ComparisonsOfChineseAndWesternViewsOnLoveGeneralOverview·Westernersattachimportancetoamativenessandthinkloveisforemost.However,chinesevaluemarriagesdespiselove.——ZhuGuangqian西方人重视恋爱,有恋爱至上的标语,中国人重视婚姻而轻视恋爱。TheextentofpursuingloveMannersofexpressingloveAttitudestowardsexPartone:DifferencesChinesetheyalwaysgiveuptrueloveorstruggleforthierlovenegatively·WesternerstheypursuetrueloveboldlyandloveindepenceandfreedomDeath,thathathsuck’dthehoneyofthybreath,hathhadnopoweryetuponthybeauty:Thouartnotconquer’d;Beauty’sensignyetiscrimsoninthylipsandinthycheeks,anddeath’spaleflagisnotadvancedthere.----RomeoandJuliet死虽然已经吸去了你呼吸中的芳蜜,却还没有力量摧残你的美貌;你还没有被他征服,你的嘴唇上、面庞上,依然显着红润的美艳,不曾让灰白的死亡进占。死亡,即使能夺走爱人的生命,却永远也不能消灭恋人间不渝的爱情。TheyexpressthierloveimplicitlyandcautiouslyThequietwomanfromTheBookofPoetrythepoetrydepictslover'sfirstdate,thegirlsenttheboyred-tubewritingbrush,theboywastooexcitedbutrespondedimplicitly.ChineseWesternersfrankly、open、regardlessofeverything'Ilovedyou.Inevershall.That'sthetruth,Roy.Inevershall.'‘我爱你,从未爱过别人,永远不会,这是真的,罗伊,永远不会。’ChinesetheyconsideritimmoraltohavesexwithsomeonebeforegettingmarriedandchildrenarethelinkofcouplesWesternerstheythinkitiscommomforloverstohavesexualrelationsandsexisjustaphysiologicalneedsConclusion:Peopleinancientwesternsocietyhadmuchmoreopenandtolerantattitudethanancientchinadid.parttwocausesthatleadtodifftentopinionsNationalCultureChinabasedonself-sefficientagriculture以自给自足的农业为基础harmonybetweentheheavenandhuman天人合一·westerncountriesbasedonacientGreekbusinessculture以古希腊商业文化为基础expandingoutward向外扩张statusofwomenanddegreeofsocialopeningChinawomenhavealowsocialstatusandtheymustobeythethreeobediencesandthefourvirtuesandhavelittlefreedominchoosingthierhusbands·westerncountrieswomenplayleadingrolesinfamiliesandenjoyawiderangeoffreedomNationalcharacterChinaenslavinganddependentpersonalitypoliticalinequality、dependentonnature、ideologicalrigidity、·westerncountriespassionate、boldandrestrained、determined、uncompromisingindependentpoliticallyandecomomically、