社交礼仪大全英文版ppt101(1)

SOCIALETIQUETTE2SocialEtiquetteAgendaDiningEtiquetteBusinessEtiquetteOfficeEtiquetteTelephoneEtiquetteForeignandCross-cultureEtiquette3SocialEtiquetteSocialmannersareneedednowmorethaneverbeforeWithinformal,openandlaid-backlifestylessweepinginrapidly,ourpersonalconductisconstantlybeingchallengedPossessingsocialmannerisanassertKnowingwhattodoandhowtodoitwithfinesseandstylewillgiveyouthecompetitiveedgewhereveryougo4POWERSPRINCIPLE*1Letthewiselistenandaddtotheirlearning5SocialEtiquetteConsiderationforothersmustalwayscomefirst.Indoingso,weshowrespectGoodmannerspractisedasameanstoanend,eventuallybecomesanintegralpartofyourcharacterAfterall,practisemakesperfect6POWERSPRINCIPLE*2Dountoothersasyouwouldhaveothersdountoyou7SocialEtiquette-GeneralPointstonoteUsephrasesuchas“Thankyou”,“Please”and“I’msorry”GivesincerecomplimentsBeconsiderateofandsensitivetoother’sfeelingsAlwayskeepone’spromisesAlwayskeeptoappointments.Ifyouareunabletomakeitfortheappointmentbecauseofanemergency,calltheotherpartyimmediately8SocialEtiquette-GeneralPointstonoteDonotusesarcasmtodegradeanotherDonotboast,especiallyaboutwhereyouhavetravelledto,ortalkdownanotherDonotgossipbutisdiscreetDonotnamedropDonotbringafriendtoafunctionwithoutfirstcheckingwiththehostDonotaskpersonalquestionsregardingfinance,salaryhousing,carandsoon9POWERSPRINCIPLE*3Humilitycomesbeforehonour10SocialEtiquette-RemindersforMenAllowaladytoenteradiningroomfirstEaseoutthechairfortheladyandhelpseatherifthemaitre’dhasnotdonesoRemainstandinguntilthemaitre’dhaseasedoutthechairfortheladyandsheisseatedStandwhenaladyenterstheroomStandwhenaladygetsuptoleavetheroom11SocialEtiquette-RemindersforMenPlacethelady’sorderwiththewaiterDonotembarrasstheladybysuggestingthatitistimetoendtheeveningAllowtheladytoprecedeyouintotheliftAssisttheladywithherheavypackagesOpenthecarddoorforalady12POWERSPRINCIPLE*4Akindheartedwomangainsrespect13SocialEtiquette-GuidelinesforLadiesDonothesitatetoopenthedoorforamanshouldhisarmsbefulloffilesorparcelsDonotchastiseamanshouldhefailtoextendsocialmannerstoyouBereadytofirstextendsocialcourtesiestoeveryone,ingeneral,andoldermenandwomeninparticularDonotuseyourcharmwiththeollintentionofluringamantobuyyouexpensivegifts14SocialEtiquetteDiningEtiquetteEatingisverymuchawayoflifeinallculturesEatingstyleisquiteanotherball-gamealtogetherTheknowledgeoftablemannerswillenhanceyourconfidenceandincreaseyourenjoymentwhiledining15POWERSPRINCIPLE*5Thecheerfulhearthasacontinualfeast16DiningEtiquette-GeneralpointstonoteDonotmakerevoltingnoises–donotslurpyoursoupnorbelchduringorafterthemealIfyouneedtocough,cupyourhandoveryourmouthandcoughawayfromtheotherDonotcombyourhairorputmake-uporlipstickatthediningtableDonotusetoothpicks,fingernailsor,worsestill,aforktodislodgefoodstuckinbetweenteeth17DiningEtiquetteTherearetwoacceptablestylesofdiningAmericanstyleEuropeanorContinentalstyle18EatingMannersTheDo’sandDon’tsIfyouhavefoodinyourmouth,donottalkDonotchewyourfoodwithyourmouthopenCutuponlyonepieceofmeatatonetimeandeachtimebite-sized,sothatchewingandswallowingbecomeeasierDonotwashdownmouthfulsoffoodwithwater19EatingMannersTheDo’sandDon’tsDonotspitfishbonesontothetablecloth,tablematoronyourplateDonotuseyoursideplateasa“dumpingground”DonotbutterawholeslideofbreadandthenfolditlikeasandwichSmallrollsshouldbebrokenintohalffirstbeforeproceedingasabove20EatingMannersTheDo’sandDon’tsDonotslurpwhendrinkingthesoupDonotblowonhotsoupandfoodWhendrinkingsoup,shouldspoonthesoupaway,catchthedripandbringthespoontothemouthCutfoodwithaslittlenoiseaspossible.Grindingtheknifeagainsttheplatecanactuallybequiteannoying21EatingMannersTheDo’sandDon’tsChewcrispfoodslowlybecausetheymakeacrunchynoiseWheneatinggreasyfood,wipemouthbeforetakingadrinkDobecarefulasyoueat,ensurethetableclothisnotsoiledinanywayEatfoodatagentlepace.Enjoyandrelax.Itisnotnecessarytogulpthefooddownasifitisyourlastmealonearth22SocialConversationsWhenyouarediningdomakesmalltalkssothatyourguestsfeelscomfortableandatease.Topicsshouldbeconfinedtotheweather,sports,commoninterestsandacquaintances,andcurrentaffairsSteerclearoftopicsrelatetoreligion,sexorpersonalproblemswhenyoumakesocialconversationsRememberalsothatthesharingofgossipandcrudejokesshouldnotbepractisedinsuchsituations23POWERSPRINCIPLE*6Putawayperversityfromyourmouth;keepcorrupttalkfarfromyourlips24DiningEtiquette-PostureKeepyourelbowsoffthetable25DiningEtiquette-PostureEatinginstylebynotleaningforward26DiningEtiquette-Napkins&CutleryPlacethenapkinonlapwhenseatedWhenfinishedeating,touchlipslightlywiththenapkinandplaceitneatlyontherightsideofourplateAsallsilverwareandcutleryarecleanoncetheyareplacedonthetable,donotwipethemonyournapkinAvoidpickingupfoodwithyourhandswhenafolkorspoonisprovided27DiningEtiquette-Napkins&CutleryPlacethecutleryinthe“Rest”positionifyouhavenotfinishedeating28DiningEtiquette-Napkins&CutleryWhenyouhavefinishedeating,yourknifeandfolkshouldbeplacedsidebysidewiththefolkfacingupward29DiningEtiquette-Host-Gues