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FriendshipWhatisfriendship?Itseemsaveryeasyquestion，butinfactitisnot.Iftwoormorepeoplewhooftenplaytogetheraretruefriends?Idon’tthinkso.Friendshipisakindofrelationshipbetweentwoormorepeople,whichcanimprovepeopletocommunicatewitheachother.Alsofriendshipcanhelppeoplegothroughthehardesttimeandsolvingthornyproblem.Truefriendshipmustbaseontrust,appreciation,commonhobbiesandideal.Peopleoftensay:’Truegolddoesnotfearfire’.Inthesameway,Truefriendshipdoesnotfearthetestoftime.Somepeoplehadmanyfriendswhentheyareyoung,butwhentimewentby,theirfriendswentfarawayandhadseldomcommunication.Onceoneofthemhadaproblem,whichoftenislackofmoney,heorshemightgetintouchwithotherssoon.Actually,wearewillingtolendmoneytotheminmostcases.Butsomeofusareaversetodothis.Itisoverwhelmingbecauseofthe‘friendship’.Butthiskindoffriendshipcanjusthelpustosolvesomesimpleproblemslikeborrowingmoney.Someimportantquestionwhichisaboutourmindorspiritcannotbesolved.Trustingourtruefriendsistrustingourselves.Ifwecan’ttrustourfriends,whatcantheydowhenwemeetthebigchallenge?Sowearesurethattrustisthefundamentalelement.Thenwemustappreciatetheothers,andthat’swhytheyappreciateusandrespectus.Appreciationalsomeanscommonhobbiesandcommonideal.That’sthemostimportantthing,becausetheidealispure,greatanddurableandithasnothingtodowithdesireandbenefit.Itcancombineustothesamewayandthenwecangetsuccesseasier.Howcanwegetthetruefriendship?Weshouldgetintouch,helpeachotherandencourageeachother.Soitsurfacesthatfriendshipisnotreason,butitisaresult.Doyouwanttomakemorefriends?Lookforwhohasthesamehobbywithyou,andthenevenlookforthepeopleonthesameway.