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ChineseAndWesternViewsOnLoveGeneralOverview·Westernersattachimportancetoamativeness（恋爱）andthinkloveisforemost.However,chinesevaluemarriagesdespiselove.——ZhuGuangqian西方人重视恋爱，有恋爱至上的标语，中国人重视婚姻而轻视恋爱。•Theextentofpursuinglove•Mannersofexpressinglove•Attitudestowardsex•Chinesetheyalwaysgiveuptrueloveorstruggleforthierlovenegatively·WesternerstheypursuetrueloveboldlyandloveindepenceandfreedomDeath,thathathsuck’dthehoneyofthybreath,hathhadnopoweryetuponthybeauty:Thouartnotconquer’d;Beauty’sensignyetiscrimsoninthylipsandinthycheeks,anddeath’spaleflagisnotadvancedthere.----RomeoandJuliet死虽然已经吸去了你呼吸中的芳蜜，却还没有力量摧残你的美貌；你还没有被他征服，你的嘴唇上、面庞上，依然显着红润的美艳，不曾让灰白的死亡进占。死亡，即使能夺走爱人的生命，却永远也不能消灭恋人间不渝的爱情。Theyexpressthierloveimplicitly（含蓄地）andcautiouslyThequietwomanfromTheBookofPoetrythepoetrydepictslover'sfirstdate,thegirlsenttheboyred-tubewritingbrush,theboywastooexcitedbutrespondedimplicitly.ChineseWesternersfrankly、open、regardlessofeverything'Ilovedyou.Inevershall.That'sthetruth,Roy.Inevershall.'‘我爱你，从未爱过别人，永远不会，这是真的，罗伊，永远不会。’ChineseTheyconsideritimmoraltohavesexwithsomeonebeforegettingmarriedandchildrenarethelinkofcouples.WesternersTheythinkitiscommonforloverstohavesexualrelationsandsexisjustaphysiologicalneeds.Marriage结婚你不是嫁给了某一个人，而是嫁给了这个人的全部社会关系。你们俩的结合就是两个家庭的结合，他娶了你，就等于娶了你的一切，包括你的社会关系、你的一切、、、——顾小西妈妈Tobetogetherornot,it’sjustaquestionbetweenthetwo.Theydon’tconsidertoomuch.Theycarealotaboutthefeelingwhentheyarewiththeother,insteadoftheirexternal(外部的，表面的)conditionslikefamilyandjob.Ifthefeelingisgood,betogetherOtherwise,breakup~statusofwomenanddegreeofsocialopening•Chinawomenhavealowsocialstatusandtheymustobeythethreeobediencesandthefourvirtuesandhavelittlefreedominchoosingthierhusbands·westerncountrieswomenplayleadingrolesinfamiliesandenjoyawiderangeoffreedom