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ReadingUnit5Goodmanners入乡随俗Thatistosay,youmustfollowthedifferentcustomsindifferentsituationsorindifferentcountries.DoyouknowhowBritishpeopleusuallydointhefollowingsituations?Whentheymeetyouforthefirsttimetheygreetrelativesorfriendswithakiss.Theyalwaysqueue.英国礼仪-相见礼仪在英国，当婴儿出生时，父母亲朋一般依婴儿的特征，父亲的职业为婴儿取名，有的母亲家庭显赫，就用娘家的姓作为婴儿的第二个名字。在英国，孩子们只对父母亲的兄弟姐妹称叔。英国老人讲究独立，不喜欢别人称自己老，走路时不必搀扶他们。英国礼仪-商务礼仪到英国从事商务活动要避开7，8月，这段时间工商界人士多休假，另外在圣诞节，复活节也不宜开展商务活动。在英国送礼不得送重礼，以避贿赂之嫌。在商务会晤时，按事先约好的时间光临，不得早到或迟到。英国工商界人士办事认真，不轻易动感情和表态，他们视夸夸其谈，自吹自擂为缺乏教养的表现。英国礼仪-旅游礼仪到英国旅行，需注意当地的所有车辆均沿马路的左侧行驶。英国人遵守纪律，即便是几个人上车，他们也会自觉地排队上车。在英国坐出租车，一般按10%左右付小费，将小费列入服务费帐单的饭店不必另付小费。在主人家中作客数日，视情况付给提供服务的佣人一些小费。英国礼仪-主要禁忌——三个禁忌排队等待不能插队英国人有排队的习惯。你可以看到他们一个挨一个地排队上公共汽车、火车或买报纸。加塞是一种令人不齿的行为。不能砍价在英国购物，最忌讳的是砍价。英国人不喜欢讨价还价，认为这是很丢面子的事情。如果你购买的是一件贵重的艺术作品或数量很大的商品时，你也需要小心地与卖方商定一个合适的价钱。英国人很少讨价还价，如果他们认为一件商品的价钱合适就买下，不合适就走开。讨厌过问私事如果您去英国旅游，千万不要问人家“您去哪儿”、“吃饭了吗？”这类问题。中国人认为很热情，英国人会认为你很粗鲁。他们讨厌别人过问他们的个人生活。不能问女士的年龄。英国人非常不喜欢谈论男人的工资和女人的年龄，甚至他家里的家具值多少钱，也是不该问的。如果你问了一位女士的年龄，也是很不合适的，因为她认为这是她自己的秘密，而且每个人都想永葆青春，没有比对中年妇女说一声“你看上去好年轻”更好的恭维了。英国礼仪-其他忌讳英国人认为13和星期五是不吉利的，尤其是13日与星期五相遇更忌讳，这个时候，许多人宁愿呆在家里不出门。在英国，忌讳谈论男人的工资，女人的年龄，政治倾向等。他们忌讳四人交叉式握手，还忌点烟连点三人。AWheninRomeDaniel:Hi,everyone.Todaywe’veinvitedJennytotalkaboutmannersintheUK.What’stheproperwaytogreetpeoplethere,Jenny?Jenny:Well,Britishpeoplesay“hello”or“nicetomeetyou”andshakeyourhandwhentheymeetyouforthefirsttime.Danielishostingtheschoolradioshowthisweek.Heisinterviewingjenny,agrade9student,whohasrecentlyvisitedtheUK.Daniel:Dotheygreetpeoplewithakiss?Jenny:No,Britishpeopleonlygreetrelativesorclosefriendswithakiss.Daniel:Howdopeoplestartaconversation?Jenny:Theytalkabouttheweather,holidays,music,booksorsomethingelse.Butpleaseavoidsubjectslikeage,weightormoney.Daniel:Dopeopletherebehavepolitelyinpublic?Jenny:Yes,theydo.Theyalwaysqueue.Theythinkit’srudetopushinbeforeothers.Also,iftheybumpintosomeoneinthestreet，they’llsay“sorry”.Daniel:Anythingelse?Jenny:Ifyou’reintheirway,theywon’ttouchyouorpushpastyou.They’llsay“excuseme”andbepoliteenoughtowaittillyoumove.Daniel:Britishpeopleareverypoliteathomeaswell,aren’tthey?Jenny:Yes.Theysay“please”and“thankyou”allthetime!Daniel:Anyothertipsforusifwe’regoingtotheUK?Jenny:Letmesee.Oh,keepyourvoicedowninpublic.Britishpeopledon’tliketoshoutorlaughloudly.Daniel:OK,thanks,Jenny.Nowwe’velearntmoreaboutmannersintheUK.I’msurethey’rehelpfultous.Jenny:Ihopeso.Justasthesayinggoes,“WheninRome,doastheRomansdo.”1.proper(L2)____2.greet(L2)____3.conversation(L5)____4.avoid(L9)____5.pushin(L13)____6.bump(L16)____BGoodmannersintheUKB1Simondoesnoknowsomeofthewordsintheinterview.Helphimmatchthewordsontheleftwiththemeaningsontheright.Writethecorrectlettersintheblanks.a.asmalltalkb.trynottodosth.c.goinfrontofotherpeoplewhoarewaitingd.hitsomeoneorsomethingbyaccidente.rightorcorrectf.sayhellotosomeoneorwelcomethemefabcdB2SimonistryingtomakesurethatherememberswhatJennytalkedaboutontheradio.HelphimtickforwhatBritishpeopledoandforwhattheydonotdo.GreetingSay“hello”or“nicetomeetyou”ShakehandsUsuallygreetpeoplewithakissTalkabouttheweather,holidays,musicorbooksTalkaboutage,weightormoneyInpublicQueueforsomethingPushinbeforeothersSay“sorry”iftheybumpintoothersPushpastpeopleShoutorlaughloudlyAthomeSay“please”and“thankyou”allthetimeB3JennyiswritinganarticleaboutgoodmannersintheUKfortheschoolnewsletter.Helphercompleteherarticlewiththecorrectwords.GoodmannersintheUKBritishpeopleusuallysay“hello”or“nicetomeetyou”and_______________whentheymeetyouforthefirsttime.Theyonlygreet________orclosefriendswithakiss.Theyliketostarta___________withsubjectsliketheweather,holidays,musicorbooks.They_______talkingshakeyourhandrelativesconversationavoidaboutage,weightormoney.Britishpeoplethinkitisrudeto_________beforeothers.Theyalways________.Theysay“sorry”ifthey___________youinthestreet.Whentheywantyouto_______,theysay“excuseme”.Theydon’tliketoshoutorlaughloudly___________.Britishpeopleare_______athometoo.Theysay“please”and“thankyou”____________.“WheninRome,doas____________do.”Whenweareinastrangeplace,weshoulddoasthelocalpeopledo.pushinqueuebumpintomoveinpublicpoliteallthetimetheRomansCTalkingaboutmannersinChinaDanielisthinkingaboutthedifferencesinmannersbetweentheUKandChina.Workinpairsanddiscusshisquestionsbelowwithyourpartner.1.WeChinesepeoplegreeteachotherbynoddingtheirheads,shakinghandsorapolitebow.（礼貌的鞠躬）2.WeChinesepeopleusuallystartaconversationbysentenceslike“Didyoueat?”,“Wherewillyougo?”…3.SometimesweChinesepeopledon’tqueuebutpushinbeforeothers.Possibleanswers:4.SomeChinesepeoplewilltouchyouorpushpastyouwhenyou’reintheirway.5.Therearestillimpolitephenomenaexistinglikeshoutingorlaughingloudlyinpublic.6.Wehardlysay“please”and“thankyou”athome.Andtakeallwegetforgranted.take…forgranted认为…….是理所当然的1.Dotheygreetpeoplewithakiss?他们用亲吻的方式打招呼吗？句中的greetsomebodywith…意思是“以……方式跟人打招呼”。如：Shegreeteduswithasmile.Languagepoints2.Theyalwaysqueue.Theythinkit’srudetopushinbeforeothers.他们总是排队等候。他们认为在别人面前插队是粗鲁无礼的。pushin“插队，加塞”，美国人常用cutin.HomeworkSearchmoreaboutmannerdifferencesbetweenChineseandwesternc