男女之间的区别(英语)ppt课件

Notnaturalenemies,butthedifferencesinthinking,letthemfeudingwitheachother1ThedialogueofmisunderstandingWoman:Yes,Ijustfeelwronged.WhyotherpeoplecandriveaBMWeverydaybutIponder(琢磨)repeatedlyeventakingataxi.Man:Icannotgiveyoutheseandyoujustgooutofthehousetofindthesepeoplewhocangiveyou.Woman:Idonotwanttotakethebusanymore!It’stoocrowded!Theworsethingisthatotherssteppedonmykicks.Man:Youarenottheonlyoneinthecrowded.Weallgotoworkbybus.Woman:someoneissomeoneelse,Iamme!Ijustcannotstand!Man:Youcanjusttakeataxi,I‘llreimburse(报销)you.Woman:Comeon,lookatyoupatheticwages.Man:Doyouthinkyouarewronged(受委屈的)becauseIcannotbuyacarforyou.2Man:1)Theydonotunderstandawoman'srapidchangingidea.2)Manliketomakethingssimple,especiallyforemotionalaspect.3)Manfearmostisthatthewomansaythathewasworsethanothers.ThedialogueofmisunderstandingWoman:1)Towinthesympathyofothers.2)Infact,shejustneedasimplecomfort.3)Justwantthemantobegoodtoher.Analysis:3Somecomics--buyaphoneMan:A:Whatphonedoyouwant?B:Thecpushouldbefournuclearswithlargescreen……Woman：A:Whatphonedoyouwant?B:Apinkone.4Somecomics--Apologize.Womanapologizetoman:A:Baby,I'msorry,Iloveyou.B:Doyouknowwhat’swrong.A:B:Well,IforgiveyouManapologizetowoman:A:Dear,I‘msorry,Iwaswrong.B:Nothingwrongwithyou.A:Idefinitelychangenexttime.B:youdon’tneedanychange.A:Iloveyou.B:Iknow.B:?5Somecomics--eatingWoman:Beforetheeating:A:I’mstarvingtodeath,Icaneattenbowlsofrice.Aftereatingabowl:A:I’mfull.Man:Beforetheeating:A:I’mnotveryhungry,eatingabiteisOK.Aftereatingabowl:A:Abowlmore.6Somecomics--fighting.Boysbecomereconciledsoonafterthefighting.Womenwillharborresentmentlongafterthefighting7Hobbies:Woman’shobbiesfromchildhoodtoadultshopping8Man’shobbiesfromchildhoodtoadult9Shopping:Womantreatshoppingasapleasure,theycannotevenbuyanythingbutanafternoonstroll,thereby,mancan’tdothatvoluntary.Amanwillpay$2fora$1itemheneeds.Awomanwillpay$1fora$2itemthatshedoesn'tneed,butit'sonsale.10TalkingandSpeaking:Observingthelesbianandgayperspectively，thereexistsaverybigdifference.Althoughthereisnofiguredescribedsoobviously,I'msurethatthemostofthewomenmaypaymoreattentiontodetails,whilemenoftentakeiteasy11Takethetelephoneforexample,Menseeitjustasacommunicationaltool.Theyusethetelephonetosendshortmessagestootherpeople.Awomancallonefriendwhommeteachotherthismorningandtheycouldtalkforseveralhours.12Asimpleconversationcanbedifferenteventtoamanandawoman.Foraman,aconversationisawaytodefineaproblem,debatetherightsandwrongs,andfindasolution.Butawomanwouldratherhaveafriendlyearfromaman,insteadofadvice.Womenmoreoftenviewconversationasawayofsharingtheiremotionswiththelistener.Theytalkuntiltheyfeelbetter.Beingmysympatheticear13Conclusion:Althoughtherearemanydifferencebetweenmenandwomen,it’llnotbedifficultforustocommunicatewitheachotherandmakeourselvesunderstood,ifwetrytocooperatewithotherpeopleinourlifeandwork-time.Actually,eachofusshouldthinkabouttheprobleminthewayourpartnersthinkaboutit,orperhaps,weexchangeourthoughtsmoreoften.wehopethatthedifferencecanberecognizedandsolvedproperly,andthen,thesocietywillbemoreharmoniousthannow14Iamaviolent,Iamacolorfemale.Youarethewhole.Notgood,EnglishcannotreadCAIbrothermakingIamabeautifulwoman15