Should-College-Student-Couples-Live-Together

ShouldCollegeStudentCouplesLiveTogether?ByCaptain,May,21.2012QufuNormalUniversityInrecentyears,whethercollegestudentcouplesshouldlivetogetherhasbecomeahottopicbothonandoffcampus.Somepeopleareoftheopinionthatweshouldholdatolerantattitudetowardscohabitationfortimehaschanged,whileotherspointoutthatcohabitationshouldbediscouragedoncampus,becauseitwillmisleadcollegestudentsorevenruinthegeneration.Formypart,Istronglysupportthelatteropinionandmyreasonsareasfollows.Thefirstandmostimportantreasonisthatlivingtogetherwilldistractstudents’attentionfromtheirstudy.Ontheonehand,thelifeexpenseisaheavyburdenforthem.Theyhavetopayforthehighrent,electricitycost,etchowevertheirfinancialsupportislimited,forfewofthemdaretoaskforextramoneyfromtheirparents.Inordertomaintainthedailyconsumption,somestudentschoosetocutclasstotakepart—timejobs.Itisdeplorablethattheygetthemoneyatthepriceoffailingtheirtests.Theworstconsequenceisthatsomestudentsarecompelledtodropschool,becausetheyhavefailedontoomanysubjects.However,regretisofnohelp.Ontheotherhand,mostuniversitiestakemeasures,suchasinspectingadmonitoryregularly,topreventstudentcouplesfromlivingtogetheroutoftheconsiderationthatcohabitationmayhasanegativeeffectonstudents’study.Studentcoupleshavetoworryaboutbeingpunishedfromtimetotime.Meanwhile,themajorityofcollegestudentsarestillreluctanttoaccepttheconductofcohabitation;theirgossipbringsaboutanotherpressureforthestudentcouplestobear.What’smore,itisinevitableforthosecouplestoharborsomeguiltwholivetogetherwithoutlettingtheirparentsknow.Takingallthesementalburdensintoaccount,wemayreachthatitiscompletelyimpossibleforthosecouplestofocustheirenergyonstudy,letalonetogetagoodscore.AsfarasIamconcerned,collegelifeisthegoldentimeforustoacquireknowledge,whichwillneveroccuragaininourlife.ItisstupidtowastethegoldentimeontriflesofcohabitationAnotherequallyimportantaspectisthatlivingtogetheroncampusisachallengetotheauthorityofcorrectmarriageviewandsexualconcept,whichattachgreatimportancetoresponsibility.Moststudentcoupleskeepanintimaterelationshipwitheachothernotoutoftruelovebutthattheyjustwanttochasetheirinnerinanityandloneliness.Ascollegestudents,theyaretooinnocentabouttherealmeaningofresponsibility.Withoutafixedfinancialsourceandcertainfuture,livingtogetherisjusttoflirtwitheachother’saffection.However,marriageisseriousandholyandcannotbearanycarelessattitude.AccordingtoarecentresearchconductedbytheOfficeofChineseSocietyInvestigation,nearlyallthestudentcoupleswholivetogetheroncampushavesexualbehaviors.Althoughphysically,theyaremature,mentallytheyarestillnaïve.Moreoftenthannottheyhavetoeatthebitterfruitoftheirownindulgence.Alakeofsexualexperienceandeffectivecontraceptionmeasuresincreasestherisksofunplannedpregnancies.Outoftheconsiderationofself—respect,theydarenottotelltheirparentsandteachers.Theycandonothingbutgothehospitaltohaveanabortionsecretly.Thesegirlswillsufferbothmentalandphysicaldamageforalongtimeoreventheirwholelife.Fromwhathasbeendiscussedabove,wemaysafelydrawtheconclusionthatlivingtogetherofstudentcouplesoncampusisharmfultotheirstudyaswellastheirhealth,bothphysicallyandmentally.Furthermore,suchbehaviorisregardedasaviolationagainstthecorrectmarriageviewsandsexualconcepts.Inaword,collegestudentcouplesshouldnotlivetogether.