1Module3BodylanguageandNonverbalCommunication身势语会在不经意间表露一个人的心理。解读身势语,请看下文……Bodylanguageisthequiet,secretandmostpowerfullanguageofall!Itissaidthatourbodymovementscommunicateabout50percentofwhatwereallymeanwhilewordsonlyexpress7percent.So,whileyourmouthisclosed,yourbodyisjustsaying...Arms.Howyouholdyourarmsshowshowopenandreceptiveyouaretopeopleyoumeet.Ifyoukeepyourarmstothesidesofyourbodyorbehindyourback,thissuggestsyouarenotafraidoftakingonwhatevercomesyourway.Outgoingpeoplegenerallyusetheirarmswithbigmovements,whilequieterpeoplekeepthemclosetotheirbodies.Ifsomeoneupsetsyou,justcrossyourarmstoshowyou'reunhappy!Head.Whenyouwanttoappearconfident,keepyourheadlevel.Ifyouareamonitorinclass,youcanalsotakeonthispositionwhenyouwantyourwordstobetakenseriously.However,tobefriendlyinlisteningorspeaking,youmustmoveyourheadalittle.Legs.Yourlegstendtomovearoundalotmorethannormalwhenyouarenervousortellinglies.Ifyouareatinterviews,trytokeepthemstill!Posture.Agoodposturemakesyoufeelbetteraboutyourself.Ifyouarefeelingdown,younormallydon'tsitstraight,withyourshouldersinwards.Thismakesbreathingmoredifficult,whichcanmakeyoufeelnervousoruncomfortable.Mouth.Whenyouarethinking,youoftenpurseyourlips.Youmightalsousethispositiontoholdbackanangrycommentyoudon'twishtoshow.However,itwillprobablystillbenoticed,andpeoplewillknowyou'renotpleased.Face.Whenyoulie,youmightputonafalseface.Butthatexpressionwouldcrackbriefly,allowingdisplaysoftrueemotionssuchashappiness,sadness,disgustandfeartocomethrough.[阅读障碍词]1.posturen.姿势2.pursev.撅起(嘴唇)3.crackv.使破裂24.disgustn.厌恶[诱思导读]根据短文内容,判断正(T)误(F)1.It'ssaidthatourbodymovementscommunicatemorethanourwords.()2.Asamonitor,whenyouwantyourwordstobetakenseriously,youshouldkeepyourheadupwards.()3.Notsittingstraightcanmakebreathingeasierthanever.()[答案]1-3TFFSectionⅠWarmingUp,Prereading&ReadingⅠ.匹配下列单词的词性及汉语意思()1.communicationA.n.武器()2.unconsciousB.n.协议;交易()3.varyC.n.交流;沟通()4.aggressiveD.n.姿势;姿态()5.weaponE.v.变化()6.gestureF.v.包括()7.threateningG.v.张开()8.dealH.adj.无意的;不知不觉的()9.involveI.adj.恐吓的;具有威胁的()10.spreadJ.adj.攻击的;挑斗的;挑衅的[答案]1-5CHEJA6-10DIBFGⅡ.选择下列句中词组的汉语意思A.举起B.赠送;捐赠;暴露(自己的情况)C.与……握手D.(保持)警惕;站岗E.达成协议;做成交易F.不仅仅是1.WhenwespendtheSpringFestivalhappilyeveryyear,oursoldiersarestillonguardforourmotherland.________2.Weshakehandswhenwemakeadeal.Itmeans,“Weagreeandwetrusteachother.”________3.—Haveyougotanygoodplans,Jack?—Let'sgotothecharitytogiveawaysomemoneyandoldclothes.________4.Whenaskedtomakeanapology,hehelduphisheadandsaid,“Apology?3Why?”________5.Theyshookhandswitheachotherandthensatdown.