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Tablemanners1.TheModernEasterntableManners2.Tablemannersintheancientwestern3.TheancientChinesetablemanners4.ModernChinesetablemanners5.TableMannersinSouthKorea6.TableMannersinJapan7.FrenchTableMannersBehaviorsometimessignalsaperson'sstatus,culture,andfamilyeducationtoothers.Becausethecustomofusingbanquetstosolveproblemsinbusiness,forfriendship,andeveninofficialdombytheChinesepeople,oneshouldpayattentiontomannersatthetable.TheModernEasterntableMannersTableetiquetteServingordersSometipstableetiquette1.Ladyfirst2.Elderfirst3.Comefromtheleftofthechair4.Haveagoodposture•Theimportantguestusuallysitontheleftofthehost/hostess•AvoidtwomenortwoladiessittogetherHaveabreakAfterthemealServingorderStartermaincoursedrinkssoupdessertstarters•specialcuisine•Saltyandsour•VerylittleMainCourse主菜•Beefandchicken•Somesauce•Highcalorie1.Washyouhandsbeforeeachmeal.2.Knifeandspoonareplacedtotherightoftheplate.Theforkisontheleft.3.Openthenapkinandputitonyourlapbeforeeating.4.Talktothepeoplebesideyou,butdon’tspeaktooloudly.5.Youcanuseyourhandtoeatchicken.6.Youeatonlyfromyourplate.+OriginatedfromMerovingiandynasty+theCharlemagneempireofRome+WhentheItaliancultureeffectedFrench+ROMAN------lietoeat+theGauls-----sittoeat+Frenchman----puthandsontable+Britisher--------puthandsonlapTheancientChinesetablemannersBeforeamealDiningAfteramealBeforeamealMaleandfemaleareseparatedSeatorderHowtoplacethefoodServethedishesWorshipDiningChopsticksandspoonFemalenosoupanddrinkCoverthemouthwithsleeveEatwiththehost’s“permission”Can’tdrinksauceCan’tchewtheboneEatuntilalltheguestsfinisheatingAfteramealCleantablewareLeavethetableModernChinesetablemanners•Dressetiquette•Theseat•Pourthetea•Choosedishesfrommenu•Havemeals•Drinking•LeavethetableDressetiquette•Donotdressinamess•Scantily-clad•Tooshort•Tootight•ExaggeratedwearingTheSeat•Arriveearly…wait..telltheguestsseat•Eldersfirst•Businessdinner..boss..mainseat…customers•areinvited,followthehost•Beingseated,startfromtheleftside•Theelbow,notreliable,chairback•Themainseat,facingthedoorpourthetea•Cleantheteaset•Amount,appropriate•Bringgueststea,bothhands•Inatimelymanner,drinkteaoffChoosedishesfromthemenu•Timepermits,takethemenufortheguesttocirculate•Attendabanquet,notbetooactive•Askother’sflavoroffood•DonotaskforasupplyHavemeals•Stopmakingunnecessarynoise•Donottalkwithmouthfull•Donotplaywiththechopsticks,..pointtoothers•Eatslowly•avoidtouchingadjacentseat•Fromtheplateclosetoyou,notfromothers’,…searching•Trynottopickteethinpublicdrinking•Proposeatoast•standup,bothhands•holdsthecuprighthand,cupbottomlefthand,lower•Firstpuring,fortheguestspersonally•Clinkglass,putinagoodwordLeavethetable•Leaveinthemiddle,apologize,notproclaimloudly•RemembertothankTableMannersinSouthKorea●Man-legscrossedwoman-getdownontherightknee(weartraditionaldress)sitwithtwolegstucked(usually)●Donottakeupthebowlanddonottouchthebowlwithmouth.●Putthelefthandunderthetable,andtherighthandtakethespoon.●Thespoonismoreimportantthanthechopsticks.●Donotkeepthespoonandthechopsticksonhandstogether.●Drinksoupfirst,andtheneatotherfood.●Donotmakeasound,anddonotletspoonorchopsticksknockthebowl.●Eatsharedfoodafterpickinguptoeachowndish.●Wrappedinpaperquietlywhentheboneorfishboneinmouth.●Donottoofastortooslow,keepthesamepacewithotherpeople.●Drinkwitheldersonsideways●Donotholdoffwiththehandwheneldersaddfoodtoone,theyoungershouldnodheadtoshowappreciation.●Donottalkbusinesstopics.TableMannersinJapanWhatshouldpayattentiontowhenyoueatsashimi1Todiggingoutsomemustardfromthesashimidishandstiringevenlywiththesoyinasoyplate2、PutsomemustardsticktosashiminanddipitinsoysauceHowtousemustardwheneatsashimiPuttheflavordishestoyourchestJapanesesaycheerswhendrinkingisjustakindofidioms,isnotreallytodrinkafullcupofwine.TheJapanesecheersHowtheshoesshouldbeputwhenyouentertheJapanesguestroom•First,takeoffyourshoesfacingtheroom•Second，Squattingincorridor,pickeduptheshoesbacktoputinside,lestotherskickedaccidentallywhenwalkingDonotcovetconvenient,it'snotpolitethatbacktoroomtotakeofftheshoes.Howtoarrangeseatintheroom•Generallythelocationofthefurthestfromthedooristheseatofhonour,bossorguestshouldsitinthischair•Lowerpositionorseniority,sitintheplacenearesttothedoorWhenotherstreat,shouldweeatallfoodWhereasinJapan,ifyouintentionallyleftsomefood,masterwillworryaboutwhetherthefooddeliciousornot.InJapan,whenotherstreat,stillhadbetternotleftovers.SomepartsneedtobeawareofwhenhavedinnerDonotmakericebowlorsoupbowlonthetablewhenyoueattingriceordrinkingsoup.YoushouldtousehandpickedupthebowltoeatGenerally,useServingchopstickswhenhavingamealtogetherWhenyouneedtoaddrice,donoteatallriceinyoubowl.JapaneseisusedtoleavingalittlericeFRENCHTABLEMANNERSThecontentofdinnerasaladwithvinaigretteforthestarter,maincourse,cheesecourse,dessert,andcoffee.AboutnapkinOncetheladyofthehouseplaceshernapkininherlap,otherguestsshouldfollowsuit.Placeyournapkininyourlapimmediatelyafterbeingseated.BreadBreadisplaceddirectlyonthetableclothYourbreadshouldgointheupperleftedgeofyourplate.Tearyourbreadintoabite-sizedpiecebeforeeatingi