Unit-11-On-Friendship-论友谊

OnFriendship组员人名人名人名人名人名人名——论友谊Warm-upgamebyThegame：PassingWordsTherule：Inadditiontomygroup,thereare4groupsintheclass.Eachgroupstandinline.Iwillgivethefirstpersonofeachgroupasentenceaboutfriendship.Rememberthesentence,andthenquietlypassittothenext.Thenthelastpersonpleasewritesthesentenceontheblackboard.Theteamwhosemeaningisclosertotheoriginalsentenceisthewinner.Thefinalwinnerwillgetareward!44Answers55•Alifewithoutafriendisalifewithoutasun.•人生在世无朋友，犹如生活无太阳。66•Afriendisneverknowntillamanhasneed.•不到患难时，永远不能认识真正的朋友。7•Areadywaytolosefriendistolendhimmoney.•失友皆从借钱起。8•Afatherisatreasure,abrotherisacomfort,butafriendisboth.•父亲是财富，兄弟是安慰，朋友兼而有之。Backgroundinfomationby1010MargaretMeadMeadwasanAmericananthropologistwhofeaturedfrequentlyasanauthorandspeakerinthemassmediaduringthe1960sand1970s.SheservedascuratorofethnologyattheAmericanMuseumofNaturalHistoryfrom1946to1969.Meadwasarespectedandoftencontroversialacademic,Shewasprominentintheareas:education,ecology,thewomen’smovement,child-rearingandsexualrevolution.Sheproduced44booksandmorethan1,000articlesShewasawardedtheKalingaPrizein1970andthePresidentialMedalofposthumouslyin1979.MargaretMead(1901–1978)1111SelectedWorksByMargaretMead•1928ComingofAgeinSamoa:APsychologicalStudyofPrimitiveYouthforWesternCivilization.•1935SexandTemperamentinThreePrimitiveSocieties.•1972BlackberryWinter:MyEarlieryears.•1978LettersfromtheField.Inbrief,hercomparativestudyrevealedafullrangeofcontrastinggenderrolesMead'sfindingssuggestedthatthecommunityignoresbothboysandgirlsuntiltheyareabout15or16.Beforethen,childrenhavenosocialstandingwithinthecommunity.1212RhodaMetrauxHewasborninBrooklyn,NewYork,andworkedwithMargaretMeadfrom1955to1978.ThethreecollaboratedonTheStudyofCultureAtADistance(1953),ThemesinFrenchCulture(1954)andAwayofSeeing(1975),acollectionofessayswrittenforRedbookMagazine.Structureanalysisby14Part1(Para.1-Para.5)•Americansfriendshipisquitesharplydistinguishedfromothercountries.1515HowAmericansviewfriendshipAmericansusetheword“friend”inaverygeneralway．Theymaycallbothcasualacquaintancesandclosecompanions“friends.Thesefriendshipsarebasedoncommoninterests.Whenthesharedactivityends,thefriendshipmayfade.Americansocietyisoneofrapidchange.Americanfriendshipsdevelopquickly,andtheymaychangejustasquickly.PeoplefromtheUnitedStatesmayatfirstseemfriendly.ButAmericanfriendlinessisnotalwaysanofferoftruefriendship.16Part2(Para.6-Para.14)Para.6TransitionalsentencePara.7-Para.12TheFrancefriendshipPara.13TheGermanyfriendshipPara.14TheEnglishfriendship•Inthispart,thewriterdescribesvariouskindsoffriendshipindifferentcountriestoanswerthequestionwhothenisafriend.1717InGermany,friendshipismuchmoreclearlyamatteroffeeling.Liketiesofkinship,tiesoffriendshiparemeanttobeabsolutelybinding.FortheFrench,friendshipisofthesamesexandcompartmentalized.Then,itisaone-to-onerelationshipthatdemandsakeenawarenessoftheotherperson'sintellect,temperamentandparticularinterests.18Part3(Para.15)•ThispartmainlytellsustheansweraboutWhatisthefriendshipandWhatarethecommonelementsoffriendship.Difficultpointsby201.Wemovefromtowntocitytosuburb,fromhighschooltocollegeinadifferentstate,fromajobinoneregiontoabetterjobelsewhere,fromthehomewhereweraiseourchildrentothehomewhereweplantoliveinretirement.（L.1,Para.1)我们由小镇搬到城市，又搬到郊区，从中学到另一个州的大学，由一个地区的某个工作岗位换到别的地方的更好的职位，从把孩子养大的家，搬到打算退休以后安度晚年的家。Confuciussaid“Thegentlemanaimsatharmony,andnotatuniformity.Themeanmanaimsatuniformity,andnotatharmony.”友如作画须求淡，山似论文不喜平---清.翁平212.TodaymillionsofAmericansvacationabroad,andtheygonotonlytoseenewsightsbutalso—inthoseplaceswheretheydonotfeeltoostrange—withthehopeofmeetingnewpeople.Noonereallyexpectsavacationtriptoproduceaclosefriend.（L.2,Para.2)当今，上百万的美国人到国外渡假。实际上没有人指望一次旅行的结果会产生一个密友。但是一次旅行使友谊开始总是有可能的吧！嘤嘤鸣矣，求其友声----《诗经.小雅.伐木》Thatfriendsshouldcometoonefromafar,isthisnotafteralldelightful?Abosomfriendafarbringsdistantlandnear.----（唐）王勃223、Yousee,aFrenchmanexplains,ifIweretosaytoyouinFrance,'Thisismygoodfriend,'thatpersonwouldnotbeasclosetomeassomeoneaboutwhomIsaidonly,'Thisismyfriend.'AnyoneaboutwhomIhavetosaymoreisreallyless.（L.2,Para.7)“你知道，”一位法国人解释说，“在法国，我要是对你说‘这是我的好朋友’，他其实没有我只介绍‘这是我的朋友’的人更亲密。越是要把关系说得亲密的人，关系却越是疏远一些。”人之相识，贵在相知；人之相识，贵在知心----孟子结交在相知，骨肉何必亲----汉乐府234.AndFrenchfriendshipsarecompartmentalized.Amanmayplaychesswithafriendforthirtyyearswithoutknowinghispoliticalopinion,orhemaytalkpoliticswithhimforaslongatimewithoutknowingabouthispersonallife.（L.1,Para.10)“我与曲洋大哥只谈音律，不谈其他。”------《笑傲江湖》相识满天下，知心能几人----冯梦龙人生得一知己足矣，斯世当同怀视之-----鲁迅法国式的友谊有具体的分类。一个人可能与一位朋友下了三十年的棋而不知道他的政治观点，也可能与他谈论了三十年的政治，而不了解他的私人生活。245.Friendshipheightensthesenseofeachperson'sindividuality.Otherrelationshipscommandingasgreatloyaltyanddevotionhaveadifferentmeaning.（L.1,Para.12)友谊增强了每个人要有个性的意识。其他的关系需要伟大的忠诚和奉献，这种关系具有不同的含义世上有那么多城镇，城镇上有那么多酒店，而你偏偏走进了我这一间。256.Thereistherecognitionthatfriendshipsareformed,incontrastwithkinship,throughfreedomofchoice.Afriendissomeonewhochoosesandischosen.Relatedtothisisthesenseeachfriendgivestheotherofbeingaspecialindividual,onwhatevergroundsthisrecognitionisbased.（L.3,