________6.Ittakesmorethanmoneytohelpthoseinneed;italsotakeslove.________【答案】1-6DEBACFIfyousaytheword“communication”,mostpeoplethinkofwordsandsentences.Althoughtheseareveryimportant,wecommunicatewithmorethanjustspokenandwrittenwords.Indeed,bodypositionsarepartofwhatwecall“bodylanguage”.①Weseeexamplesofunconsciousbodylanguageveryoften,yetthereisalso“learned”bodylanguage,whichvariesfromculturetoculture②.说起“交流”这个词,大多数人会想到词语和句子。尽管这些很重要,但我们并不只是通过口头和书面语言交流。实际上,身体的姿态是我们所称的“肢体语言”的一部分。我们经常看到无意识的肢体语言的例子,但也有“习得的”肢体语言,“习得的”肢体语言在不同的文化中各不相同。[助读讲解]①本句中whatwecall“bodylanguage”为what引导的宾语从句,作介词of的宾语。②whichvariesfromculturetoculture是which引导的非限制性定语从句,修饰先行词“learned”bodylanguage。Weuse“learned”bodylanguagewhenweareintroducedtostrangers.Likeotheranimals,weareonguarduntilweknowitissafetorelax③.Soeveryculturehasdevelopedaformalwaytogreetstrangers,toshowthemwearenotaggressive.④Traditionally,EuropeansandAmericansshakehands.Theydothiswiththerighthand—thestrongesthandformostpeople.Ifourrighthandisbusygreetingsomeone,itcannotbeholdingaweapon.Sothegestureissaying,“Itrustyou.Look,I'mnotcarryingathreateningweapon.”Ifyoushakehandswithsomeone,youshowyoutrustthem.Weshakehandswhenwemakeadeal.Itmeans,“Weagreeandwetrusteachother.”当我们被介绍给陌生人时,我们使用“习得的”肢体语言。和别的动物一样,除非我们感觉到很安全才会放松,否则将一直处于戒备状态。所以,每一种文化都形成了一种正规的方式来问候陌生人,以向他们表明我们并没有敌意。欧美人的传统是握手。他们握右手——4右手对大多数人来说最有力。如果我们的右手忙着和别人打招呼,就不可能握有武器了。因此,这种手势的意思是:“我信任你。瞧,我没带威胁性的武器。”假如你和别人握手,就表明你信任他们。当我们达成协议时,我们握手。意思就是:“我们达成了协议,相互信任。”[助读讲解]③本句中until引导时间状语从句,其中itissafetorelax是宾语从句,作动词know的宾语;宾语从句中it为形式主语,不定式短语为真正的主语。④本句中togreetstrangers为不定式短语作定语修饰aformalway,toshowthemwearenotaggressive为不定式短语作目的状语。GreetingsinAsiancountriesdonotinvolvetouchingtheotherperson,buttheyalwaysinvolvethehands.TraditionallyinChina,whenwegreetsomeone,weputtherighthandovertheleftandbowslightly.Muslimsgivea“salaam”,wheretheytouchtheirheart,mouthandforehead⑤.Hindusjointheirhandsandbowtheirheadsinrespect.Inalloftheseexamples,thehandsarebusywiththegreetingandcannotholdaweapon.亚洲国家的问候并不包括触摸别人,但总是有手的接触。与人打招呼时,中国人的传统方式是将右手放在左手上,稍稍躬身而行礼。穆斯林行“额手礼”,用手触心、嘴和前额。印度人双手交合,恭敬地行合十礼。在上述例子中,手都在忙于打招呼,不可能拿武器。[助读讲解]⑤wheretheytouch...是where引导的非限制性定语从句,修饰先行词a“salaam”。Eventoday,whensomepeoplehaveveryinformalstylesofgreeting,theystillusetheirhandsasagestureoftrust.Americanyouthsoftengreeteachotherwiththeexpression,“Givemefive!”Onepersonthenholdsuphishand,palmoutwardsandfivefingersspread⑥.Theotherpersonraiseshishandandslapstheothers'openhandabovetheheadina“highfive”.Nowadays,itisquiteacommongree