大学英语口语课件-爱情与婚姻-love-and-marriage

LoveandMarriage•Haveyoueverattendedawedding?•Howdoyouthinkaboutit?•Canyoudescribeitbriefly?bride新娘bridegroom(groom)新郎groomsman(bestman)伴郎bridesmaid伴娘weddingceremony结婚典礼weddinginvitation婚礼请柬churchwedding教堂婚礼traditionalChinesewedding传统中式婚礼outdoorwedding户外婚礼weddingreception婚宴weddingdress婚纱、结婚礼服Weddingmarch婚礼进行曲honeymoon蜜月I______,takeyou______,tobemyweddedwife(husband).Tohaveandtohold,fromthisdayforward,forbetter,forworse,forricher,forpoorer,insicknessorinhealth,toloveandtocherish,‘tilldeathdousapart.AndheretoIpledgeyoumyfaithfulness.WeddingvowsWeddingtraditions•Insomewesterncountries,bridesaresupposedtogathersomethingold,somethingnew,somethingborrowedandsomethingblue,andtocarryorwearthemontheirweddingdayastheywalkdowntheaisle.•ItissaidthattheaverageexpensesofChineseweddinghasrisentoRMB120,000(includingthecostofpre-weddingphotos,weddingreception,andhoneymoontrip…)•What’youropiniononthehugecostofawedding?FreeDiscussion•Howwillyouplanyourownwedding?DifferentunderstandingofloveandmarriagebetweenChineseandWesterners…WestChinaAbsolutelypersonalissueFamilybackgroundsocialrelations“Marryyourmatch”Love＞Marriage↓HighdivorcerateMarriage＞LoveMarriage=responsibilitiesanddutiesDescriptionofadate:Pretty,cute,smart,humorous…Descriptionofadate:Height,Occupation,Educationbackground,Family…LoveatfirstsighttransientTimebreedslove.LastlongIndependencyineconomyandthoughtAlliscommon./ShareeverythingTotalequalityHousehusbandMenshouldhandleexternalmatters,whilewomenlookafterthehomeIswearAll-4-oneISwearIswearBythemoonandthestarsintheskyAndIswearLiketheshadowthat'sbyyoursideIseethequestionsinyoureyesIknowwhat'sweighingonyourmindYoucanbesureIknowmypart'CauseI'llstandbesideyouthroughtheyearsYou'llonlycrythosehappytearsAndthoughImakemistakesI'llneverbreakyourheartAndIswearBythemoonandthestarsintheskyI'llbethereIswear,Likeashadowthat'sbyyoursideI'llbethere,ForbetterorworseTilldeathdouspartI'llloveyouwitheverybeatofmyheartAndIswear,wo..o...oI'llgiveyoueverythingIcanI'llbuildyourdreamswiththesetwohandsWe'llhangsomememoriesonthewallsAndwhenjustthetwoofusarethereYouwon'thavetoaskifIstillcare'CauseasthetimeturnsthepageMylovewon'tageatallAndIswearBythemoonandthestarsintheskyI'llbethere,I'llbethereIswearLiketheshadowthat'sbyyoursideI'llbethere,I'llbethereForbetterorworse,tilldeathdouspartI'llloveyouwitheverybeatofmyheartAndIswearIswearBythemoonandstarsintheskyI'llbethere,I'llbethereIswearLiketheshadowthat'sbyyoursideI'llbethere,I'llbethereForbetterorworseTilldeathdouspartI'llloveyouwitheverybeatofmyheartAndIswear,Iswear,ohIswearWhatareyourmajorconsiderationswhenyouarechoosingyourwifeorhusband?Andwhy?AppearanceHeightPersonalityOccupationFamilyEducationOtherfactors…Ifyourparentsarestronglyopposedtoyourmarriagewithsomebody,whatwillyoudo?FreeDiscussionDebating:CollegestudentsfallinginloveTheclaim(theProposition):Collegeloveaffairwilldomoregoodthanharm.Referencearguments:toenrichthelifeexperience;topromotethegrowthofyourmind;tosupporteachother;pureenvironment/withoutinterference;plentyoftimeformutualunderstanding;easiertofindtruelove;firmemotionalfoundationhappyrecollections;...优质文档放心阅读Debating:CollegestudentsfallinginloveThecounterclaim(theOpposition):Collegeloveaffairwilldomoreharmthangood.Arguments:Financialburden;Interferewiththestudy(time-consuming);Immaturethoughts;Uncertainfuture;Practicalproblems(jobs,location,family)…Someusefulexpressionforadebateinmyopinion…我的意见是……I’dliketopointoutthat我想指出的是……PersonallyIthink……我个人认为……thepointisthat……关键是……,要点是.....Ibelievethat……我相信……inmyexperience…根据我的经验……butwhatabout…？但关于……方面呢？whatImeantosaywas…我的意思是说……I’mafraididisagree.恐怕我是持反对意见的。Idon’tthinkso.我不那样认为。onthecontrary.相反的。allright，butdon’tyouthink…？好吧，但难道你不觉得……that’sagoodpoint.这个看法不错。that’snot（entirely）true.那不（完全）正确。well…whatdoyouthink（about…）？…你觉得怎么样？letmerephrasewhatIsaid.让我重申刚才所说的爱是什么？一个精灵坐在碧绿的枝叶间沉思。风儿若有若无。一只鸟儿飞过来，停在枝上，望着远处将要成熟的稻田。精灵取出一束黄澄澄的稻谷问道：“你爱这稻谷吗？”“爱。”“为什么？”“它驱赶我的饥饿。”鸟儿啄完稻谷，轻轻梳理着光润的羽毛。“现在你爱这稻谷吗？”精灵又取出一束黄澄澄的稻谷。鸟儿抬头望着远处的一湾泉水回答：“现在我爱那一湾泉水，我有点渴了。”精灵摘下一片树叶，里面盛了一汪泉水。鸟儿喝完泉水，准备振翅飞去。“请再回答我一个问题，”精灵伸出指尖，鸟儿停在上面。“你要去做什么更重要的事吗？我这里又稻谷也有泉水。”“我要去那片开着风信子的山谷，去看那朵风信子。”“为什么？它能驱赶你的饥饿？”“不能。”“它能滋润你的干渴？”“不能。”爱是什么？一个精灵坐在碧绿的枝叶间沉思。风儿若有若无。一只鸟儿飞过来，停在枝上，望着远处将要成熟的稻田。精灵取出一束黄澄澄的稻谷问道：“你爱这稻谷吗？”“爱。”“为什么？”“它驱赶我的饥饿。”鸟儿啄完稻谷，轻轻梳理着光润的羽毛。“现在你爱这稻谷吗？”精灵又取出一束黄澄澄的稻谷。鸟儿抬头望着远处的一湾泉水回答：“现在我爱那一湾泉水，我有点渴了。”精灵摘下一片树叶，里面盛了一汪泉水。鸟儿喝完泉水，准备振翅飞去。“请再回答我一个问题，”精灵伸出指尖，鸟儿停在上面。“你要去做什么更重要的事吗？我这里又稻谷也有泉水。”“我要去那片开着风信子的山谷，去看那朵风信子。”“为什么？它能驱赶你的饥饿？”“不能。”“它能滋润你的干渴？”“不能。”