HumanRelationsandInterpersonalSkillsUnit1Warm-up01ListeningandSpeaking02ViewingandSpeaking03CONTENTSProject04Warm-upWarm-up1Workingroupstomakealistofvariouskindsofinterpersonalrelationshipsinourlives.Thenchooseawordinthefollowingboxtodescribetherelationships.Youmayuseyourownwordifit’snotincluded.journeygardenseednutrientfruittreefilmshowdancesongdreampartygameweatherwindsunshinestarfirespicebookdictionarysmartphonechemicalpaintpianokeyWarm-upReferenceanswers-Myrelationshipwithmyboyfriendislikeajourney.Ithastwistsandturns,upsanddowns.Sometimestheroadissmooth,sometimesitisrough,andsometimesthereareevenaccidentsontheroad.ButwehavemadeithereallthewayandIbelieveithasbeenaworthyjourney.-Myrelationshipwithmyfriendsislikeabook.Ittakesalongtimetowrite,butonlyaminutetotearup.Warm-up2Workinpairsonthefollowingactivities.StudentAturnstoPage123.StudentBturnstoPage124.StudentAdescribesPictureAtoStudentB,andthelatterdrawsthepicturewithoutaskinganyquestions.StudentAdoesnotcorrectStudentBevenifhe/shemakesmistakes.StudentBdescribesPictureBtoStudentAandStudentAdrawsthepicture.Therewillbeconstantcommunicationbetweenyoutomakethedrawingmatchtheoriginalpictureasmuchaspossible.Step1Step2Step3Warm-up2Workinpairsonthefollowingactivities.Discusswithyourpartnerabouttheprocessesofdrawing.Whichwayofcommunication,one-wayforPictureA,ortwo-wayforPictureB,ismoreeffective?Doyouthinkthisisthesametoourinterpersonalrelationships?Step4ListeningandSpeakingTopicOneHowtoapologize1Sometimes,wedothingsthatrequireanapology.Butoftentimesitisnoteasytoopenthemouth.Nowyouaregoingtohearsomeadviceonhowtoapologizefromanetiquetteexpert.Listentoatalkandnotedownthesevenstepsofapologizing.ListeningandSpeakingHowtoapologizeListeningandunderstandingReferenceanswersStep1:Prepare.Step2:Approach.Step3:Loweryourvoice.Step4:Makeeyecontact.Step5:Givetheapology.Step6:Takethewrap.Step7:Finishonapositive.HowtoapologizeListeningandunderstandingListeningandSpeaking2Listentothetalkagainandfillintheblankswiththephrasesandexpressionsyouhear.Thenworkinpairsandexplaintheminthecontextofthetalk.HowtoapologizeListeningandunderstandingListeningandSpeaking1Wealldothingsthatrequireanapologyfromtimetotime.But__________________isaskillinitself.2Howcouldyou__________________forwhatyou’vedone?3Askifyoucould__________________withtheperson,andthentakethemtooneside.4Loweryourvoice.Youshouldnotbe_____________________.5Ifyoulookawayatthekeymoments,orrefusetomeettheirgazeatall,theymaythinkyouare______________________.eatinghumblepiemakeamendshaveawordlookingforanargumentholdingsomethingback2Listentothetalkagainandfillintheblankswiththephrasesandexpressionsyouhear.Thenworkinpairsandexplaintheminthecontextofthetalk.HowtoapologizeListeningandunderstandingListeningandSpeaking6IsthereanythingIcandoto_________________you?7Theotherpersonmaystillbeangrywithyou.Andinorderto__________________,theymightneedtocommunicatethis.Ifso,youneedto___________________.8OK,socanwejustputitbehindusand__________________,yeah?9Don’tlettheconversationlingerasthiscouldprovideanopportunityfor______________________.makeituptocleartheairfacethemusicmoveonoldwoundstoresurfaceReferenceanswers1eatinghumblepie(eathumblepie:admitthatyouwerewrong,especiallyinanembarrassingsituation)2makeamends(trytomakeasituationbetterafteryouhavedonesth.wrong)3haveaword(haveashortconversationordiscussion,usuallywithoutotherpeoplelistening)4lookingforanargument(lookforanargument:behaveinawaythatlookslikeyouexpecttoarguewithsb.)5holdingsomethingback(holdsth.back:keepsth.secret)HowtoapologizeListeningandunderstandingListeningandSpeakingReferenceanswers6makeitupto(makeituptosb.:dosth.goodforsb.youhaveupset,inordertobecomefriendswiththemagain)7cleartheair(discussaproblemordifficultsituationwithsb.inordertomakeitbetter);facethemusic(acceptcriticismorpunishmentforsth.youhavedonewrong)8moveon(finishorstoponeactivityandstartdoingsth.different)9oldwoundstoresurface(oldwoundsresurface:sb.remembersanunpleasanteventorsituationthathappenedinthepast)HowtoapologizeListeningandunderstandingListeningandSpeaking3Whenyoubrokeapromise,orweremisunderstoodbyyourfriend,anapologyisinorder.Workinpairsandrole-playthefollowingsituations.Remembertoincludeasmanyofthesevenstepsofapologizingaspossible.HowtoapologizeThinkingandspeakingListeningandSpeakingHowtoapologizeThinkingandspeakingUsefulexpressionsformakingandacceptinganapology:MakinganapologyAcceptinganapology•I’mso/awfully/terriblysorryaboutthat.•Iapologize.•Myapologies.•That’sallright.•That’sOK.•Nevermind.•Ioweyouanapology.•Ihopeyouwillforgiveme.•It’sallmyfault.Ireallyfeelbadaboutit.•Ihonestlydidn’tmeanit.•IwishIcouldtakeitback.•It’snotyourfault.•Itreallydoesn’tmatteratall.•Don’tworryaboutit.•Thinknomoreofit.•Noproblem.Weallmakemistakes.ListeningandSpeakingSituation1:Yousaidyouwouldbringyourlaptoptoclassforthegrouppresentation,butyouforgot.Theothergroupmembersdonothavebackups.ReferenceanswersA:Hey,guys,Imadeaterriblemistake.Ihopeyouwillexcuseme.B:What’swrong?A:Iforgottobringmylaptopforthepresentation!HowtoapologizeThinkin