2019-2020学年高中英语 Module 1 Small Talk Section Ⅰ Intr

美文·欣赏课前自主预习课堂合作探究随堂即时巩固生活中我们最幸福时……InLifeWeAreHappiestWhen...Amanandhisgirlfriendweremarried.Itwasalargecelebration.Alloftheirfriendsandfamilycametoseethelovelyceremonyandtopartakeofthefestivitiesandcelebrations.Allhadawonderfultime.Thebridewasgorgeousinherwhiteweddinggownandthegroomwasverydashinginhisblacktuxedo.Everyonecouldtellthatthelovetheyhadforeachotherwastrue.Afewmonthslater,thewifecametothehusbandwithaproposal,“Ireadinamagazine,awhileago,abouthowwecanstrengthenourmarriage，”sheoffered.“Eachofuswillwritealistofthethingsthatwefindabitannoyingwiththeotherperson.Then,wecantalkabouthowwecanfixthemtogetherandmakeourliveshappiertogether...”Thehusbandagreed.Soeachofthemwenttoaseparateroominthehouseandthoughtofthethingsthatannoyedthemabouttheother.Theythoughtaboutthisquestionfortherestofthedayandwrotedownwhattheycameupwith.Thenextmorning,atthebreakfasttable,theydecidedthattheywouldgoovertheirlists.“I'llstart，”offeredthewife.Shetookoutherlist.Ithadmanyitemsonit,enoughtofill3pages.Infact,asshestartedreadingthelistofthelittleannoyances，shenoticedthattearswerestartingtoappearinherhusband'seyes.“What'swrong?”sheasked.“Nothing，”thehusbandreplied，“keepreadingyourlist.”Thewifecontinuedtoreaduntilshehadreadallthreepagestoherhusband.Sheneatlyplacedherlistonthetableandfoldedherhandsoverthetopofit.“Now,youreadyourlistandthenwe'lltalkaboutthethingsonbothofourlists，”shesaidhappily.Quietlythehusbandstated,“Idon'thaveanythingonmylist.Ithinkthatyouareperfectthewaythatyouare.Idon'twantyoutochangeanythingforme.YouarelovelyandwonderfulandIwouldn'twanttotryandchangeanythingaboutyou.”Thewife,touchedbyhishonestyandthedepthofhisloveforherandhisacceptanceofher,turnedherheadandwept.Inlife,thereareenoughtimeswhenwearedisappointed,depressedandannoyed.Wedon'treallyhavetogolookingforthem.Wehaveawonderfulworldthatisfullofbeauty,lightandpromise.Whywastetimeinthisworldlookingforthebad,disappointingorannoyingwhenwecanlookaroundus,andseethewondrousthingsbeforeus?SectionⅠIntroduction&VocabularyandReading课文预读释疑————————原文呈现]—————————HowGoodAreYourSocialSkills?Haveyouevercrossedtheroadtoavoidtalking①tosomeoneyourecognise?Wouldyoulovetogotoapartyandtalkconfidently②toeveryguest?Doyouwanttomakemorefriends③butlack④theconfidencetotalktopeopleyoudon'tknow⑤？Andareyounervousabout⑥theideaofbeingatasocialeventinanothercountry?Don'tworry—wecanhelpyou!Youneedn't⑦worryaboutsituations⑧liketheseifyouhavegoodsocialskills.Andtheyareeasytolearn⑨.Peoplewithgoodsocialskillscommunicatewellandknowhowtohaveaconversation⑩.Ithelpsifyoudoalittleadvanceplanning⑪.Hereareafewideastohelpyou.