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没有过不去的坎儿ThereAarenoSuchSetbacksThatweCouldnotOverc_英语美文Ourtoleratingabilityisindeedwaybeyondourimagination.Butnotuntiltheverycriticalmomentwillwerealizeourpotentialtoleratingability.人的承受能力，其实远远超出我们的想象。但是不到关键时刻，我们很少能够意识自己的潜力。Therewasawomaninthecountrysidewhogotmarriedattheageof18andhadtoescapewithhertwodaughtersandasonwherevershecouldattheageof26duetotheJapanesearmy’sinvasion.Manypeopleinthevillageatthattimecouldnotbearthesufferingofbeingafugitiveandwantedtocommitsuicide.Aftersheknewaboutit,shewouldcometothosepeopleandsoothedthembysaying,“Don’tdothatsillything.Therearenosuchsetbacksthatwecouldnotovercome.TheJapanesearmiesareboundtobefoiledoneday!”有一位农村妇女，18岁结婚，26岁时日本人侵略中国，在农村进行大扫荡，她不得不经常带着两个女儿一个儿子东躲.。村里很多人受不了这种暗无天日的折磨，想到了自尽，她得知后就会去劝：“别这样啊，没有过不去的坎，日本鬼子不会总这么猖狂的。”FinallysheinsisteduntilthedaywhenalltheJapanesearmieswerekickedoutofChina.Nonetheless,hersondiedofdiseasewithoutsufficientmedicineandnutritioninthosedaysofhardships.Herhusband,afterknowingthedeathofhisson,layinbedfortwodayswithouteatinganddrinkinganything.Shetearedtoherhusbandandsaid,“Wehaveatoughdestiny,buthowevertoughourliveswillbe,weshouldalsopersist.Thoughoursonhaspassedaway,wecanhaveanother.Therearenosuchsetbacksthatwecouldnotovercome.”她终于熬到了把鬼子赶出中国的那一天，可是她的儿子却在那炮火连天的岁月里，由于缺医少药，又极度缺乏营养，因病夭折了。丈夫不吃不喝在床上躺了两天两夜，她流着泪对丈夫说：“咱们的命苦啊，不过再苦咱也得过啊，儿子没了，咱再生一个，人生没有过不去的坎。”Aftergivingbirthtothesecondson,herhusbanddiedofedema,whichalmostblewheraway.Buteventually,sherecoveredandcuddledthethreeyoungchildren,saying,“Mysweethearts,don’tfeelscared.Youstillhaveme,yourdearmum!”刚刚生了儿子，丈夫因患水肿病离开了人世。在这个打击下，她很长时间都没回过神来，但最后还是挺过来了，她把三个未成年的孩子揽到自己怀里，说：“娘还在呢，有娘在，你们就别怕。”Ittookherpainstakingeffortstoraiseherchildrenupandthelifeofherfamilywasgettingbetterandbetter.Twodaughtersweremarriedandsowashissonfinally.Shesaidtoeveryoneshemet,“Look!WhatIsaidisabsolutelyright.Therearenosuchsetbacksthatwecouldnotovercome!Mylifeissohappynow!”Shewasaginggraduallyandcouldnotdothefarmworkanymore.Soshestayedathomeanddidsomestitchingwork.她含辛茹苦地把孩子一个个拉扯大了，生活也慢慢好转起来。两个女儿嫁了人，儿子也结了婚。她逢人便乐呵呵地说：“我说吧，没有过不去的坎，现在生活多好啊。”她年纪大了，不能下地干活，就在家纳鞋底，做衣服，缝缝补补。Nevertheless,theHeavenseemedtoshownoaffectiontoherwhohadundergonearoughlife.Shegotherlegbrokenaccidentallywhenshewasnursinghergrandson.Duetoheroldagethatposedagreatrisktoheroperation,shedidnotreceiveoperationandhadtolieinbedalldaylong.Herchildrenallcriedheavily,whileshemerelysaid,“Whydoyoucry?Iamstillliving.”可是，上苍似乎并不眷顾这位一生坎坷的妇女，她在照看孙子时不小心摔断了腿，由于年纪太大做手术危险，就一直没有做手术，她每天只能躺在床上。儿女们都哭了，她却说：“哭什么，我还活着呢。”Eventhoughshecouldnotrisefrombed,shedidnotcomplainaboutanythingandanybody.Instead,shesatonthebedanddidsomestitchingwork.Shehadlearntscarves-weaving,broidery,crafts-making,etc.Allherneighborsspokehighlyofherskillsandcametolearnfromher.即便下不了床，她也没有怨天尤人，而是坐在床上做针线活。她会织围巾，会绣花，会编手工艺品，左邻右舍的人都夸她手艺好，还来跟她学艺。Sheliveduntil86.BeforeshewenttoHeaven,shesaidtoherchildren,“Youallshouldlivetoyourbest.Therearenosuchsetbacksthatwecouldnotovercome!”她活到86岁，临终前，她对自己儿女们说：“都要好好过啊，没有过不去的坎。”Wewillonlygettorealizeourownironwillandstrongtoleratingabilityaftergettingstrickenheavily.Therefore,nomatterwhatyouaresufferingfromnow,donotmerelycomplainabouttheunfairnessofourdestinyandmaintainlow-spiritedallthetime.Therearenosuchsetbacksthatwecouldnotovercome.Onlythosewhohavenoconfidenceandcouragetoovercomesetbackswillbedefeatedatlast!人总是在遭遇一次重创之后，才会幡然醒悟，重新认识自己的坚强和坚忍。所以，无论你正在遭遇什么磨难，都不要一味抱怨上苍不公平，甚至从此一蹶不振。人生没有过不去的坎，只有过不去的人。