbesubjecttopersonalchoice;theresponsibilitiesofmembershipcomebeforeindividualrightsandneeds.(para.4)Socialrelationshipiscontractualandloose.Itcanbebrokenasonechooses(para.7)Socialrelationshipiscloseandlong-lasting.刮痧Thevideo:TheTreatmentGuaShaThefilm“ScrapingTherapy”reflectsthedifferencesofvalueandcultureviewsbetweenwesternsocietyandorientsociety.TheTreatment相关影电TheVideoAboutFriendship词ClassicalLinesFromTheFilm台摘录Kunlan:ButIamjustapropertyrightlawyer,Iknewlittleaboutfamilylaw.我只是个版权法律师,我对家庭法并不是很了解。Datong:Denisismybestcreation.Ihaveapropertyrightoverhim,right?Theymadeamistake,andallthatyoushoulddoistopointitoutandIcantakeDenishome.I’mcountingonyou!儿子是我的作品我当然有版权,儿童福利局搞错了,只要讲清楚,他们没理由不把儿子给我们。我全靠你了---Kunlan:…Familylawisaveryspecialland.It’sshorttimetoaskacontinuousdayofhearingsothatyoucangetsomeonewhoisqualified.家庭法是非常特殊的领域,现在我来要求延迟听审还来得及,我们去找个真正懂家庭法的律师。---Datong:John,youknowhowmuchIloveDenis!You’rebestlawyerIknowandmybestfriend.Imeanwhoisreadytohelp.你知道我多么爱我儿子,你是最好的律师,又是我的好朋友,你不帮我谁帮我?析分AnalysisInChina,loyaltytofriendsisveryimportant,whileAmericansaremorerational.Theyemphasizethetruthandknowexactlywhattheyshoulddo.Inaword,Chinesefriendshipfocusesonhumanfeelings,Americanfriendshipfocusesontruthandreason.looseandcontractual(fadeswiththeendingofsharedactivity)noresponsibilityandnocommittedwithlimitsprovidingemotionalsupportcompartme-ntalizedandfragmentedimpermanent朋友系关FriendshipintheWestAndyouwouldnotexpectafriendtorecogniseandrespondtoyourwisheswithoutstatingthem.withnolimitswithresponsibilitywithsameinterestsandbehaviorsprovidingmoreconcretehelp朋友系关FriendshipintheEaststrongandstableenduringforalifetimeEducationShowachildhowtodosomething,orteachbyholdinghishand.TheChinesevaluehassomerelationshipwiththeConfucianism.ThepioneeringspiritisstillanimportantpartofAmericancharacter.差异因原EastWestSpiritValuesFamilyisnotonlyimportantforeveryonetofeelwarm,butalsocontributetosociety.InsteadoffearingMomandDad,childrenmaythinkofthemasgoodfriends.FamilyLetachildexploretheunknown,developtheirownway.ReasonsThecoreoftheChinesevalueiscollectivism.ThecoreofWesternvaluesisindividualism.THANKYOU!