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1NothingSucceedsliketheAppearanceofSuccessEverywinnerhasawinningimage,whichiscalledcharisma,charm,personality,style,flairorgrace.Isitpossibleforsomeonetosucceedwithoutdoinganyhardwork.Theansweriscertainlyno.Asweknow,amanwhoissuccessfulhavetobeamanwhohaddoneallthehardworkshehadtoonhiswaytosucceed,andovercomeallthedifficulties.Heorshealsohavetobeapersonwhohaspositivequalitieswhichwillhelphimalot.Forexample,thefamousbasketballplayerwhosenameisYaoming.Didheovercomealotofdifficulties?Yes,hedidforsure.Asabasketballplayer,hepracticeseverydayformanytimes,againandagain,neverstop,andnevergiveup.Forsomanyyears,hehasbeenkeepinghismind.Finally,hebecameoneofthemostfamousbasketballplayeroftheNBA.Heprovedhisworthyandalsoprovedhissuccess.EveryonewhobecamesuccessfullikeYaomingwasjustworkinghardlikehim.Everywinnerhastheirownstories.Theyallshowthatnothingsucceedsliketheappearanceofsucceeds.2Howtowinlove?Thereisacommonopinionintheworldaboutlove.It'sthatloveisamixtureoffriendshipandrespectandappetite.BenjaminFranklinsaid,Ifyouwouldbeloved,loveandbelovable.Ifwewantwinlove,weshoulddoubleoureffortstoimproveourselvesaccordingthosethreerelationshipsabove.Furthermore,inmyopinion,winninglovecanbedividedintotwoparts.Oneishowtowinyourobject'sheartwhenyouareinpursuitofher(him).Theotherishowtokeeptheloveafteryouhavebuiltaloverelationshipwithyourobject.Forthefirstsituation,thekeypointisattractingyourobject'sattentionandmakingherfallinlovewithyou.Tellheryouloveherstrictly.Nevertalkaboutyourloveinajokingvoice.Showheryouradvantagesandtellheryourdisadvantageshonestly.Ifshe'sgottenintrouble,gotohelpherasquicklyasyourcan.Respectherworksandherdiscissions.Ifyouhavedonelikethesemethodsabove,youhavebecameagoodfriendwithyourobject.Tobecomeacoupleoflovers,youneedthelastcause,thatissexualattraction.Goodlookisonlyalittlecauseofsexualattraction.Cleandresses,goodmanners,decisivecharactersandresponsibilitiescanmakeone(bothformenandwomen)moreattractive.Forthesecondsituation,ifyouwanttokeeplove,keepdoingwhatyoudidwheninpursuitofher.Neverdoasthestupidfish-manwhosaid,WhyshouldIgiveitbaitwhenI'vegottenthefish?Acouplekeptformanyyearslooksmorelikefriendsthanlovers,thatiswherefriendship,respectandappetitework.Then,youngboys,takemysuggestionandgotofindyourhappiness!3WhatDoestheFablemeantoMe?ThemorallessonofTheAntandtheGrasshopperis:Idlenessbringswant.ButtheauthortellsusastoryofGeorgeandTomtoshowhisdisagreement.Iaminspiredbythetwostories,butIthinkthemoralofthefableisthatonemustkeepagoodbalancebetweenmaterialandspirit.Firstly,materialisthebaseofourliving.Soweshouldbeindustrious,justastheantisbusygatheringitswinterstoreandGeorgegoestoworkeveryday.Industrycanbringusfood,helpusmakealivingforourfamily,andevenpromotethesocialdevelopment.Onthecontrary,ifeveryoneisidle,spendsalldaysingingjustlikethegrasshopper,oreveryoneisTom--gambles,flirtswithprettiestgirlsandevenblackmailshisownbrother,wewouldbeperfectlyworthlessanddoharmtoourfamilyorsociety.Secondly,spiritisourultimatepursuit.Lifeiscolorful.Weshouldn’tbeworkinglikeahorseallday,thelifeoftheantandGeorgearetooboring.Wecanliveahappylife—singanddancewhenwewant,eatdeliciousfood,liveinexpensiverestaurantoccasionally,andsoon.WecandosomethinginterestingjustlikethegrasshopperandTom,butweshouldnotviolatemoralprinciple.Inshort,weshouldbeindustriousbutdon’tregardworkasyourwholelife,andwecanmakeourlifecolorfulbutdoobservemoraldiscipline.Thereisacommonopinionintheworldaboutlove.It'sthatloveisamixtureoffriendshipandrespectandappetite.BenjaminFranklinsaid,Ifyouwouldbeloved,loveandbelovable.Ifwewantwinlove,weshoulddoubleoureffortstoimproveourselvesaccordingthosethreerelationshipsabove.Furthermore,inmyopinion,winninglovecanbedividedintotwoparts.Oneishowtowinyourobject'sheartwhenyouareinpursuitofher(him).Theotherishowtokeeptheloveafteryouhavebuiltaloverelationshipwithyourobject.4E-mailABlessingorACurse?E-mailhasbecomeapartofcertainimportanceinalmosteverybody'sdailylife,maybebillionsofemailsareexchangedontheinterneteveryday.Butwiththequickdevelopmentofinternetandemailtechnologies,therealsoaresomebadimpactsofemailtopeople'slife.Forexample,theworstcanbecalledjunkmails.Justlikeitsname,it'sreallyakindofjunkontheinternetandyourmailbox,there'snothingthatmatterswithyouorevencontainssomekindofvirussometimes,imaginethisyouarebusywithyourworkeveryday,andamostimportantpartofyourjobistochecktheemailandreplytoyourcustoms,butwhenyouopenyoumailbox,allyoufindisthoseJunkMails!Theymightbecalledcursebysomepeople,asitreallyinfluencesyourmoodinlifeorwork,orevenworsewhatifthejunkmailhassomevirusinit?Whenyouopenthemailunconsciously,youmayhaveabigproblemtodealwith,nobodywantsthattohappendon'twe.Ijustwonderwhytherearesomanypeoplecreatingjunkmaileverydayandsendittopeopleallaroundtheworld!Yeah,it'sbettertofindsomethingusefulinsomejunkmails,butseldomyoucandothat.However,wehavetosayallthethingsintheworldhavetheirbadandalsogoodaspectsatthesametime,wejustcan'tdoubtaboutit.Foremails,wehavetoconsiderthatwithoutit,amostpartofpeopleintheworldwouldbedied!Peopleuseemailstotrans