风俗礼仪

中西风俗礼仪对比Week7中西风俗礼仪对比中西家庭伦理精神中西婚姻中西节日家庭伦理的基本精神家庭本位:中国传统的家族私有制及其基础上的宗法人伦秩序所要求的家庭伦理的基本精神是家庭本位,即一切以家庭利益为重,个人必须无条件地服从家庭利益。第一,家庭私有财产制,个人没有财产统理权。第二,婚姻是家庭的事情,个人没有婚姻自主权。个人本位:西方传统个体私有制及其基础上的靠商品交换和契约关系所形成的西方家庭伦理精神是以个人为本位,一切以个人利益为中心,家庭利益服从个人利益。第一,个人有财产权。第二,个人有婚姻自主权。家庭本位和个人本位家庭本位从根本上来说,这是由自给自足的自然经济所决定的。首先,小农经济决定了家庭生产是社会生产的基本方式。其次,家庭是人们主要的活动场所。再次,家庭是人们的情感和精神支柱。个人本位商业贸易的发达优越的交通条件,发达的商品经济和海上贸易,不利于形成古希腊社会中的血缘亲族组织。上帝面前人人平等的思想是建立在承认个性、发展个性的基础上的。中西婚姻对比婚礼仪式的不同中国传统婚礼仪式一拜天地:尊崇天地二拜高堂:上下尊卑的格局夫妻对拜:双方的认同西方神证婚礼仪式(协议\契约)我愿意婚姻基础的不同婚礼仪式1.ThePurposeofChristianMarriage2.LegalDeclarations3.Prayer4.Givingofthebridebyherfatherorfriend5.ThePromises6.TheVows(Legalrequirement)7.TheGivingoftheRingorRings8.Declaration1.ThePurposeofChristianMarriage“WearegatheredhereinthepresenceofGodtocelebratetheweddingofAandBtorejoicewiththem,andtosupportthemwithourprayers.”OrInthepresenceofGod,theFather,SonandHolySpirit,wehavecometogethertowitnessthemarriageofAandB,toprayforGod'sblessingonthem,tosharetheirjoyandtocelebratetheirlove.2.LegalDeclarationsMinistersays:“Ifanyknowofanyreasonwhy[fullnameofthebridegroom]and[fullnameofthebride]maynotlawfullybemarriedtoeachother,letthemnowdeclareit.”Bridegroomsays,“IdosolemnlydeclarethatIknownotofanylawfulimpedimentwhyI,[fullnameofthebridegroom],maynotbejoinedinmatrimonyto[fullnameofbride].”TheBridesays,“IdosolemnlydeclarethatIknownotofanylawfulimpedimentwhyI,[fullnameofthebride],maynotbejoinedinmatrimonyto[fullnameofbridegroom].”3.PrayerFaithfulGod,onlyandeternal,sourceoflifeandspringoflove,wethankandpraiseyouforbringingAandBtothisday,andweprayforthem.Lordoflifeandlove:Maytheirmarriagebelife-givingandlife-long,enrichedbyyourpresenceandstrengthenedbyyourgrace;maytheybringcomfortandconfidencetoeachotherinfaithfulnessandtrust.Lordoflifeandlove:Maythehospitalityoftheirhomebringrefreshmentandjoytoallaroundthem.4.Givingofthebridebyherfatherorfriend“AIgivemydaughterBfreelytoyou.Ichargeyoutocareforher,loveherandprotectherandmakeprovisionforher.Willyoukeepheralwaysasthefirstloveinyourlife?Doyousopromise?TheBridegroomresponds,“Iwill”.5.ThePromisesTheministeraskstheBridegroom:“A,willyoutakeBtobeyourwifeinChristianmarriage?Willyouloveher,comforther,honourandprotecther,intimesofprosperityandhealth,andintimesoftroubleandsuffering,andbefaithfultoheraslongasyoubothshalllive?”TheBridegroomreplies:“Iwill.”TheministersaystotheBride:“B,willyoutakeAtobeyourhusbandinChristianmarriage?Willyoulovehim,comforthim,honourandprotecthim,intimesofprosperityandhealth,andintimesoftroubleandsuffering,andbefaithfultohimaslongasyoubothshalllive?”TheBridereplies:“Iwill.”6.TheVows(Legalrequirement)TheBridegroom/Bridesays:“IcalluponthesepersonsherepresenttowitnessthatI,[Fullnameofthebridegroom/Bride],dotakethee,[Fullnameofbride/bridegroom]tobemylawfulweddedwife/husbandinaccordancewithGod'sholywill,tohaveandtoholdfromthisdayforward,forbetter,forworse,forricher,forpoorer,insicknessandinhealth,toloveandtocherishtilldeathusdopart.ThisismyfaithfulpromiseandinthepresenceofGodImakethisvow.”新郎/新娘我希望在座的各位见证，我_____，娶你______，做我的合法妻子/丈夫。我愿对你承诺，从今天开始，无论是顺境或是逆境，富有或贫穷，健康或疾病，我将永远爱你、珍惜你直到地老天长。我当着上帝的面做此忠实的承诺。7.TheGivingoftheRingorRings“GodourFather,fromalleternityyouloveus;LordJesusChrist,inloveyoucameamongus;HolySpirit,yougaveusloveasyourgreatestgift.Blessthegivingandreceivingofthisring/theserings,symbol(s)ofunendingloveandfaithfulnessandreminder(s)ofthepromisesmadethisday.WeaskitinyourNamewhichisaboveeveryName,theNameofJesus.Amen.”8.DeclarationTheministerjoinstheirrighthandstogetherandaddressesthecongregation.AandBhavedeclaredbeforeGodandbeforeyouthattheywilllivetogetherinChristianmarriage;theyhavemadesacredpromisestoeachother,andhavesymbolisedtheirmarriagetodaybyjoininghandsandbythegivingandreceivingofaring/rings.IthereforebytheauthoritygrantedtomeasaministerofJesusChristIpronouncethemtobehusbandandwife,inthenameofGod,theFather,Son,andHolySpirit.WhomGodhasjoinedtogether,letnooneseparate.Amen.中西方婚姻的基础中国的婚姻以生育为基础,西方的婚姻以性爱为基础。中国婚姻重家庭责任,西方婚姻重个人感情。西方人结婚,是个人的权利,中国人结婚,却是家庭的一种义务。PrideParadesPrideparadesfortheLGBTcommunityareeventscelebratinglesbian,gay,bisexual,andtransgender(LGBT)culture.Theeventsalsoattimesserveasdemonstrationsforlegalrightssuchassame-sexmarriage.中西节日比较中国传统节日源远流长、绚丽多姿,如春节、元宵节、清明节、端午节、七夕节、中秋节、重阳节等。这些节日是社会发展到一定阶段,人类群体在社会生活中约定俗成的产物,与天文、历法、民族思维方式、民间信仰、文化心理等有着密不可分的关系。西方的传统节日大多是建立在宗教尤其是基督教文化之上的。从英语辞源学上看,“节日”(holiday/holyday)一词本来就是“神的日子”,或者“献身宗教的日子”。中西节日的差别一、节日娱乐中狂欢的内敛与狂放二、宗教信仰的世俗化与神圣化三、集体意识与个性追求四、饮食文化与精神文化