2Mateselection1Purpose3WhenandWhether5Divorce4Sexualmores(观念)expandrelativesofthealliance(亲属同盟)continuefamilyclan(传宗接代)legalwaytoventsexualdesirebearchildrenOrthodoxChristiandoctrine(正统基督教义)livingtogetherforlifetimeEnjoyloveandhappinessSuitableaboutpossessionandsocialstatusStagedanddiversestandardsDivergenceof“moneycomesfirst&lovecomesfirst”InfluencedbytheirparentsorfamilymuchdecideontheirownSimilartastesandinterestsAffectioncomesfirstChinaWesterncountriescollegestudentspost-90s2013.52014.11SuitableaboutpossessionandsocialstatusStagedanddiversestandardsDivergenceof“Materiallifecomesfirst&spirituallifecomesfirst”InfluencedbytheirparentsorfamilymuchdecideontheirownSimilartastesandinterestsAffectioncomesfirstChinaWesterncountriesAtanearlyageNowlaterandlaterMostpeoplemustgetmarriedChinaWesterncountriesNorestrictionoftimeFewerpeoplegetmarriedNoYes?ChinaWestreproductioncheerfulnesscheerfulnessChinaWestMateforlife(从一而终)DifficultBecomenormalDivorcewhenlovehasgoneHighdivorcerateLowdivorcerateDivorcingandremarryingareeasierChinaWesterncountries