—————————[读文清障]——————————①avoiddoingsth.避免做某事avoid后接动名词作宾语，不可接动词不定式。②confidently/'kɒnfIdəntli/adv.自信地③makefriends交朋友，建立友谊makefriendswith与……交朋友④lack/læk/v.缺乏，缺少⑤youdon'tknow为省略了关系词的定语从句，修饰先行词people。⑥(be)nervousabout对……神经紧张/害怕/胆怯/焦虑不安⑦needn't没有必要，不必⑧situationn．情景，情形⑨beeasytolearn易于学习⑩haveaconversation交谈⑪advance/əd'vɑːns/adj.预先的，在前的doplanning做计划，做准备你的社交技能有多高？[第1～3段译文]你是否做过这样的事情：看见认识的人以后，故意过马路以避免与其说话？你是否愿意参加聚会并自信地和每位来宾交谈？你是否想结交更多的朋友但又缺乏与陌生人交谈的信心？你是否一想到要在别的国家参加社交活动就觉得忐忑不安？别担心——我们能帮助你！如果你具备了良好的社交技能，你就不用担心这样的情景。而且这些技能是容易学习的。具备良好社交技能的人能很好地和别人交流并且知道怎样交谈。要是预先做些准备，将会对你有所帮助。下面有些主意可以帮助你。LearnhowtodosmalltalkSmalltalkisveryimportantandpreparesyouformoreseriousconversations⑫.Beprepared!Havesomelowrisk⑬conversationopenersready.Forexample：•thinkof⑭arecentnewsstory—nottooserious,e．g.astoryaboutafilmstarorsportsstar•thinkofthingstotellpeopleaboutyourstudies•thinkof“safe”thingsyoucanaskpeople'sopinionsabout⑮—music,sport,films,etc.•thinkoftopicsthatyouwouldavoidifyouweretalkingtostrangers⑯—andavoidtalkingaboutthem!Thatway⑰，youdon'tdamageyourconfidence！⑫preparesb.forsth.使某人对某事有所准备⑬low­riskadj.低风险的，不太会出错的⑭thinkof想起，回忆起⑮youcanaskpeople'sopinionsabout为定语从句，修饰things。引导词that或which在从句中作about的宾语，在此被省略。⑯thatyouwouldavoid...为定语从句，修饰先行词topics；if从句中be动词用了were，这是虚拟语气的用法。⑰thatway作方式状语，其前面省略了介词in。[第4段译文]学会怎样聊天聊天是很重要的，并能帮助你为一些更严肃的谈话做准备。有备无患！准备好几句不太会出错的开场白。例如：·想出一个最近的新闻故事——不要太严肃，譬如，一个有关电影明星或体育明星的故事·想出一些有关你学习的事情告诉别人·想出一些“不会出错”的事情询问别人的意见——音乐、体育、电影等·想出一些和陌生人谈话时要回避的话题——并且要避免谈论这些话题！那样，你的自信心就不会被伤害了！Develop⑱yourlisteningskillsListeningisaskillwhichmostpeoplelack⑲，butcommunicationisatwo­way⑳process○21—itinvolves○22speakingANDlistening.Alwaysremember—youwon'timpress○23peopleifyoutalktoomuch.Herearesomeideastomakeyouabetterlistener：Do...•showthatyouarelisteningbyusingencouraging○24noisesandgestures—smiling,nodding○25，saying“uh­huh”and“OK”，etc.•keepgoodeyecontact○26•usepositivebodylanguage○27•askfor○28moreinformationtoshowyourinterestDon't...•lookatyourwatch•yawn○29•sigh○30•lookawayfrom○31thepersonwho'stalkingtoyou•changethesubject○32•finishotherpeople'ssentencesforthemAlwaysrememberthewordsofBenjaminDisraeli,BritishPrimeMinister○33inthe19thcentury:“Talktoamanabouthimself,andhewillspeaktoyouforhours！”⑱developvt.提高，使……发展；培养；培育；开采；冲洗⑲which引导定语从句，修饰askill。⑳two­wayadj.双向的○21processn．过程○22involvev．涉及，牵连，常用involvedoingsth.表示“涉及做某事”。beinvolvedin卷入……中，涉及beinvolvedwith和……有联系○23impressv．给……留下印象impresssth.onsb.使某人了解某事impresssb.withsth.某事给某人留下印象○24en