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1ArgumentsfororagainstsendingagedparentstonursinghomesFor：Parentscanachievemorecareitsavetimeforyoungcoupleswhogotoworkalldaywithoutenergytolookaftertheirparentsitprovesunemployedmantogotoworkascaregivers.Whatourparentsneedisnottohaveacomfortableenvironment.Theyjustwanttohaveachatwithyou;theyjustwanttoexchangeideaswithyou;theyjustwanttobewithyou…Nomatterhowhardthelifeis!Sinceitisasocietywithahighspeed,wemayhavesomuchtimetotakecareofparentswellenough.Soitisagoodchoicetosendourparentstheretohavetheworkerlookafterthem.Theymayfeelcomfortedtohelprelievetheirchildren’sstress.Andweshouldshowrespectfortheirchoice.Thefamilyisbecomingsmallerandsmaller,whichmeansthecoupleshouldtakecareoffourparentsandachild,andthatisabigburdenfortheyounggenerations.Atthenursinghome,theoldmayfindalotofthingsincommonwiththepeoplethere,andtheycansharetheirfeelings.Anditdoesn’tmeanthatwedesertthem,wecanoftenvisitthemandcomfortthemAgedparentswillfelllonelyiftheystayathomebythemselves.However,atthenursinghomes,theywillhavemanycompanionstotalkwithandtoplaywith..Someagedparentsareinbadhealth,buttheirchildrenarebusywiththeirwork..Onthiscondition,it’sagoodideatosendthemtonursinghomestogetbettercare.Forchildren,iftheysendtheiragedparentstonursinghomes,theywillworrylessabouttheirparents,sothattheywillwokmuchbetter.Against：1.Causeourparentshavedonealotforuswhenwewerestillyoung,andnowwhenwearegrownupandhavetheabilitytoearnsomemoney,weshouldtryourbesttodosomethingforthemandletthemtoliveastheylike,enjoysomehappymomentsbeforetheirdeaths.2.Ithinkmostagedpeopledon'tlikethenursinghome,whattheyneedatthistimeisnotgoodfood,goodnursing,butloveandcarefromtheirsonsanddaughterswhotheyputtheirwholehopeson.Weshouldgivethemloveandlookafterthem,astheydidtouswhenwewereyoung.What’smore,Chinaisacountryrespectagedparents,weshouldfollowthesociety'svirtue.Youngpeopleleaveeldersaloneinnursinghomeselderlymayhavethefeelingofbeingabandoned.Ithinkitistotallywrongtosendourparentstothenursinghome.Ourparentssparednoeffortstobringusup,nowwhentheybecomeold;itisourdutytocareforthem,insteadofsendingthemaway.3.Weshouldnotonlyprovideourparentswitheconomicresources,butalsoweshouldgivethemspiritualcomfort.Andthisisthemostimportantsinceelderpeople2areverymuchafraidofloneliness.4.Nowtheenvironmentofthenursinghomeisnotthatsatisfactory.Itmaybeverydirty,noisyandunorderlyintheoldpeople’shouse.Andthefoodtheremightbeverybad,nottomentionhavingbalanceddiets.5.Inthenursinghome,therearenearlynoyoungpeople.Eventheworkerstherearealittleold.Thereisnovigoratall.6.Theabilitytoadapttothestrangeenvironmentisweak.Maybetheyhaveadaptedtothefamiliarfamilyandneighborhood.Andtheyarenotwillingtochange.7.Influencedbyourtraditionalculture,itisrootedinourmindthatitisthehappiestthingtohavealargefamilyandhavetheirsonsanddaughtersandgrandsonsandgranddaughtersaround.Ifwesendthemtothenursinghometheymayfeeldeserted.8.Itisaregularlawthattheolderwebecome,themorewefeeltheneedtogettogetherwithourfamily.9.Youmayarguethatwemayhavenotimeandenergytotakecareofourparents.ButIbelieveaswellaswesparenoeffort,wearesuretofindtimetoaccompanyourparentsandinturnwearerelievedtohaveawonderfultimewiththem.Andthisisaperfectwaytorelax.10.sincewearenotsoindependentastheyoungintheWest,ourparentsmaybecomeusedtolivingwithus,sowehadbetterkeepourparentswithus.HaveyourememberthesongsungintheSpringFestivalEveningShow常回家看看。Whatourparentsneedisnottohaveacomfortableenvironment.Theyjustwanttohaveachatwithyou;theyjustwanttoexchangeideaswithyou;theyjustwanttobewithyou…Nomatterhowhardthelifeis!11.Somechildrenjustsendtheiragedparentstonursinghomes,andlatercarelittleabouttheirparents,whichmakestheirparentsverysad.12.Forsomeagedparents,theywanttostaywiththeirchildreneveryday,thentheywillfellveryhappyandsatisfied.Therefore,it’sagainsttheirwilltosendthemtonursinghomes.13.Somenursinghomesarefarfromsatisfactory,andtheyarenotabletobringagedparentshappinessArgumentsfororagainstaskingpocketmoneyfromourparentsArgumentsfororagainstaskingpocketmoneyfromourparentsWiththedevelopmentofourmodernsociety,peopleslivingconditionsbecomemuchmorecomfortable.Butalongwithintensecompetition,parentshavelesstimetoconsiderchildrenneedsinall-round.Onemethodtosolvethiscontradictionistogivechildrensomepocketmoney.Pocketmoneyisusefultochildren.Butwhetherthechildrenareconsiderableenoughtomakecorrectuseofthesemoney.For:Someonebelievethatgivingchildrenpocketmoneyreallyhasmanyadvantages.Withpocketmoney,childrencanbuytheirdailynecessitiessuchaspencils,littletoys,andsnackfoodtheylike.Itwillgivechildrenacertainfreedomtoselectwhattheywant,makethemawarerulesoftheequivalentexchange.Sincetimetoparentsisveryprecious,givingpocketmoneytochildrenhelpthemto3savetimespentinshopping,butusedinbusyworkingandearningmoney.Itcanenablechildrentogaintheabilitytomanagemoneyearlier,whichisgoodfortheirdevelopment.Childrenwillbehappyiftheyoftengetpocketmoney,andtheycanbuywhattheylove,whichcontributestoahappychildhood.Wecanguidechildrentousetheirpocketmoneyproperlytomakegooduseofit.Sometimes,childrenwillbehappytodosometh