WesternEtiquette西方礼仪Introduction自我介绍姓名:陈静蔼Name:EmmaVistisenPlaceofBirth:HongKongAge:50+WhendidIstarttobeavolunteer?何时开始当义工?1975SocialWelfareDepartmentHongKong香港社会福利署Organizations服务机构香港:黄大仙社会福利署(1975–1976)观塘基督教家庭服务中心(1976–79)Y.W.C.A.女青年会(1979–1986)中国:深圳宝安义工联(2004–现在)CountriesTraveled曾游历国家Europe欧洲多国U.S.A.,Canada美国,加拿大Australia澳大利亚Asia亚洲多国Etiquette礼仪Social社交Dining饮食Business商业School学校Sport运动Telephone/E-mail/Correspondence电话/电邮/书信…..Topics主题SocialEtiquette交际礼仪TableManners餐桌礼仪BuffetEtiquette自助餐礼仪SocialEtiquette社交礼仪Eyecontact眼神Sinceresmile亲切的笑容Bodylanguage身体语言HandShake握手Light/Hard轻重Dryhand干的手Nogloves不要戴手套KissandHug轻吻和拥抱Kiss轻吻Canbeonbothcheeksorononecheek可以是双脸颊或一面Hug拥抱Names姓名BillGateTigerWoodJuliaRobertRyanGiggVenus&SerenaWilliamCorrectSurnames正确的姓氏BillGatesTigerWoodsJuliaRobertsRyanGiggsVenus&SerenaWilliamsHowtostartaconversation?怎样打开话匣子Goodmorning/afternoon/evening早安/下午好/晚上好Iam…我是Mynameis…我的名字是(Iam)pleasedtomeetyou;Nicetomeetyou;Nicemeetingyou幸会Howdoyoudo?你好吗?Hi/Hello,Iam…Response回应Howdoyoudo?Iamfine.Thankyou.Andyou?谢谢,我很好,你呢?Nicetomeetyou.Nicetomeetyoutoo.Neveranswerback“Metoo”千万不可回答“我也是”Howtocontinue?怎样继续交谈?IsthisyourfirsttriptoChina?是不是头一趟来中国?Howwasyourjourney?旅途怎麽样?Jetlag时差HowlonghaveyoubeenlivinginChina?你在中国住了多久?Weather/sport/news天气/体育/新闻Don’ttalkabout避谈Sensitivesubjects敏感话题Religions宗教Politics政治Neveraskthefirsttime头一次见面,千万不要问Age年龄Salary收入Howmuchisyour…你的…要多少钱Maritalstatus婚姻状况Offspring子女MakeanIntroduction给别人作介绍Withanopenhand用手掌Thisis…这位是…MayIintroduceyouto…我给你介绍这位是…Iwouldlikeyoutomeetmy…这位是我的…Seniority/Rank/Title长辈/身份Fromlefttorightorviceversa从左到右或反方向Don’t不要Pointafingeratpeople用手指指向人Yell大声说话/惊叫Eatchewinggum咬口香糖Giggle/coveryourmouthwithyourhand傻笑/用手捂住嘴巴Attendinganappointment应约Punctuality守时Attire/Dresscode衣着Appropriate得体Neatandtidy干净整齐Shoes/socks/stocking鞋袜Nosourclothes不要穿有味道的衣服Watchyourdandruff,teeth,mouthbreath,nosehair,nails注意你的头皮屑,牙齿,口气,鼻毛,手指甲DressCode衣着规定British英式American美式Casual便服Casual便服Informal不隆重的衣着Informal/LoungeSuit较隆重的装束LoungeSuit较隆重的装束Formal/BlackTie隆重的礼服BlackTie隆重的礼服WhiteTie极隆重的礼服WhiteTie极隆重的礼服Talk谈吐Naturalandwarm亲切自然Pitch声调Gesture动作Distance距离Watchyoursaliva不要口水花四溅Beagoodlistener做一个好的聆听者Whenyoustandup站立时Don’tleanonsomething不要靠在物件旁Don’tputyourhandonyourwaistorcrossyourchest不要把手放在腰间或交叉胸前Keepyourhandsinthefrontnaturallyorputthemonthesides把手垂直放在前面或身体两旁Whenyousitdown坐下时Don’tputoneofyourlegsontopoftheother不要把腿放在另一支腿的上面Don’tshakeyourleg不要摇腿Girls,keepyourlegsclosed/crossyourlegswhenyouwearadress如你穿裙子,把你的腿靠拢或交叉双腿Greetsomeone,getupifyouareseated互相打招呼,其中坐着的要站起来Smoking吸烟Neversmokewhenthereisa“nosmoking”sign看到“禁止吸烟”的牌,千万不要吸Askfirst–DoyoumindifIsmoke?如没有,也要先问–你介意我吸烟吗?Yes,Ido我介意Nevermind.Iwillskipit没关系,我不抽Iwillsmokeoutsidethen那我到外面抽Don’t(1)不要Scratchyourhead,yourbody抓头,身体Pickyourear,yournose挖耳,鼻孔Keeponyarning不断的打坷欠Ifyoureallyneedtocough/sneeze,coveryourmouthandnosewithyourlefthand如必须要咳嗽/打喷嚏,用左手捂住口和鼻Excuseme;Godblessyou;Thankyou不好意思Don’t(2)不要GirlsGotothewashroominagroup一起上洗手间BoysCarryyourgirlfriend’shandbag为女朋友拿/背手袋Grooming妆扮Makeup化妆Perfume香水Hair发型Beard胡子Clothes服装Appearanceisyoursecretlanguageofsuccess仪容是你成功的秘密语言