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2015back,bad,express,feel,it,loud,luck,simple,sweet,thank,two,warmOnceuponatime,ayoungmancameacrossaspring（泉水）ofclearwaterwhilecrossingthedesert.Thewaterwasverysweet,andhefilledhisleathercontainer(皮革容器)sohecouldbringsome1____________tohisteacher.Afterafour-dayjourney,hepresentedthewatertohisteacher.Theoldmantookadeepdrink,smiled2____________andthankedhisstudentverymuchforthesweetwater.Theyoungmanreturnedtohisvillagewithahappyheart.Afterawhile,theteacherlet3_____________studenttastethewater.Hespat(吐)itout,sayingitwasterrible.Itwasclearthatthewaterhadbecomenolongerfreshandsweetbecauseoftheoldleathercontainer.Thestudentquestionedhisteacher:“Master,thewatertastedstrange.Whydidyoustilllikeit?”Theteacherreplied,“You4_____________tastedthewaterwhileItastedthegift.Thewaterwasthecontainerforanactofloving-kindnessandnothingcouldbe5.”Afterreadingthestory,wecanunderstandthatwhenwereceiveachocolateasagiftfromachild,wegetmorethanthechocolate6____________.Whatweshoulddoproperlyistoexpress7_____________naturallytohimorherbecausewelovetheideawithinthegift.Gratitude(感谢)doesn’talwayscomenaturally.8,mostchildrenandmanygrown-upslikeonlythethinggivenratherthanthe9______________showninit.Weshouldremindourselvesandteachourchildrenaboutthebeautyoffeelingsand10___________ofgratitude.Afterall,giftsfromtheheartarereallygiftsoftheheart2014checkChinadifficulteasyfarmforgetlittlemanyotherpeaceamazingseriousLookatthepicture,whatdoyousee?1,somepeoplesayit’sanoldman,whileotherssayit’sayoungwomanandanold2.Itisaproblemwithmanyanswers.Why?Whenyoulookataproblemfromdifferentviews,yougetdifferentanswers.Justturnitinyourmind3bit,andyoumayseeitinacompletelynewway.Somepeopleonlyformanideaintheirmind“Aproblemhasonlyoneanswer,andallthe4arewrong.”Someevenlaughatthedifferentanswersotherscomeupwith.Well,they’rewrong!Ifpeopleonlybelievedinoneanswer,wemightstillthinktheworldissquare(方形的)!What’soneplusone?That’seasy,two!Right?Well,that’sonerightanswer,butnottheonlyanswer.Youmightthinkof11,orsome5characterslike“二”or“十”!What’samomplusadad?Youmightthinkoftwopeople,oramanandawoman,orawholefamily!So,eventhe6questionscanhavemanyanswers.Ofcourse,someproblemsdoonlyhaveoneanswer.Ifeachofthequestionsinamathtesthad7thanoneanswer,itwouldbequiteaproblemforteachers8.Lookatthingsindifferentways,faceyourlifewitha9mind,andyou’llseeacompletelydifferentworld.Afterreadingmyarticle,ifIaskyouagain:“Whatdoyouseeinthispicture?”,willyoustillgivethesameanswernow?I’msurethispicturewillbe10toyou.2013somebodyfeeldaysuccessfullylieyoupleasantdiscovercarefulloseinstructionembarrassOneday,astudentwastalkingwithaprofessor(教授),who’skindtothosewhowaitedonhis1.______________.Astheywentalong,theysawapairofoldshoes2.___________onthepath(小路),which,theysupposed,belongedtoapoormanworkinginanearbyfield(田地).Hehadneatlyfinishedhis3.____________work.Thestudentcametoastop,andsaidtotheprofessor,“Let’splayahoaxontheman:wehidehisshoes,hideourselvesandwaittoseehow4._____________hewouldbewhenhefindsthathisshoesare5.__________.”“Myfriend,”answeredtheprofessor,“Weshouldneverenjoyourselveswhilemakingthepoorsad.Nowyouarerich,whynotgiveyourselfamuchgreater6._____________byhelpingthepoorman?Putacoinintoeachshoe,hideourselvesandseewhatwillhappentohim.”Thestudentdidso,andtheybothplacesthemselvesbehindthenearbytrees.Afterfinishinghiswork,thepoormancameacrossthefieldtothepath.Puttinghisfootintooneofhisshoes,hefeltsomethingunusual.Hestopped7._____________whatitwasandhefoundthecoin.Hetookoutthecoin,surprised,andlookedatit8.______________forawhile.Thenhelookedaround,but9._____________wasthere.Thenhestartedtoputontheothershoe.Hegotmuchmoresurpriseswhenhefoundtheothercoin.Thepoormanthenlookedupintotheskyandshouted“ThankYou!”Thestudentstoodtherewithtears(眼泪)inhiseyes.“Now,”saidtheprofessor,“aren’tyoumorepleasedthanifyouhadplayed10.__________plannedhoax?”“You’vetaughtmealessonwhichIwillneverforget,”answeredthestudent.2012年researchcommontheyfunbeforecomputesuddensocialsamefindaffectexactWorriedThatPeopleAreLaughingatYou?Imaginethissituation.Youpassagroupofpeople.Thepeoplearetalkingtoeachother.Youcannothearwhattheyaresaying.But1theystartlaughing.Whatwouldyouthink?Wouldyouthinktheywerelaughingatsomething2thatoneofthemsaid?Or,tobehonestwithyourself,wouldyouthinktheywerelaughingatyou?Yes,you.Beinglaughedatisa3fear.Butamajorstudypublished(公布)in2009foundthatthisfearisnotthe4aroundtheworld,Itdiffersfromculturetoculture.Somepeopleinthestudysaidtheyfeltunsureof5insocialsituationsandhidtheirfeelingsofinsecurity(不安全).Otherssaidtheyavoided(回避)socialsituationswheretheyhadbeenlaughedat6.Shypeopleoftenavoidsituationsthatwouldmakethemgetintoclosecontact(接触)withotherpeople.Theyworrythatsomethingtheysayordowillmakeotherpeoplelaughatthem,Itcanbetrulysadforthosewholivewiththefearoflaughter.Itcan7howtheyleadtheirlives.Inthestudy,ateamfromtheUniversityofZurichledmorethanninety8fromaroundtheworld.Theywantedtounderstandthedifferencebetweennormalshynessandtruefearofbeinglaughedat.Anotherpurposeofthestudywas9thelevelsoffearofbeinglaughedatindifferent